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Hello, my name is Jessica. I am a cheerleader for Football, Basketball, and Wrestling at my high school. I am an editor for our yearbook and I write for the school newspaper. I have a wonderful boyfriend named Andrew and we have been together for two years...YAY! I am going to college for either wedding cordination, or photography. If you have any questions leave me one in my inbox and I will get back to you right away. I am on advicenators almost everyday.


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I have this tendency to go to drive thrus on the way home from school because I don't know what to have for lunch at home. I'm trying to give it up but its harder then it seems. I need help before I end up gaining the freshman 10.
Signed,
could be fat

just don't take money with you to school...unless you really need it for something (like lunch money) that way you won't have the cash to go through the drive through and just remember that you won't like to gain weight so stay away from the fast food.

jess

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15/f--my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time but the other day i was at his house and his mom came upstairs and saw us coming out of his room (we were looking at yearbooks) and she freaked out and thinks we're having sex even though i'm not anywhere near ready to do that, and she won't even let us watch tv without someone else in the room. she used to like me a lot, how can i get her to trust me/us again?!?

That is always a tough situation...maybe get to know her by going out to lunch with her or come over to his house when you know he won't be home and just sit down and talk to her. She will really appreciate it and maybe open up to her about your views on teenage sex. Say something like you think it is wrong and stuff and she will realize that she was wrong about you and like you more. Having your boyfriends parents like you is a huge thing so try from now on to keep the door open and maybe do things with the family more...she will become more comfortable with you being alone after she gets used to the idea.

hope i helped!
jess

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tonight me and my bf were talking and well idk tonight we were talking and i asked whats wrong and hes like everything im like.. umm well whats that.. im listening and hes like naw jk nothing and im like ok and he is like well actually idk whats wrong... why doesnt he know?

Sometimes you can feel down or depressed and not really know why. Prying into it might not be the best thing either...try letting him know you care without being too pushy. Let him know you are there for him and i am sure that when he realizes why he is feeling down or w/e he will let you know.

good luck

jess

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im not sure what catagory to ut this in but here we go, ok im usually always wearin a jacket because i sweat sometimes and i dont know why and i dont want people to see them especially boys armpit stains arent attractive and i have tryed a lot of deoderants like dove, teen spirit, a lot of em can anyone give me any advice on this horror thanks so much

hm...that is a tough question and happens to everyone. Wearing black shirts when you know you will sweat (p.e. or exercises) and light colored shirts for day to day...it won't show up very bad on very light or very very dark shirts. As far as the sweating...deoderants really just make it not smell...not stopping the sweat. Try Ban for a good antipersprant (sp?) and it smells good too!

jess

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My friend and I are going to dress up as a nerd/geek for twin day at our school. We can't decide what to wear. So far we have black glasses with tape, and suspenders that have Ninja Turtles on them and another one has Spider man on them. What else should we wear. We are girls so not "guy" type of stuff.

long socks, short pants, loafers, ect

jess

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im 13f n ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost three weeks now and we still havent kissed. he kisses me on the cheek all the time but thats it. is this going too slow?

no not at all...just go in what you believe, if you don't kiss on the lips for another month or two that is okay!

jess

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whats wrong with being a catholic girl..

nothing...i guess

people have different views of course but no certain religion is wrong or right...all depends on what you think.

jess

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