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My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now?
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You know your body better than anyone else in the world, and you know how your menstrual cycle works. You, for one, are not stressing about the possibility of a pregnancy. However, your guy is. I think that the considerate and sensible thing to do in this situation is to go ahead and buy a pregnancy test, just to make sure. It may not be what you want to do; however, it seems to make more sense to me.
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tell him to chill out you know your body than any other girl....n tell him when u start to worry youll get checked out....tell him hes makin it hard on u n stressin you out....hope i helped
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You said it: you know best when your period will come. If it doesn't show up in a few days, keep in mind that it takes about three weeks from the point of conception/pregnancy for it to show up on a pregnancy test.
If your boyfriend is reacting this way - and it's understandable - I would imagine he isn't ready for the pressures that sex can bring. Unless either of you is ready to handle the possibility of an unplanned pregnancy, maybe it's time to take a break from sex.
It sounds like the pressure is not only on him, but on your entire relationship. I'm sure you started having sex because you felt close, but sex is now causing you to pull apart. Reevaluate the situation, and ask him to as well.
When and if your period comes, try to remember how badly it felt to not be sure - and to have your boyfriend acting in a paniced way.
Best of luck.
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Well just to be 100% positive maybe you should go to the clinic since you havent had your period yet!! But maybe itz just coming late!! Sometimes your period does come late!! hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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tell him you know your period and he doesnt, so he btetr slow his roll or you guys arent screwing any morre because he makes it too complicated, lol he'll shut up quick. tell him that if your period is more hten a week late, youll buy a test.
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I would go to a clinic and get a test done. I would not wait. I would also take a second look at what you are doing and I would realize that you have your whole life ahead of you and think twice about sex. I messed up my life as I wanted to save myself for the right man and now that I may have the "right man" it will be special when we do get together (after marriage)but not as special as it could have been. I would also tell the Dr at the clinic about the lateness of your cycles, there maybe hidden issues (health wise)
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go get a test...if you arent pregnent,then deffinatly dump your bf...if you are, tell him and make him feel really bad...then go to a gyno and get it removed before anything happens...its not wrong to have sex...just do it with someone who isnt that big of a jackass
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First off, it seems as if your boyfriend is too into the sex than worrying about how you feel. You should just tell him straight up that he's stressing you out! Just because he seems to know the period times of other girls dosn't mean that you are the same. All girls are different for their period cycles.
As for having sex with him..If you used condoms you wouldn't have to worry about being pregnant in the first place. So you shouldn't take risks like that if you are worried about becoming pregnant.
And for getting the test..If you are really that worried about being pregnant, the best thing to do is to get a test.
I hope this helped!
X_Amanda_X
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Don't let him stress you out, that will just make it later. The birth control SHOULD regulate it, but that doesn't mean anything. If you're still concerned, go get a test done.
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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Just because you don't like the advice you asked for doesn't mean it's bad advice.
You wouldn't have to worry about your "fuckin period" if you were using condoms and having safe sex, honey.
Given your and his lack of knowledge on the subject to begin with - you shouldn't be having sex anyhow. Grow up first and find yourself a real boyfriend.... obviously he's only concerned with the sex, not about you.
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Well, first off, as you said, you're a girl and you know your period schedule well, so you have nothing to worry about until you know. And second, I don't think you should be having sex with your boyfriend if hes acting the way you've described just because you don't get your period on the day he and you expect. Don't let your boyfriends yelling keep you from being confident that it will come soon, you buy a test when you think that something isn't right. Not when hes yelling at you and stressing you out. And you need to have a serious word with him about that and say, "hey, I am a women, this is my period, I know when my period arrives better than you will ever know. So you better stop yelling, I understand that you're under stress, but you're making me stressed and if having sex with you means going through you yelling at me, its not worth it, you need to stop and relax." Now, he may take it wrong, but he needs to know, hes honestly got no right to act like he knows your period.
-TheTeenGirl
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if your still irregular, then dont worry too much about it just yet. If like, in a week or two you still havent gotton it, then you should probably take a test, just to be on the careful side.
Jessy
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I think just to be SAFE you shoould deffinitly buy an at home test...so you can do it privatly..and about ur boyfriend...telll him what u just told us.
And get a test just to be safe.
hope i helped
-*-Hanny-*-
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i would say yes go to a clinic just to be on the safe side but i doubt your pregnant because that happens to me too but like if you were pregnant, trust me, girls know when theyre pregnant even if they arent "big" like you will have this gut feeling and you dont seem like you think so so i know how that goes
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Cycles vary from woman to woman. If you have irregular periods, there will be more of a difference. Yes, you should know about your period. He should judge when your period should come on other girls. I wouldn't stress about it because it'll probably make your period not come at all. Unless you have other symptoms of pregnancy (morning sickness, breast tenderness, tiredness, peeing a lot, etc) I wouldn't worry about getting a test just yet.
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you dont have to go to a clinic....but if your periods like that you might want to get birth control pills so you can have a steady period and it would also be having safer sex
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i think you should buy a tes tand see how that turns out and than maybe a wait few more days and do another test just to be sure go0d luck
*ariana*
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just go buy a home pregencey (sp?) test and prove to him you eaither you are pregent or you are not
well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
~kelly
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UMMM...ii THiiNK THAT YOU SHOULD GO GET A TEST JUST TO BE ON THE SAFE SiiDE YOU KNOW! AND YOU NEED TO TELL HiiM TO STOP WORRiiNG AND TO STOP STRESSiiNG YOU OUT!HOPE ii HELPED!XoXoDiiNA!♥
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Home tests are quite accurate, and very easy to take. They're also not expensive. So if you're worrying about it at all, there's no reason not to take one.
I have to say, though, that your boyfriend really doesn't seem to be treating you properly. He has no right to yell at you.
I also hope that you're using birth control - preferably, two different kinds. The pill or patch plus condoms are probably the safest and most effective combination. Of course, it's important to take your pills regularly - and to read the instructions on the condoms and use them correctly, too.
Good luck!
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With something like this I say be as careful as you can be. Wait a while and if it's a few days late don't worry about it. Periods come at different times. If it comes a week late. Go. And soon. You don't want to wait too long with this kind of thing. And if he is really stressing you out. MAKE him understand. Or take a break. Still go out but tell him you need time to realx becuase if it doesn't come he won't be the one with another human coming out of him.
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I think you should know your period too and when it's suppose to come and go. Your boyfriend is probably just a little stressed out about it and is worrying way too much. Maybe you should buy a test now, just to be on the safe side. It'll also calm down your boyfriend a bit. Since he's stressing you out as well, I think buying a test would be your best bet.
♥ Krissy
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