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psycho mother
15/f--my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time but the other day i was at his house and his mom came upstairs and saw us coming out of his room (we were looking at yearbooks) and she freaked out and thinks we're having sex even though i'm not anywhere near ready to do that, and she won't even let us watch tv without someone else in the room. she used to like me a lot, how can i get her to trust me/us again?!?
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Just don't give her a reason to mistrust you. The heart to heart is a good idea. She is just trying to protect her son from making a serious mistake. You should probably get him to talk to her. But accept the chaperone for a while, and maybe she will lay off. And don't go into a room with the door closed. If you aren't trying to hide anything, then try not to look guilty.
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Fuck him.. Fuck him good!
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Talk to her, without your boyfriend around, probably, about why you aren't ready to have sex and you really wish she could trust you again. Confronting the problem might seem weird, but there's nothing else that could help as much.
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You've got to talk to her. Something must have happen to make her react this way. Sit down with her and tell her your not ready and convince her that nothing happened and if something did, you'd tell her. If you at least let her know, then she might change her ways, but your probably going to end up waiting, just ask her whats been going on.
-TheTeenGirl
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That is always a tough situation...maybe get to know her by going out to lunch with her or come over to his house when you know he won't be home and just sit down and talk to her. She will really appreciate it and maybe open up to her about your views on teenage sex. Say something like you think it is wrong and stuff and she will realize that she was wrong about you and like you more. Having your boyfriends parents like you is a huge thing so try from now on to keep the door open and maybe do things with the family more...she will become more comfortable with you being alone after she gets used to the idea.
hope i helped!
jess
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Freakin' get her and tell he solidly " MOM I HAVEN"T DONE ANYTHING SEXUAL WITH MY BOY FRIEND SO STOP BEING SO DAMN PARANOID..." eh it might work
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You just got to build up on that sort of trust. parents freak over the littlest things if there "Babies" are doing something they dont want them doing. They believe whatever there mind tells them. Anyways you just have to build up that trust and keep reassurring her that nothing happaned-trix
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