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Tmrw i have orientation for high school. Its an all girls catholic school. We like play ice-breaker games nd basically meet all the freshman. I have 4 of my friends going to that school too. But, like we will probly split up into groups so i wont be with them. How can i losen up nd just like talk to ppl. And how do i know if like the person im talking to has already made a new group of friends. I want my friendships to last. Please help, im really nervous (link)
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I just went through this same thing. All my friends were in diferent groups, too. Basically, sit by a bunch of people who don't seem to be talking to eachother (they probably dont know eachoter) and just talk to them, just saying anything will break the ice. "Oh my gosh, this is so weird." Usually they'll agree and have something else to say. I hope it all works out.
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What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"? (link)
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A best friend you can trust with anything. They're someone who you no longer has to worry about judging you. A friend is someone you get along with and definetly have fun with, but you're not as trusting of them as you are with a best friend.
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ok so i like really like this guy but hes got a gf, ive liked him for almost a year now and i dont know if i should give up on him or not. me and him are pretty close friendship wise but it looks like him and his gf are gonna be together for a long time.
should i give up or should i just wait it out? (link)
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I would wait it out for a while, don't try to break up him and his girl, of course. He might end up hating you for it. But then, if you find someone knew (on vacation or something) don't be afraid to fall for them. Try to keep your friendship close, though!
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I know I have a sleeping disorder, I have too. I don't get enough sleep and I always feel run down. I have a busy schedule and I barely get 4 hours a sleep a night. Mostly I have time to sleep but I can't go to sleep. Its like I fight my sleep or anything. I could be in a room so dark and not be able to fall asleep. I would just stare at nothing. And I take stuff to go to sleep but it really messes me up in the day. What can I do? (link)
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Talk to your doctor. That's not a good thing! And make sure you mention details about how your medicine isn't working, he might know of another one that works better.
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Is it bad to be on the computer for a long time. Is it bad to do that? Thanks! (link)
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I don't think so. Unless you sit really really close to the screen, that might cause some eye damage, but I don't think anything that bad.
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im not sure what catagory to ut this in but here we go, ok im usually always wearin a jacket because i sweat sometimes and i dont know why and i dont want people to see them especially boys armpit stains arent attractive and i have tryed a lot of deoderants like dove, teen spirit, a lot of em can anyone give me any advice on this horror thanks so much (link)
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There is a special type of deoderant you can get from your docotor (I think it's a powder or something), so if all else fails, that might work out.
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does how a girl dresses influence guys liking of them in any way? (link)
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A little bit, my guy friends notice how I dress. But, if you dress slutty they'll notice that, too, and that might change what they think of you/if they like you. And if you dress weird, they'll pick on it too.
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My ex who is now single again says he is better of being single because girls parents are always racist. I don't know what to say to him but I feel bad because hes really sad and stuff. How could I tell him that I still care and wanna be with him? Because he says he only gets respect by the sports he plays but thats wrong. I rate high. (link)
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Tell him you respect him for the sports he plays, but you also respect him because of the type of guy he is. And tell him your parents aren't racist. Because that's probably a hard thing for him to deal with thinking about.
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15/f--my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time but the other day i was at his house and his mom came upstairs and saw us coming out of his room (we were looking at yearbooks) and she freaked out and thinks we're having sex even though i'm not anywhere near ready to do that, and she won't even let us watch tv without someone else in the room. she used to like me a lot, how can i get her to trust me/us again?!? (link)
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Talk to her, without your boyfriend around, probably, about why you aren't ready to have sex and you really wish she could trust you again. Confronting the problem might seem weird, but there's nothing else that could help as much.
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Ok, i found out my boyfriend may have been doing drugs. he told my friend he did but im hopeing he didnt he told me he didnt dot hings like that.im trying to figure out how to talk to him about this but im not sure how to.
(Erin if you can help me talk to him or holly please do) (link)
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I'd ask him just plainly, i'm worried about you, and then ask. It's important for you to find out.
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Ok, I have asked a question like this before, but I need some help again. I have a friend and we have gotten alot closer this year than we were last year. (not like in a relationship or anything). I really like her (as a friend) and i feel like i can talk to her about anything, but she doesn't talk to me that much at school. She talks to me online and on the phone and stuff, but in school she doesn't really talk to me that much. Sometimes it makes me think that she doesn't really like me that much. Should I talk to her about it or just let it go and live with it? (link)
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I had a situation just like that, I let it go. It worked out fine, we actually talk all the time at school now. I think it's just getting comfortable at different stages as friends.
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Okay i have big boy problem please help...
So i go to winterball we will cal them tennis friends and so theres like 5 of us and i knew all the guys coming except two of them. One of them was my friends date. We will call him bob. Bob is nice and everything btu he blows off my friend for this gurl we wil call a soccer player named Rachel and he makesout with her. the thing is my friend didnt like him very much. the whole resta the night he was hanging and flirting with me a lot sometimes i told him to stop because i didnt want my friend getting mad. Well does he like me or what?? He comes up after his games and is like o hey qt and we cuddle and shit all this stuff. but he flirts with some other gurls too but not as much. WHAT IS GOING ON?! ill rate!! (link)
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He might like you, but he sounds like the flirty type of guy who wants all the attention from all the girls. And if he did that to your friend: be careful before you date him or anything.
