hey my names alli, i play soccer and do track...i like to hang out wit my friends, idk im pretty much just a normal teenager....ask me anything and ill try to be as helpful as i can.
E-mail: portuprincess7@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: mass
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: July 22, 2005
Answers: 22
Last Update: August 24, 2005
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i ahve cuts all up and down my arms and legs from climbing trees
people think im a cutter and try to help me but dont believe abut my trees
what should i do?
Jeff (link)
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dont climb trees anymore
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ok, im 16 and i need help with something
i have extremely hairy testicles and i want to shave them, but i dont want to cut them
also my parents wont let me shave my face, so i dont have a razor, i need help, i have been trying to use my brothers, but he found out and beat me up
i dont like have hairy privates
please help me
sincerely
"brian brian" (link)
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deal wit it "brian brian"
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Hey alli, i have a question,
i have 3 girls that are all over me, but i dont like any of them like they like me. One girl calls me every night and does things to herslef i cant say, while i try to stop laughing i want her to stop but dont know how to tell her.
the other two are cute but and i like one of them but i can never see her, she lives too far away. I have not idea how to get the 2 i dont like away from me and the third closer to me. I need your help please tell me what to do, even though i dont really have a question. oh well,
so how have you been??? and when in the world are you guys coming down to rockland to see us???
do you know if we are going on any more retreats anytime soon???
ok im out now
PEACE
DAN (link)
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ok so the 2 girls that like you...just let them down easy and tell them you only like them as friends lol...then the girl that lives far away, i dont know wat to say about that i guess if you can have a long distance relationship go for it,just talk on the phone a lot and stuff and i dont know if you can drive but once you can or watever it shudnt b too hard, just let the girl know how you feel...but if it is too hard then move on...
neway, i have been good thanx...i wanna go to rockland to see you guys wicked soon but we cant drive so thats a bummer...and there is a retreat sept 30 oct 1 and oct 2....but like no1 knos about it really...so let me kno if you or any rocklanders r goin to it...i think its in marthas vineyard but i really have no clue...juli has all the details....alrite so neway hope that was helpful haha ill ttyl
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OK, my hair is just about shoulder length, maybe a little bit longer. It's thick and reallyyyyy wavy and frizzy. If i straighten it at night, like right before i go to bed, shood i keep it up or down overnight? Which will help it stay straight? (link)
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my hair is the same....what i do is i keep it down overnight, but i dont sleep on it...you might have to restraighten parts of the front in the morning etc...but it should basically be fine...hope this helps
~alli
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hey umm i have really liked this boy for awhile but he has a girlfriend. so should i tell him that i like him. or should i not so i dont ruin our friendship? or what should i do? plez help. (link)
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i think you should hold off because he has a girlfriend...you dont want to be the cause of them breaking up or anything because then you will feel guilty...also i dont think that you should put him in that sucky situation, because if he did like you back then he would have to choose between his girlfriend and you, and he would probably get really confused....and im sure you would get some unwanted enemies...thats just too complicated because hes off the market...hope this helps
~alli
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My parents won't let me remove the hair from my legs, but I do anyway because I use my dad's razor. I want to get my own razor or hair removal device but my parents won't let me buy them or else they will kick me out of the house. My friend gave me a disposable razor but it ran out and she is out of town until September. How do I get a hair removal device and how do I hide it from my parents when I have it? If it helps I am 13/f. I will rate high for good advice or a good try. (link)
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first of all thats ridiculous....im guessing you have already tried talking to your parents so that wont help....i think if you can you should just walk to a store or when your at your friends house just go for a walk and go to a store and buy disposable razors....either that or you could keep a razor at your friends house and whenever you go over shave there....and once you get a razor you can just hide it in your room or something...i hope that helped
~alli
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Okay well yesterday was my first day of a new school. I didnt know anyone but I met this guy and we kind of walked together and sat with each other at the schedule place. He's so cute and really cool, i dont have any classes with him...how do i get to know him? I dont have his number or intantmessanger. (link)
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im sure you will see him around school and just wave and flirt...i mean since you dont really know anyone yet you should abuse that fact that you kinda know him....if you see him wave and go up to him and talk...maybe he will invite you to sit with him at lunch or something
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i dont feel comfortable telling my mom i got my period...how do I tell her? what do i say so i dont feel so embarassed? (link)
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your mom has gone through it....dont feel embarassed, she knows how you feel and your not gonna wanna go through it alone...just tell her flat out...when you two are alone be like ya mom umm i got my period...dont worry...hope i helped
~alli
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I'm gonna start from the beginning. In the middle of may I started going out with guy 1, well call him ross, we went out for 2 weeks and them he went to jdc. A month later ross got out and btw i never dated anyone else and we didn't break up. and we stayed together for 1 and 1/2 weeks after ross got out and we were so cute together but I was moving and didn't want a long distance relationship so i broke up with ross and started going with guy 2 we'll call tom cause I was going to were tom lived for a week to see my bestfriend and after a week i broke up with tom to and them i got to my new house and started dating guy 3, i'll call him joey now me and joey have been dating for 5 days and i really like him but yesterday i got on the computer and ross had sent me 20 messages saying how he still loves me and wants to get back with me and i think i still have feelings for ross but I really like joey. So which one should I choose?
