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Guy 1 or Guy 3?


Question Posted Thursday August 4 2005, 4:51 pm

I'm gonna start from the beginning. In the middle of may I started going out with guy 1, well call him ross, we went out for 2 weeks and them he went to jdc. A month later ross got out and btw i never dated anyone else and we didn't break up. and we stayed together for 1 and 1/2 weeks after ross got out and we were so cute together but I was moving and didn't want a long distance relationship so i broke up with ross and started going with guy 2 we'll call tom cause I was going to were tom lived for a week to see my bestfriend and after a week i broke up with tom to and them i got to my new house and started dating guy 3, i'll call him joey now me and joey have been dating for 5 days and i really like him but yesterday i got on the computer and ross had sent me 20 messages saying how he still loves me and wants to get back with me and i think i still have feelings for ross but I really like joey. So which one should I choose?

I'll rate 5's to anyone who answers!!!!!!
Signed: ~Crazylife~

P.S. they are both long distance.


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portuprincess7 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 1:10 am:
maybe you should go out with guy 3 a little longer before you decide...just continue to get to know him and then choose.....i mean you will probably always have feelings for guy 1 since you were together for a while...but you dont know if those feelings are enough to go out with him again.....i think you should just wait it out a little longer...hope this hepls
~alli

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Britty_x3 answered Friday August 5 2005, 3:24 am:
gosh....ive been in this suitiation(sp?) before....except the long distance thing...umm...well..you pretty much just need to follow your heart...but dont use ross as a back up man...i did tht once..and my ex said he was still in love with me and all and almost commited suicide...n e ways... personally...i think you should stick with joey....and throughout time decide if you want ross back enough to stop going out with joey...
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Supermanlover45 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 9:13 pm:
I think "Ross" knew he made a mistake. If he's pleeding to get you back. I think he understand's now what you meant to him and all. I think you should give Ross another chance. Unless you want to see your boyfriend everyday then I'd go with "Joey". But Ross sounds very sweet in my opinion. If he still say's he loves you and has feelings for you then yeah I'd pick him anyday, because I'm in a long distance relationship and I wouldn't give it up for anything. Well hope I helped! Good luck on the decision.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*

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crazygoober2006 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 7:16 pm:
Follow your heart. I know you have probably heard this before, but seriously. What do you think you would decide to make yourself happy? Who do you think would make you happier, about yourself, about life in general, (me personally, I prefer good guys, so the good guy will probably be a good influence on you). Just by reading this I say choose Joey. Because the other guy sounds attached. And you say, you really like Joey. Good luck, I hope I helped.

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ilovehissmile answered Thursday August 4 2005, 5:56 pm:
well if you really dont think it will work with the long distance with ross then dont get back with him because it wouldnt be fair to u or him because youd both face dissappoint ment later down the road

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SexiBlondie101 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 5:26 pm:
TRY TO FIND A GUY THT LIVES CLOSER TO YOU , OR JUST TRY TO CHOOSE THE ONE YOU LIKE MORE. AND IF YOU DONT WANT A LONG DISTANCE REL. JUST BE FRIENDS AND MOVE ON . good luck hope i helped!

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crazyoutyamindisback answered Thursday August 4 2005, 5:17 pm:
you said at first that you do not want a long distance realtionship (sp?) so i think you should stay with joey i mean once you break up with someone for no reason like moving you will almost awalys having feelings for them

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday August 4 2005, 5:10 pm:
first you shoul;d fallow your heart. if you dont want a long distance realtionship then dont go out with any off hthem.. even though distance shouldnt matter . you need to think which one you have more feeling for... which one you like more?? which one you can trust more bc of the distance and which one even wit the distance you can still see at least once a month.. hope this helps you out..

*~Stephanie~*

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