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ok well i have a friend but lately shes been pissing me off... last year she made out with this guy and all they did was kiss but she went around telling people that he fingered her... then this year she hooked up with him again but she says she doesnt like him anymore... she still like makes out with him and i guess its like the "friends with benefits" sort of thing but i get so mad at her because i know the only reason shes doing it is to be "experienced" so she thinks shell be cool... then she tells me not to tell anyone but she like advertises it all over her live journal thing... the rest of the people that know are annoyed by it too and i dont want to talk to her because everytime i talk to her about anything negative she takes it way to personally and gets all mad... help!
-i rate 5s for good answers (link)
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Instead of taking a hostile/negative tone, try for a calm sort of tone. Something like, I don't really know what's going on and why you want to do this, in your own words, is laid back. If she snaps at you, tell her your curios as a friend as to why she wants to lie about doing all of that stuff and walk away if she can't calm down. She'll probably come to her senses and realise it's a stupid thing to loose a friend over. On the other side, she might be changing from the person you and your other friends knew her as, and you guys might not be as close anymore.
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So, there's this gurl that im taking to prom, but she say's that it's just as friends, I don't understand why it can't be more, she is so flirty everytime we hang out, superbowl night she held my hand, and gave me a back rub, and I gave her one, but all she wants to be is friends?? I think she is going through a rough time, this guy lived with her family while he was getting sober, he lived there for 2 months and has been gone now for 2 months and I think she is having a hard time with that, Im not sure how much she liked him though, soo, just help, tell me what you think, and what I should do. thanx (link)
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If she wants to be friends, leave it at that, if you push her it won't go well. Some girls are just flirty. But if you guys have a great time at prom, she might see things differently. Leave things open (try not to make her 'jelous' or something by flirting with other girls) and things could change.
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i was a week late on period, i took several pregancy test that came back negative. the last one i took came back positivebut the next day i started bleeding, is there a chance that i am or was the test possibly wrong? (link)
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There is a chance, try getting a test at your doctor, or at planned parenthood or a clinic like that so you can find out and stop stressing if you aren't.
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im an atheist,and im considering Christianity,because someone really made me realize,that there has 2 be a God.She gave me so much proof, but i'm still not sure if i'm ready because i've been an athiest for about 2 or 3 years.what should i do? (link)
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I would attend a few church services, or maybe a few services at a temple, even. See if you like them, and then consider converting to christianity.
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Okay, so I have this boyfriend and just the other night I told him that I feel as if I love him, so he said he thought he loved me too. Last night at this concert had had me call his ex-girlfriend that is having his kid and had me bitch her out but not to say he was with me. Well, she told me that he had called her earlier that day and told her that he still loved her and missed her. He said he was at work from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. went home took a shower and came and picked me up. Is she lieing or is he? I'm confused. I just want to know if he is sounds like a cheater because I don't want to get heartbroken because I'm really into this boy, he's the nicest boy I've ever met. Can someone that knows about these kind of boys let me know what they think because I'm scared! (link)
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You might see him as really nice, but the problem is, why would he have you bitch out his ex? That's not a very cool thing. And he's the father of her child? I think you might want to break it off, because it seems like if history repeats itself, and if you guys do end up breaking it off, it's going to keep hurting, especially if he has his other girlfriend call and bitch you out... You shouldn't put yourself through that kind of deleberate pain.
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Ok, So I met this chick, and fell madly in love with her, but she didnt feel the same, so I had to work on her.. Finally we started going out, but it felt forced, and I told her this, so now she is acting all lovy dovy, like she actually fell in love with me.
But the problem is, with all the coldness she showed toward me.. I no longer love her, I only like as friends, IF that.. so I really dont know what to do, I don't want to hurt her, but I also dont want to be in a relationship with her.. Please Help me!
She sent me an email saying she seriously thought about breaking it off with me, and she was going to, till I finished work, and she realised how much she loved me.. but I'm not who I used to be around her, I don't miss her any more, I don't want to kiss her any more.. HELP! (link)
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Break up. If you feel so many mixed feelings tell her you can't deal with all of this everyday. And maybe you guys can be friends later on or something. But if you don't love her anymore, then you shouldn't lead her on by keeping things going.
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well,i don't feel very pretty,i look at the other girls and theyre skinny im not fat tho,but im not skinny,and they have clear skin and i have a little bit of a acne problem.i wear cover up and eyeshadow and mascara but i still dont feel as pretty as the other girls look.i dont have low self esteem tho.please help! (link)
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Just tell yourself you're pretty, go for simple, clean, classic natural looking make up, accentuating your favorite part of your face, and don't cake on the cover up, because people can tell if it looks powdery. Don't compare, too, and you'll be fine.
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i am in 8th grade. and i am not doing VERy good in school. on my report card i got 2 F's! my mom is taking my phone, comp. after school act. away from me if i dnt get that up! what should i do??!!!
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Make limits for yourself, just spend an hour doing homework with no distractions, like tv or music you always sing along to. And then take a small break. And go back to work. It's a pain in the ass, but it pays off, long run.
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