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raped
okay so i was raped and i told my cousin about it and hes the only person that knows this...well after i told him he seems sorta distant an stuff and like i dont kno what to do cuz hes my fave cousin but i dont want him to be like eww she got raped and stuff and then that makes me feel like shit too! so wat do i do?
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tell your parents no matter how hard it may be because you were involved in something that was ilegal and they need to know about it. Plan something fun to do with your cousin so maybe he'll stop thinking about it.
modelkate11
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i think that you definately need to tell your parents or maybe someone else also....but you should just talk to your cousin...he is probably just distant because he is shocked and doesnt know what to say to you to help...you probably need him more now than you ever have so just tell him...he may be a little freaked but im sure he will be there for you since you are so close...hope this helps
~alli
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If you were raped, please go get tested, you didnt say he used a condom. but then again you didnt say he didnt use a condom. but if he didnt. then please go get tested you dont know what you may have. and your parents need to know i know its hard but its the truth, they are the only people you can count on to do something about this guy, he needs to get locked up or something!!!!! sorry to tell you all this but its true!!
hope it helps
good luck
♥ tay
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First of all, you should consider rape counseling. There are a lot of resources for teens that have been raped (and you don't always have to inform your parents).
Secondly, you need to approach your cousin about this. Let him know that you really appreciate that he was there for you and ask him if he is upset or uncomfortable because he told you. Tell him that you didn't mean to make him uncomfortable by giving him the information, but you wanted him to know that he was the only one you trusted and felt comfortable enough to tell. Tell him that you feel he's acting differently towards you since you told him what happened to you. Your cousin needs to know that he is trusted and admired by you, but also that you feel really badly about his discomfort.
♥ Hope I helped.
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You should ask him what his problem is. It is NOT your fault you got raped. He's stupid to think YOU'RE "ew" for getting raped. If anything, he should wanna be near you MORE to like help you through it. You should talk to him about it and make him understand that it's NOT you're fault... If he still acts like that then tell him to get a life because you don't need crap like that right now... I'm sorry this didn't help much but he is just foolish to act like that...
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as hard as it can be you should tell your parents.. you need to tell them!! this isnt a a thing you should keep away from them.. you need to tell them or a cop or somebody else DONT keep it a secert.. the person who rapped you can go and rape someone else and they can feel the way you feel right now.. tell someon.. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*
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