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What am I supposed to do?
Ok, So I met this chick, and fell madly in love with her, but she didnt feel the same, so I had to work on her.. Finally we started going out, but it felt forced, and I told her this, so now she is acting all lovy dovy, like she actually fell in love with me.
But the problem is, with all the coldness she showed toward me.. I no longer love her, I only like as friends, IF that.. so I really dont know what to do, I don't want to hurt her, but I also dont want to be in a relationship with her.. Please Help me!
She sent me an email saying she seriously thought about breaking it off with me, and she was going to, till I finished work, and she realised how much she loved me.. but I'm not who I used to be around her, I don't miss her any more, I don't want to kiss her any more.. HELP!
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It doesn't need to be love at first sight; a little work in relationships is always a good thing. It would be bad if you both loved eachother right off, before you even got to know eachothers' faults. If I were you, I wouldn't end it just yet. If your instincts were to be attracted to her, than maybe they were right. So tell her that you want to bring it down a level, and date just to get to know eachother more. It is important to start somewhere before you are immediately soulmates. LOL hope i helped- rate plz!
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Break up. If you feel so many mixed feelings tell her you can't deal with all of this everyday. And maybe you guys can be friends later on or something. But if you don't love her anymore, then you shouldn't lead her on by keeping things going.
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Boy, try to tell the girl in the nicest possible way that you two are not meant to be anymore... but say that you still want to be her friend and that you'll always be there for her. Try to do it over the phone though, because it is really hard to breakup in person. and don't do instant message either because thats too impersonal.
Hope i helped ya.........
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