I'll rate 5's to anyone who answers!!!!!!
Signed: ~Crazylife~
P.S. they are both long distance. (link)
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maybe you should go out with guy 3 a little longer before you decide...just continue to get to know him and then choose.....i mean you will probably always have feelings for guy 1 since you were together for a while...but you dont know if those feelings are enough to go out with him again.....i think you should just wait it out a little longer...hope this hepls
~alli
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this might be confusing for some of u....its even confusing for me....i have a boyfriend at least i think i do but im not sure....he lives in texas and im in maine his friends all tell me hes seeing this girl named ashley but when i say something to him he denies it he just says his friends are jealous and they dont want him happy and of course i believe him everytime....well one of his friends changed his password on msn and decided to read his emails and his friend told me everything his emails said....i told my boyfriend about it and he just said it was nothing then his friend told him i told her to change his password and look at his emails even tho i didnt well ever since then its been different between us everytime i ask him if we're still together he says he doesnt know so my question for you guys is when a guy says they dont know does that still mean u guys r still together??? i mean he hasnt broken up with me so does it mean we're still together??? PLEASE HELP!!
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LOST AND CONFUSED (link)
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i think you should just let it go....you live too far apart to have a real relationship....you would have to really trust him to keep this going....and the way this has worked out so far you are never gonna be happy with him because his friends arent gonna stop telling you shit and its not like you will know who is telling the truth...i would be confused if i were you too but move on and get a boyfriend who lives in your state...hope this helps
~alli
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Hi guys.
Sorry if this is really long...i rate high.
Alrighty.
Well i have a boyfriend and i love him to death. We've been together for over 3 months and ever since ive knwn him he never EVER talks about his problems.
If i know somehtings wrong he'll say things like.."Its not important" or "Its nothing" when i can seeeee that its bothering him a lot. I want him to know that he doesnt need to act all tough around me. And i need him to know that he can talk to me about anything. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive tried the usual..."you know im always here for you" and all that and he says he knows but it doesnt change anything.
Do you guys have anything i could say or do that would get him to know that im always there...and ready to listen?
Any advice is great advice!!
Thanks...
