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boys talk too much
well this guy i work with likes me a lot and i only like him as a friend and i told him that a lot of times and i thought he understood that...so i act mean to him at work but i just be playin with him...and he takes it seriously and i just be like okay whatever...well he calls me sometimes i dont answer because i dont have my phone with me...but when i do answer he asks me to the movies and i said i cant because i have to work and then i gotta go out of town...and he didnt believe me that much but he accepted that...then he told me on the phone how he thinks about me and told me not to get mad...he said that he thought i was a dyke because i kept being mean to him and that im a virgin because i act so grouchy and i dont i just act mean cause im either tired or im just playin around with him...and he said a bunch of other stuff and it pissed me off so what should i do cause i dont wanna have to face him at work...another thing he said is if im gonna marry me my cousin when i get older because everytime im always talkin to my cousins or over their house and thats cause we're really cool...sorry this is so long but i dont know what to do and i dont know how to face him!!
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i think you should just tell him to chill out and back off....he is kinda judging you and being rude so just make it clear that you dont like him like that...and tell him that hes cool as a friend and everything.....say that sometimes you act mean because your tired and you dont always want to put up with him...hope that helped
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I find what works best is just pretending nothing happened. You don't have to get all cozy and friendly, afterall, that was pretty rude. But don't make a scene (especially not at work!) Ask him why he likes you so much if he thinks you're such a dyke. He sounds immature and unworthy, to me. Just treat him as though he were just another person on the street. Indifference is a fabulous tactic. It keeps your nerves under control and confuses your...erm... "enemy". Don't get too worked up over it. And the whole marrying thing? i doubt you'll marry your cousin XD i'm sure you'll find someone far better than that low-life and will laugh about this later.
Keep your chin up, =)
Panda
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well dat dude is an asshole heheh. just avoid him. he is being ignorent. you need to stand up to him. no guy should treat you like that.
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tell this guy that you won't go out with him and to back off or else you're gonna get a restraining order! it sounds like this guy has some major obsession issues and needs a shrink. you could also change your phone number or whatever. but try this and if he doesnt stop, you could get a restraining order i think. hope i helped! and stand up to this guy!
XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO
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What he's doing is sexual harassment, and it's against the law. Talk to your human resources department, or if your company doesn't have one, to your supervisor. They'll tell him to stop behaving inappropriately at work.
If your company has a sexual harassment policy, it will either be on your intranet website, in your employee handbook, or posted publicly. Read it, if you can.
You might also want to talk to him privately, and tell him that you aren't comfortable with the way that he's behaving towards you. Tell him that you want to keep things on a strictly business level from now on.
I suspect he has a crush on you, and feels hurt and jealous because you're not interested in him. That's probably very hard for him, seeing you at work every day. But that's no excuse for the way he's acting.
Here's a site with information about sexual harassment: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Good luck!
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This guy deserves a slap in the face. He would annoy me soo bad!! You need to tell him once again but use a voice where you're mad and you just cant take it anymore! Just tell him " Look! I dont like you like that && stop friggin bothering me.. blah blah blah!" Just say whatever is on your mind. Talk to your boss and tell him that he is distractiong you from working and that you would like a different schedule maybe or just not to work with him. It should work.
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