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this might be confusing for some of u....its even confusing for me....i have a boyfriend at least i think i do but im not sure....he lives in texas and im in maine his friends all tell me hes seeing this girl named ashley but when i say something to him he denies it he just says his friends are jealous and they dont want him happy and of course i believe him everytime....well one of his friends changed his password on msn and decided to read his emails and his friend told me everything his emails said....i told my boyfriend about it and he just said it was nothing then his friend told him i told her to change his password and look at his emails even tho i didnt well ever since then its been different between us everytime i ask him if we're still together he says he doesnt know so my question for you guys is when a guy says they dont know does that still mean u guys r still together??? i mean he hasnt broken up with me so does it mean we're still together??? PLEASE HELP!!
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Well it seems like that he might be seeing another girl...and i have this 2 friends guy and a girl ...they are both of my friend and they used to go out and was a cute couple but now they are living far away from each other, they just dont call each other and they seem they are broken up...
so you might want to consider that, i mean long distant work for some people and it doesnt for most people. so if you want to end it with him ,which will be for the best, then you should call him and talk to him about how it wont work out.
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Whether you're broken up or not, which sounds like you are, you need to be broken up. From what I'm understanding, he is seeing someone else. He lives in Texas on top of that, so you can't be around him enough to know whether he is seeing someone else either, which tells you that its just not going to work like this. Its hard to be and stay committed to a guy that lives far away unless you both have an inseperable relationship on the phone and the computer. So, basically, break up with the guy, he sounds like hes not interested anymore if hes saying he doesn't know if you two are still together.
-TheTeenGirl
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I hate to say this but...
long distance relationships really don't work out that well because of this reason. They are cheating on each other and the other one doesn't know it and will never know.
To answer your question,
usually it does. Either that, or he's just struggling with the rumors that went around. You said his friend was a "She", correct? SHE'S the one who TOLD him you told her to hack into his MSN and read his emails. That could be a sign of jealousy or resent towards you. She may like this boy and be trying to break you guys up. Don't let that happen because SHE may be satisfied and move in for him. Try to stay together aslong as you can. Talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him you would never do that to him. You love him and have the respect for him that he should be grateful for, if anything. He needs to appreciate YOU because you are not cheating. The possibility of this "long distance relationship" is that he COULD be cheating. You could never know... The thing that I would do is just talk to him... and HER. Ask her WHY she did this and WHAT you did to react in a manner such as this one. Ask her what you did to her, and what the reason of her causeing a fight between you and your boyfriend is. That is the number one thing right now. Just do that, and things will pretty much go from there. It'll all work out... don't give up hope... :-) :-) ;-)
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Best of luck! ♥
Hope I helped! ♥
♥ Kayla ♥
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i think you should just let it go....you live too far apart to have a real relationship....you would have to really trust him to keep this going....and the way this has worked out so far you are never gonna be happy with him because his friends arent gonna stop telling you shit and its not like you will know who is telling the truth...i would be confused if i were you too but move on and get a boyfriend who lives in your state...hope this helps
~alli
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