Heyy guys...I'm Arielle ((a.k.a. rel)). Im from stoughton and i love to play soccer, run track, dance, and jus chill with friends. I'm willing to answer any question no matter how random or how serious it is. I hope I can help!
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Location: Stoughton
Age: 15
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Member Since: June 20, 2005
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i have this problem.. my frend really likes this guy and shes going out with him but i dont like him.. should i tell her or just ignore it.. were really good frends and i dont want to ruin it but idk wut else to do bc shes always with him! (link)
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well...i think that you should mention it to your friend so she realizes it but dont say it if you just want them to break up. if shes happy with him then i think that they should stay together but maybe tell her that shes spending a lot of time with him and maybe just you and her or the two of you and some other friends can hang out for a little like girls night. but if you are trying to break them up i think its a bad idea because if they do she will be upset at you for being involved in the break up. and is there a reason you dont like him? or is it just because shes going out with him? maybe you should try to get to know him and become friends with him so its not akward when your with them. it seems like you never really gave this guy a chance. try it out and if it doesn't work then talk to her about it. i hope i helped.
~*rel*~
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Arielle,
There is this girl I really like. And I think she knows I like her. I've done stuff to try to get her attention but I'm getting nothing. I really want to capture her heart but I'm too shy to tell her how I feel about her. And I've tried to realize that she probably doesn't like me but I just can't get over her. I really love her. What should I do to get her to notice me and maybe get her to like me?
- The Boy That Doesn't Have A Chance (link)
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well, try and find out what shes interested in and try to become good friends with her. if you start to feel that shes getting stronger feelings for you then go in and tell her straight out. if she doesnt like you then its not meant to be but youll still make a good friend out of the deal. til then all you can do is try to get to know her better and see if she feels that your right for her. hope i helped.
~*rel*~
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Hi Arielle.
I'm Skyla, I'm 16 years old. I've got this problem...and I don't think you'll be able to help but I figured I'd ask anyways. It's worth a shot.
Well, I'm really crushing on this guy...badly. We've been out a few times and always have a blast. He tells me he likes me, and he knows I like him. Problem is,I don't know what he wants. And I talked to him about it, but he got a little mad...but he said he does like me and that I'm being paranoid.
Maybe I am. But I know for a fact that he's the type of guy that hangs out with lots of girls. And I don't expect him to stop...but I guess I feel kinda left out. We're not going out though, so I have no right to feel left out I guess.
I just...I think there's this one other girl in particular....I just don't know what to do. I guess my question isn't clear, but I just...hope you get it.
Thanks, and sorry it's so long. (link)
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yeah the question wasnt very clear but i think i get what you're trying to say. if you want to be the center of his attension then you have to try and show him that you deserve to be the center. don't go out and do anything drastic because that won't work. maybe dress up a little nicer or whatever you feel will work. i dont know him first hand but try to get in with him. maybe try to find out some of the things that you two might have in common? i hope you can find something that will get you in but only time will tell.
~*Arielle*~
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what can i do to get the ladies off me...they never leave me alone and i don't know what i should do. i get no peace and i need to just chill for a while. how do i get them to leave me alone? (link)
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tell them your gay.
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so arielle i got this problem,
well im ganna be blunt...
Its about my penis...
Its abnormally huge, and every time i leave my house it just drags on the ground My problem isnt the size, its the rash i get from dragging it. ive tryed lotions and wheelbarrows but nothing seems to work. Sometimes i sit up and cry all night wishing i had a huge hairy vagina instead of a montrosity of a penis..
TO top it all off my girlfriend says shes ganna dump me if i dont get it shortened. She always yells "HOLY GOOD GOD!!" or "TAKE THAT THING OUT OF MY EAR". A few times i almost killed her while we had intercorse. I hit her left lung with it and she just passed out. Its a terrible embarressment as well as a tottaly buzz kill..
tell me..
WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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hahahahahaha are u kidding me
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hey i hav a boyfriend and i love him very much but our relationship isnt very good we fight alot and he can be very mean to me. and he doesnt lik any of my firends he thinks there bad influences bcuz they do a lot of bad stuff and he says thats that i shouldnt be friends wit hem to help myself but i miss them soo much and i dont kno wut to do and i dont kno who to talk to so wut should i do???
confused (link)
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well first off no one can/should tell you who you should and shouldn't be friends with. it sounds like hes trying to control your life. i think that you still hang out with your friends and if your bf doesn't like it then oh well. boyfriends will come and go but good friends last forever. remember that.
