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hey umm i have really liked this boy for awhile but he has a girlfriend. so should i tell him that i like him. or should i not so i dont ruin our friendship? or what should i do? plez help.
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i think you should hold off because he has a girlfriend...you dont want to be the cause of them breaking up or anything because then you will feel guilty...also i dont think that you should put him in that sucky situation, because if he did like you back then he would have to choose between his girlfriend and you, and he would probably get really confused....and im sure you would get some unwanted enemies...thats just too complicated because hes off the market...hope this helps
~alli
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Don't tell him. Try flirting with him and if you think he likes you, then i guess you can tell him. Unless it seems that him and his girlfriend really have something special then you don't want to ruin that.
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I think that you should wait until he maybe breaks up with his g/f. Just keep playing it cool, and dont try to hit on him or anything. Just act like you normally would, and wait till theyve had enough and are broken up. just dont do anything until (no flirting etc.)theyve broken up.
Jessica ♥
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I don't think you should say anything until he no longer has a girlfriend. If they ever break up, get in there and say something before someone else does. If you do it now and they break up you may make a few enemies. :)
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Well, I have done both of your situations. I've told a guy that I liked him and it messed up our relationship because his girlfriend knew and it was SUPER awkward. But then, I didn't tell one guy that I liked him and I still don't know, by the way!! But, my advice is that you SHOULD tell him how you feel. I mean, having it be awkward isn't half as bad as not knowing what could've happened. TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!! =)
Hope I helped <33
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I might want to tell him how you feel. Just be like," Look I gotta tell you something.. I like you alot. I know you have a girlfriend and stuff and I'm not going to try and ruin anything between you two.. I just wanted to let you know." And don't do anything more. Just continue being his friend adn stuff. Because he will respect the fact you aren't gonna be one of those girls who try to ruin stuff between couples and stuff. And hopefully if him and his girlfriend ever break up, maybe he'll get feelings for you and ask you out. I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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I think you should tell him that you like him more than just a friend and don't say anymore. But if you really like, and care about him then don't try to ruin him and his girlsfriend relationship. Just hold out until then. There is over an 89% chance that they will break up in 2 months. Keep your hope's up and then express your feelings if they ever break up. Mk? Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Don't ruin your relationship with him or his relationship with his girlfriend. If I were you I would just stay friends with him and do follow your heart.
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I personally would say not to tell him, at least not while he has a girlfriend. If they break up, then tell him. Until them, don't risk your friendship when he can't be with you anyways.
♥ Melissa
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i dont think it is a good idea if you tell him right now since he has a girlfriend i think you should wait until they break up and then tell him so then you dont have to worry about his girlfriend and so much about your friendship because maybe he likes you in that kinda of way to.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Well if he has a girlfriend that he really likes...chances are he wont break up with her for anyone. I would drop some clues like... say gosh..we are such good friends...and things like that and see hwta happenes!
hope i helped!
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Well.. This one is a hard one...First you dont want his g/f to get possesive over it n not like u guys talking. I would keep it to myself because you deff dont want to lose a friend or you dont want to hurt his relationship with his g/f. So yeah just keep it to ur self n try to meet other guys
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Personally, I would wait it out. If you told him at this moment, it would only cause unnecessary confusion and trouble. Just keep it to yourself, until such time as his current relationship has come to an end. After that point, it's fair game. =]
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