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Just friends..or more?
okay..well there is this boy in my class named "Collin" and collin and me are best friends..and we tell eachother everything..and well he tells me that he likes some else..but he cant tell me right now..and he and me always flirt..and all my friends think i like him and he likes me..the problem is i dont think i like him..i used too..but i just cant figure out my feelings at the moment..i mean..should i try to tell him that i might have feelings for him..or dont tell him at all..and does it seem from this thing..that he likes me?! i need help! thanks! xo
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Guy friends are awesome! You can really talk to them without all the girly issues and get a real guy's opinion about alot of stuff like if they really do like all the makeup on a girl and how they see the "games" and stuff). For now, hold off on anything relationshipwise. If you are not sure how you feel, then stay friends. My best friend in college was a guy and I was NUTS for him but he held me at arm's length until my hormones cooled off. Now, I look back and see his wisdom. If we had given in to the "feelings," then there would have been fights and stuff and a big black blot on the really cool frienship we had. Now all I have are great memories. Boyfriends come and go but true friends are a gift. And who knows, it may turn into something down the road...the best relationships are founded on mutual respect, common ground, and FRIENDHIP.
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I think that ya'll should just keep hanging out and really sit down and think about some of his qualities and his personality and the things that he does if you begin to laugh at it and it hits u that you might like him....theres your sign.
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I think you should wait. If he confronts you about it and you realize that you don't like him like him, then let him down easy. say that you wouldn't want your friendship to be ruined if they broke up.
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talk to him.
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before you say anything to anyone you have to figure out your own feelings. just wondering but would his first name me matt by any chance?
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I do not think you should tell him ya like him just yet. And yes I think he definitely likes you.
-Hope I helped!!!-
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christ, make up your friggin mind, stop being impulsive.
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If i were u i would just leave him as friends i went out with my best friend thats a boy then we got in a fight when we were going out and it ruined our friendship. I hope this advice helps you!!
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If he told you he likes someone else it's either a pathetic attempt at making you jealous or he really does like someone else. If you're unsure of your feelings, I would probably figure that out first before you decide whether or not to discuss it with him. And chances are if a guy flirts with you then he likes you.
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