~*rel*~
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ok so im kind of a "butch" girl and i used to be friends with this girl who im like obsessed with i look at her myspace and her webshots almost every single day and i just cant help myself. i dont know why i do this. it's almost like i have no life. DAMNIT WHAT SHUD I DO?!
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umm...maybe you just miss having her as a friend. you should confront her and ask her if she would want to be your friend again.
~*rel*~
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hey me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while. last week i found out that i got crabs and the thing is that my boyfriend doesnt have crabs and i have been fucking ppl besides him. yesterday he found my crabs medicine and wont talk to me. what should i say to him to make him realize im sorry? (link)
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im sry but why would you have sex with other people besides him??? and of course i can see why he doesn't want to talk to you because he doesn't want to get it and you have been keeping this from him. i think that if you really want to be sincere then you should stop seeing all these other people.
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Where do babies come frome? (link)
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umm...ask ur mom
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ok, My best friend is a guy... he has been my friend since the 6th grade. But here's the complicated part: he was my boyfriend, and then we broke up and I didn't talk to him until early 7th grade. And everything was fine until he called my a motherf**** in Italian, but he said he still was in love with me. But we got over it, and stayed friends until this past few months, we started to get a bit friendlier. So we went out (again), and we broke up (again). But he still told me he loved me (but as a friend), and during this whole fiasco my friend Kendra was crushing on him the whole time... and she didn't know we went out. So she was mad at me for a while b.c I didn't want her to go out with Mike. And I wasn't over it yet, so I finally told her that we went out, and she totally understood. So finally they started going out, but Mike really is going out w/ Kendra out of pity. He's gonna break it off when he comes back from Canada... and... it's just... so frustrating
-relly (link)
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hey..um...i dont really know what the question is lol. do you still like Mike? or are you just upset that you friend kendra is going out with a former boyfriend of yours? how ever you are feeling i kno what its like. something similar to that has happened to me. at first it was frustrating but soon after everything got better...just dont let it bother you that much everything will get better.
~*rel*~
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OK, well heres my very interesting question. There is this girl i liek a LOT, but she has a boyfriend. She tells me she really likes me and wants me. When she isnt with her boyfriend she and i flirt all the time, like playing and touching and stuff. the only thing is that she loves her boyfriend and waht not. what in the world should i do???
the kid your talking to online (link)
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hey "kid im talking to online" haha. umm. well if she really loves her boyfriend then i dont think its really right for her to flirt with you alot..but it seems as though you two would be better off than her and her boyfriend..maybe she and her boyfriend might break up and then you two would be together. i think that you should ask her about how she feels about you and about her boyfriend. but in my opinion i think that you two should be the ones dating instead of the other guy. because if you two are doing this then obviously she likes you too. i hope everything works out for you! talk 2 u online..
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I LOVE YOU SO MUCH... this is the coolest thing in the world. so im making up a question of mine- are you going to steubinville east? (link)
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i love you too man haha. 1.umm i dont think im going to steubinville east are you? and 2.do you think that you will get caught? if you really want it that bad then i would just say be careful...i wouldn't want you to get caught...try to think about this one...is doing this "sumthing" worth getting into trouble?? try to make the right choice .. i kno you will. ill talk to you later mann! byee
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Hey Rel, therez this guy that i thought was cute and he started flirting with me and guys never do and i liked it so i flirted with him. But i really like him , i can't stop thinking about him . I don't know ih he likes me back. I wanna hang out, i've been calling him but he doesnt answer his cell and when he does he says he'll call back but he neva does. I don't want to bug him or annoy him cuz then he prob. wont wanna chyll. What should i do? (link)
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the way i see it you could do one of three choices. 1. you could play hard to get and stop calling him and see if he calls you and asks you to hang out instead of you always asking .. then you will know if he likes you. 2. you could talk to one of his friends and see who he likes and if you could have a chance. or 3. you could tell him straight out that you like him so that he knows why you are calling and then you could find out how he feels about it...try to pick the choice that you feel would work knowing him..i hope everything works out with you guys.