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i think that you should just let him know that your always there to listen if he ever wants to talk and let him know he doesnt always have to keep it all bottled up.....once you've made it clear that your there for him then its up to him, let him come to you when he's ready to talk
hope that helps
~alli
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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX (link)
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well i dont know...if your comfortable with him then i guess its fine but since your asking i guess you cant be completely not worried about it....im 15 and i know im lookin at guys who are 15 up to like 17....i would think that since he is only 12 he would be really immature...but it all comes down to how you both feel with each other...i mean age is only a number
hope that helped
~alli
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well this guy i work with likes me a lot and i only like him as a friend and i told him that a lot of times and i thought he understood that...so i act mean to him at work but i just be playin with him...and he takes it seriously and i just be like okay whatever...well he calls me sometimes i dont answer because i dont have my phone with me...but when i do answer he asks me to the movies and i said i cant because i have to work and then i gotta go out of town...and he didnt believe me that much but he accepted that...then he told me on the phone how he thinks about me and told me not to get mad...he said that he thought i was a dyke because i kept being mean to him and that im a virgin because i act so grouchy and i dont i just act mean cause im either tired or im just playin around with him...and he said a bunch of other stuff and it pissed me off so what should i do cause i dont wanna have to face him at work...another thing he said is if im gonna marry me my cousin when i get older because everytime im always talkin to my cousins or over their house and thats cause we're really cool...sorry this is so long but i dont know what to do and i dont know how to face him!! (link)
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i think you should just tell him to chill out and back off....he is kinda judging you and being rude so just make it clear that you dont like him like that...and tell him that hes cool as a friend and everything.....say that sometimes you act mean because your tired and you dont always want to put up with him...hope that helped
~alli
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Ok I want to get my hair like kristen's on laguna beach..like how its styled..but what should I tell the person that does my hair?? Like not everyone watches laguna beach and im not gonna just be like yea i want it like kristen's..so what should i tell them?
thanks so much
steph (link)
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i think you should print a picture out of Kristen off line and bring it with you to show your hairstylist...hope that helps
~alli
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ok this is my first time having my period n ive had it for 5 days already and my mom told me its only suppossed to last 3-5 days and the longest shes ever had it was for 7 days. please help me , clue me in on whats going on!!!!! thanks sooooooooooo much
sincerely,
troubled girly (link)
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you could have your period for as long as 7 days...it can sometimes also be on and off....and you might get some stomach cramps....since its your first time getting it, it will probably be irregular and you should keep track of every time it comes so that you can be prepared...you've had it for 5 days so it should have lessened up....dont worry you'll be fine!...hope this helps
~alli
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okay so i was raped and i told my cousin about it and hes the only person that knows this...well after i told him he seems sorta distant an stuff and like i dont kno what to do cuz hes my fave cousin but i dont want him to be like eww she got raped and stuff and then that makes me feel like shit too! so wat do i do?
i rate high!
plz answer i need it ASAP (link)
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i think that you definately need to tell your parents or maybe someone else also....but you should just talk to your cousin...he is probably just distant because he is shocked and doesnt know what to say to you to help...you probably need him more now than you ever have so just tell him...he may be a little freaked but im sure he will be there for you since you are so close...hope this helps
~alli
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Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do? (link)
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i dont like tampons either....sometimes what i do is wear a pad without wings on my bathingsuit if its not a heavy flow...that would be if you didnt want to wear shorts but you have to check on it and make sure you bring extra pads so you can change it so it wont leak....but i would suggest not swimming and if you do then ya you should wear shorts...hope that helped
~alli
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i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do? (link)
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its natural to get jealous but its dumb to fight over him thinking kristin is hot because that is unrealistic....its not like he will ever even meet her and i am sure you think other people besides your boyfriend is hot...try to be understanding and dont always let the jealousy take control of you because you'll just end up pushing him away with all the fighting...hope this helps
~alli
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ok so theres this guy and i really like him and he really likes me. but were not going out. its a long story. anyways he asked me if i have ever kissed anyone and i said no and he was like well maybe i can change that next time we go to the movies. i was like um..ok. but now i dont no wat to do. because we might go to the movies on sunday. and like i dont no if i really want to kiss him. part of me does and part of me doesn't. if i don't how do i tell him? please help me i will rate high! thanks in advance! (link)
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if part of you does and part of you doesnt its probably either because your just nervous and scared because you have never kissed someone before or because maybe you really just dont like him....if he leans in to kiss you at the movies and you really dont want to and you just arent feeling it then just pull away....tell him not to be mad but that it just didnt feel right...hope this helps and good luck
~alli
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is there any way to tan easier or faster without using sunless tanning products or tanning booths?
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tanning oil works....or if you want you could just try a bronzer....then you can have a temporary tan and its much safer and healthier than the sun...hope that helped
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