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ok on friday i was supposed to go to the mall to meet up with a really close friend of mien with my best friend. since my parents are WAY over protective and wont let me if i told them i was goin to see a guy. i told my mom that i was goin shoppin and to the movies like a couple days ago and today she was like yea ok we will wait and see what happens, and since she trusts my friend a lot i know it would be a yes but then today she was talkin about friday about takin us swimmin and i was like i am not goin i am going to my friends house to go to the mall and the movies and she was like NO your not going to the movies or the mall wit your friend.. and i was like ok whay if i go to her house and she was like you can do that but not go to the mall. i mean today i was supposed to go to boardwalk wit her and she wont let me bc she has her party that she paid for to go to.. what i need to know is can someone help me out and make a plan that i could tell my mom or even tell her i am goin some place else bc the mall i guess wont work.. i need to go but i also dont want my mom to find out.. someone please help!! i have been waitin to see my close friend for like 2 weeks now... i have already tryed talkin to them about givin me some freedom and all they told me was ur 14 and at ur age you guys like to "experment" a lot of things.
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Try asking to go to a restraunt or out to eat with your friend or sleep over and go to the mall then!
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well you could just lie and tell your mom that you are going to your friends house but still go with your friend to the mall get a ride my your friends mom or get a ride by someone else like... uhhh i dont think you would get caught if you are sneeky enough just say you are goin to your friends house have you mom drop you off there than you leave.. and than after you leave you get your ride to take you to the mall than movies or w/e and have your ride take you back intime for your mom to pick you up or drop you off back at your house
*ariana*
i hope that wasnt too confusing
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You need to convay to your parents that you're trustworthy. Even if they already think that, do things to show them how mature you are and that you will make the right decisions. If they think that you're responsible and mature, then maybe they'll give you a little more freedom? Just try to prove that you can make the right decisions, and that you can handle a little more freedom. Good luck!
♥ Melissa
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yeah well noone ever said life was fair. You shouldn't waste all this time making a "plan" to see this guy. It's not worth it. Maybe you can try talking to your parents and being very mature. Make a compromise, give them your word you will not "experiment" with this guy. Or ask your parents if you can hang out with a group of friends. Like a group of 4 or more friends. That way you will be with more people, and it will be less likely that things will happen. Oh yeah and your parents just care about you, it sounds corny but it is supposively true.
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