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Is it going to last?
Okay, so I have this boyfriend and just the other night I told him that I feel as if I love him, so he said he thought he loved me too. Last night at this concert had had me call his ex-girlfriend that is having his kid and had me bitch her out but not to say he was with me. Well, she told me that he had called her earlier that day and told her that he still loved her and missed her. He said he was at work from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. went home took a shower and came and picked me up. Is she lieing or is he? I'm confused. I just want to know if he is sounds like a cheater because I don't want to get heartbroken because I'm really into this boy, he's the nicest boy I've ever met. Can someone that knows about these kind of boys let me know what they think because I'm scared!
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if he called form his cell phone, check his call history!!! then you'll find out if he lied or not....lemme know how it goes!
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"These kinds of boys" are trouble! Let's take a good look:
1) His ex is pregnant?!?!?! I guess that meand that he's not responsible enough to use protection (and that means if you two are ntimate, and he's not using anything, YOU need to go directly to your nearest clinic and get tested!!!) If he is taking responsibility for his child, that means that she will NEVER be out of his life.
2) He actually asked you to tell off his ex? What kind of person asks that of someone that they "love"?
3) If you are confused about who is lying, that means that alarm bells are already going off in your head. Listen to them and make tracks. Something fishy is going on and deep down inside you know it. I have dumped guys like this and it hurt like H*** but I am beter off without them. You can't go through a relationship without trust and hope to come out unscathed.
Best of luck!
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You might see him as really nice, but the problem is, why would he have you bitch out his ex? That's not a very cool thing. And he's the father of her child? I think you might want to break it off, because it seems like if history repeats itself, and if you guys do end up breaking it off, it's going to keep hurting, especially if he has his other girlfriend call and bitch you out... You shouldn't put yourself through that kind of deleberate pain.
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aww thats really bad...to me, it kind of sounds like he is lying...why would his ex make it up? maybe if she knew it was you and she doesnt like you, then its a lie. But if she had no idea it was you and she said it..then hes lying...he could have been at her house "when he was at work" it sounds like hes a cheater because i mean shes the mom of his kid and hes having you call and bitch her out!! thats just wrong right there...i tihnk you should ask him. be like remeber what we said last night? (the how you love him n stuff thing) and just be like your ex said you said the same thing to her also...and just say you cant stay with him if hes gonna play you like that and you want his honest answer is he cheating on you...good luck lemme know how things turn out!!
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