ok so theres this guy and i really like him and he really likes me. but were not going out. its a long story. anyways he asked me if i have ever kissed anyone and i said no and he was like well maybe i can change that next time we go to the movies. i was like um..ok. but now i dont no wat to do. because we might go to the movies on sunday. and like i dont no if i really want to kiss him. part of me does and part of me doesn't. if i don't how do i tell him? please help me i will rate high! thanks in advance!
knottypanda answered Thursday August 4 2005, 6:42 pm: If he leans in for a kiss, politely turn your head and tell him you're not ready for that. Enjoy the movie and don't make things akward after that. I find it works best if you just go about like nothing happened. If he insists after you politely ask him to stop, then he's being rude and you may want to consider re-thinking your decision on persuing this guy. If you're up for it, kiss him! or ask him out. Whichever seems more apropriate at the time, really. Who knows, maybe he'll chicken out too lol.
portuprincess7 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 8:36 pm: if part of you does and part of you doesnt its probably either because your just nervous and scared because you have never kissed someone before or because maybe you really just dont like him....if he leans in to kiss you at the movies and you really dont want to and you just arent feeling it then just pull away....tell him not to be mad but that it just didnt feel right...hope this helps and good luck
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MaNdASzHElP247 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 6:21 am: aw your probably just nervous. but dont do something your not ready for and that you dont want to do. Hes a guy and honestly dear, if he really likes you, he will understand and not rush you into anything. If he gets weird and starts not talking as much then chances are he just said that stuff cause he wanted to do stuff with you. Hopefully it works out for the better. Just let things happen as them come ok?
Pressing_On answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:26 am: I think if you're doubting it, especially this much, you shouldn't kiss him. You shouldn't do anything you might not want to do, you should think things through a lot before you do them, especially something like this. Giving away your first kiss shouldn't be taken lightly, it should be with someone yuo're sure you want to do it with.
You can tell him by just talking to him, tell him that you really don't think you're ready for your first kiss yet. He should understand, and if he doesn't then it's not really worth it anyway.
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Ryan_10 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:17 pm: Wel you dont have to do anything you dont want to do. Especially in this case. If you dont want to kiss just tell him that your not ready. If he loved you he will understand. I know you must get this alot but you serisoly do not have to do anything you dot want to.
cookierat123 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:11 pm: just rember that you dont have to do anything you dont want to do! you should want your first kiss to be special, not with someone you dont want to kiss. but if you like him then go for it bc it could just be that your nervous. it happens to alot of people. i think you should go for it. it could surprize you. good luck and feel free to ask me anything else!
ari02 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 8:56 pm: well if your not comfortable or if you think your not ready at that time than just tell him that you dont think your ready for that yet and if he really likes you he should understand =] go0d luck!
splappythewalrus answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 8:55 pm: just simply say "i really like you and i would kiss you but maybe later when i feel more comfortable doing it". And if he doesnt reply well to that then just try to talk to him and explain why u dont feel comfortable doing that.
karenR answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 8:50 pm: Simply tell him you like him and all that BUT, we aren't dating and I'm not ready to kiss you yet. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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