~*rel*~
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my keyboard is a little broken so bare with me... ok ready theres these two girls i like and they are like best friends and i am like catchin vibes from both of them but i dont know what to do me and one of them have been friends for a long time and i liked her b4 and after i went out with her best friend so i dont know about that one but then theres this other girl i just met from the girl and i really am startin tolike her bnow too and she is like a little prettier but idk and every time this happens to me i end up not goin ne where with either of the girls i like and we just end up stoptalkin to i dont want that to happen this time ne adive? (link)
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try to pick the one that you think you have the most in common with or the one that you could see yourself having a good relationship with. or maybe try to find out which one has more feelings towards you as being more than just a friend. whatever you do don't go inbetween their relationship and get them mad at eachother...its happened to me before and it wasn't very good. i hope i helped you a little?
~*rel*~
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okay i'm not really in a group (populars, nerds, punks) and some of my friends start gossiping about people i am friends with becuase they like to gossip and i dont think they know i am friends with the people they are talking about. and just in general they like to gossip and talk shit about people that i do like. i dont really like gossip and i want to tell them to stop but i know they will take it like im being bitchy or w/e. i just really cant stand rumors and everyone is so hypocritical and if i tell them then i am a bitch even though i am just being honest. and i know u are going me just to tell them to stop because thats what your supposed to say but honestly would you say something and risk being labled a bitch?... BE HONEST (link)
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honestly...if i was friends with people that they were talking about i would either tell them that i am friends with them or while they are saying stuff kind of say the opposite. like if someone said "shes so mean i can't stand her" i might say something like "oo well to me shes pretty nice i like her". i duno something like that. or i might just ignore them and not pay attention to what they are saying. you have the right to your own oppinions and so do they. let them think/talk what they want to think/talk about people..just dont let them influence you into not liking someone your friends with.
~*rel*~
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hey, heres my long question.
ive been going out with this guy on and off for 6 monthes now. the first time i broke up with him was because i didnt think i liked him anymore. then i realized i still had some sad. he cried all the time, wudnt talk to me, his friends wud yell at me for breaking his feelings for him. when we broke up he was sooo heart, and i felt aweful. then when we got back together things were tough, we fought a lot and we both started to like each other less at different times. now im not sure if i like him so much anymore again. i still like him a lot, but sometimes i just dont. im not sure what to do, its summer and were not going to be in the same school next year, we wont see each other very much. i like him a lot still, but i dont know if i shud move on. i dont think he'll ever move on, thats kind of the person he is and i hate seeing him sad when hes not with me. i dont want to break his heart again, but i kinda want to move on.. i have no idea what to do. do you think i should start by telling him how im feeling? or just think it all over and take action. maybe he would want to know? what do you think? (link)
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i feel that you should just tell him how you feel. things can never get better if you both don't know how you feel about eachother. i mean who knows...he might be wanting to talk to you about something too but just doesn't have the courage to. i feel that maybe its time that you both sort of move on and see new people. there might be someone out there that both of you are better off with. write bak if there is anything else i can do for you.
~*rel*~
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ok well i really like this kid but of course he likes my bestfriend (this has happend to me before but different guy lol)ne ways and like him sooo much but idk he flirts alot so its hard to tell if he likes me i want him to no i like him but im soo scared he'll be weird casue wer really good friends i just do not no wut to do ?
p.s sorry this is long (link)
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well, i think that if u think he likes you then you should tell him. what would you rather...tell him and not know if he likes you? or not tell him and miss out on what could be a great relationship. if he flirts with you then he probably has feelings for you. that's happened to me before but unfortunately the kid didn't like me back, and it took him a little while to get used to the fact that i did but as soon as he did we became even closer and better friends. if you think that you really like him then i think you should tell him. good luck. i/m me or write back if u need any more help.
~*rel*~
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hey arielle u say i have a problem, all girl like me as soon as they see me, and they want to go out with me, but they wait for me to ask them out and i cant do it because im shie, what do u think i shoud do to make it go away. (link)
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well the way i see it you could do 2 things..1) you could tell them that you dont like them and/or you aren't interested or 2) you could pick one of them that you like and try to become friends with her and sooner or later you will open up and probably ask her out. i hope this helped a little...
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has anyone asked u out yet, i mean are u still available
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haha well i guess you could say that...yes i am...by the way...who are u?
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hey arielle what kind of guy do u like. i mean whats ur type (link)
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um..this wasn't my idea of giving advice..but ok..? um i guess they should be taller than me, should be older than me(dont really like younger guyz) have a good sense of humor, and nice personality.... personally my standards aren't that high.
thanks for the random question who ever this is..haha
~*rel*~
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