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I need some self confidence...i guess
Ok, well i have this friend named heather. and we both like eachother as a boyfriend and a girlfriend, but we live about 30 minuets apart.. so were just friends. And i'm over weight, and im really thinking about not going to see her because of it.. She says my appearence dosen't matter but, i've just been made fun of and stuff soo much i can't believe her until i see her reaction. Someone please help me.
-Nab-
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Heather seems like a nice girl. most girls are willing to see whats on the inside and not the outside. if she tells you she doesnt care how you look, then you should believe it when she says she likes you for you. so go and visit her. take some chances and if it doesnt work out... there's always another good thing just down the road.
emily
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Hey dude she doesn't care about appearence. She obviously is alot smarter than everyone else because she is seeing the true you on the inside and not the shell that people call a body. You would be making a mistake if you decided to not see her because you don't believe her when she says she doesn't care about your appearance. When you see her be as you are and don't worry about your appearence because that's not what the important part of you is, it's the inside that's important, and she obviosuly see's that in you. Good luck with her and hope this helps.
Good luck again with this girl.
-Ryan
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if she likes you as a boyfriend and a friend she won't care about what you look like as long as she gets to see you!
i hope i helped and please keep me posted!
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kristin
p.s: if u need more specifics just tell me
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So, why don't you just take the chance? There are some genuinely sweet people out there who don't care how you look. You might as well go see her because she sounds like she is very nice person. Try not to draw attention to your appearance and don't be all sulking around with your low self esteem. Show some self confidence and thats usually what girls like. Good Luck!
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It doesnt matter to her... thats what she said, right?? i personally dont find anything wrong with weight, and neither do many other girls out there... just make sure when you see her, you look/act confident, thats a huge turn on!! and also wear clothes that make you feel comfterable...sorry i couldnt help much
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Well if she really likes you then she wont care how big you are but she will care about whatz inside !! Sooo dont worry!! Hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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This should not matter to ANY girl. But some girls are so low in life that they have to have a partner in life that looks good to make them selfs look better. I think it is wrong to judge someone for their weight. I bet your a really nice guy to huh? I'm a very skinny girl-average size and my boyfriend is pretty big..He is about 15 pounds over weight for hes height. He's 5"6 but im not going ot give hes weight out because he don't want me to. I couldnt care less what people think of him, Its not all there is to a guy, I love him so much, people say we look different together cause I would look GREAT with a jock kind of guy but I hate thoughs types ya know? If she likes you and thinks you are a boyfriend type and she knows you a kind of big it shouldnt matter at all. Be straight forward with her and she should respect that, If not you can do better...Trust me, there is someone out htere for you...I found mine.
HOpe I helped,
xox, Sara
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Has she not seen you before? If she has then she already likes you and doesn't see you as being fat.
If shes never seen you but you have told her what you look like then she must think you will be worth having as a friend regardless. I can understand your fears but if your looks are the only thing a person likes you for then you don't need that person. :)
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Nab-
lets just say, if she likes you, then it shouldnt matter what you look like. Thats if she truely cares. Dont let it get to you. If she doesnt like it, then its her loss and there will be someone greater for you next. Good luck buddy<3
hope i helped?
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If you can't believe her until you see her reaction - then i'm afraid the only way to know is to, well, see her reaction.
People shouldn't associate with shallow people anyway - unless its cursing them out in a grocery store.
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