Question Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 4:23 pm
ok ive been "going out" with this guy "Adam" for about 3 years now, and i am truelly in love with this kid. You wouldnt believe. He has told me that he loves my, and all that jazz, but the outher day, he told me he waas falling for another girl. Not as hard as he fell for me. he was all like " i just thought you should know, and i still love you more than anything, and i still wanna hang out, because you are the only girl i have fun with" My question is, should i really be woried, and another thing is i dont know how to talk to him about it. I rate high!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hopelessnlove answered Saturday February 12 2005, 9:20 pm: if this kid really loves you, then def. don't be worried, becuase even if he did leave you for another girl, he realize that your the one he truely wants. But the fact that he thinks he's falling for another girl when he tells you he loves you, isnt a good thing. Although it may just be his relationship mid-life crisis with you, which ,means everything will be fine. But if you truely feel like its not gunna be fine, then leave this kid before he has a chance to leave you. I know what its like to be in love and have to leave the person, and it sucs, but theres more fish in the sea, your still young...:) mucholuck [ hopelessnlove's advice column | Ask hopelessnlove A Question ]
MiszjustineRenee answered Saturday February 12 2005, 8:57 pm: Thats really nice of him to tell you. But If hes not lying and he truly loves you more than anything you shouldnt worry. But if he starts acting all weird and is ignoring you, talk to him just casually bring it up! &heart justine [ MiszjustineRenee's advice column | Ask MiszjustineRenee A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 8:55 pm: Well i know i would be worried if my baby told me that.. so i guess you should be worried.. i mean he sounds like a good guy from what you said and that he does love you but i would tell him like how you feel about it.. and i would ask him if he thinks he would hook up with this female.. or think that his feelings might become strong for her.. you should find this out so you know if you should worry.. you also wanna look out for yourself so you wont get hurt..Much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
KaYlA1213 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 5:49 pm: i really think you should be worried. it seems like he just wants you as a friend, while he goes for another girl. just ask him straight up EXACTLY how he feels. good luck [ KaYlA1213's advice column | Ask KaYlA1213 A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday February 12 2005, 5:23 pm: You should be worried but then again, you shouldn't. It's good that he told you that he was falling for another girl and not having you find out from another person. You need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel about this and ask him why he likes this girl now. He will tell you and it will make him feel better. Your boyfriend eventually stop liking this girl but you should still be worried about it. Hope I helped :)
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lilangelshan08 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 5:21 pm: well i hate to say this but if he's looking at another girl maybe it's time for you to start checking out other guys, a while ago me and my current boyfriend broke up, so i started to see other people, while i was doing this he realized that he still loved me and it worked out very well for the two of us
*~*shan*~* [ lilangelshan08's advice column | Ask lilangelshan08 A Question ]
MummuM answered Saturday February 12 2005, 5:15 pm: My friend is in the same place you are right now and it's really hard on her. You have to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how your feeling. If you're really in love with someone, I don't think you should be crushing on someone else. I'd tell him everything your feeling about this. Just sit him down and be like "So, why do you like this other girl?". Then just explain to him how much he means to you. I'm sure he'll then tell you everything and maybe let some of the stress he's feeling out. But you have to talk about it, you can't let something like this go.
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