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E-mail: SmashleyRae15@netscape.net
Gender: Female
Location: Rhode Island
Occupation: Buffy Fanatic
Age: 16
AIM: SmashleyRae15
Member Since: December 14, 2004
Answers: 8
Last Update: February 26, 2005
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Okay, well i need help with my room. I'm 13 by the way. Okay, so I'm not allowd to paint my walls, and I just got $6000, custommade furniture. But, the thing is, my walls look really empty...I need somthing coolin my room, im a guy. does anyone hae any ideas (link)
How 'bout some posters?


I have a BF(boy friend)and he said he was goin' 2 call me but he never did is that any sign of he wants 2 break up with me?or doesn't want to call me no more? i rate very high.

~~GRAPE~~ (link)
It could be that or he's just really lazy.


Ok, my friend Chris and I are TOTALLY weird. We both have shoes, and were like in love with them! We spit polish them, try not to get them into the mud, and admire them. My Baby Phats are sitting next to me right now and I'm admiring them as I type. Anyway, is this normal? I'm just wondering.

signed-
Baby Phat Lover (link)
OMG!!! my brother got me a pair of baby blue ones, and i was so pissed that i got them dirty!!


okay..well there is this boy in my class named "Collin" and collin and me are best friends..and we tell eachother everything..and well he tells me that he likes some else..but he cant tell me right now..and he and me always flirt..and all my friends think i like him and he likes me..the problem is i dont think i like him..i used too..but i just cant figure out my feelings at the moment..i mean..should i try to tell him that i might have feelings for him..or dont tell him at all..and does it seem from this thing..that he likes me?! i need help! thanks! xo (link)
I think you should wait. If he confronts you about it and you realize that you don't like him like him, then let him down easy. say that you wouldn't want your friendship to be ruined if they broke up.


Well I have this boy friend and I like totally in love w/ him! But I fing out all the things he does and some of his personal life I dont mean to I just hear now it's gottin into a habbit I like know his whole egaenda! Is this noraml? (link)
It's Puppy Love. Personally i just think you shouldn't tell him you know his every move lol


hello!! okay in my school there is this girl who thinks she is al that because her dad is "in the mafia" she has to have been like "my dads so busy cuz hes in the mob" or "im a mafia princess becuz my daddy is in the mafia". so the other day she sid "my mom was showing me this picture and she was pointing to all these guys and she was like 'hes in the mafia, and him, and him, and him too....' and then i asked who they were and my moms like "oh theyre your uncles" so i was thinking SHUTUP! in my head but instead i just said "right..the mafia" and she gave me this look like "omg" and like a really snotty look!! but i mean she ALWAYS talks about her dad being in the mafia! its so annoying she has to have said it like 20 times already im NOT kidding, i sit right behind her. I live in chicago illinios, preferably oak lawn, are there really mafia?? what should i say to her? what if she gets her dad and her dads mob to kill me or my famlily? thats why im scared to tell her 'honey, keep dreaming' or something but im getting really mad and i want her to shutup what shouldi say?! thanks for anyone who answers! (link)
Ok, here's the sitch. The mob is a VERY secret organization and they don't flaunt the fact that they are in the 'mob'. So its not true, because the people in the mob don't even usually tell their wives, why would she know?


my mom just got married,so i have a stepdad...i don't like him cause he doesnt do nothin & tells me what to do...all he does is sit in his ''spider man'' underwear & watches buffy-the-vampire...how do i try to get along with him????
HELP ME.... (link)
Dude! I love Buffy the Vampire Slayer!! But seriously. Have you talked to your mom about this?


well heres the deal, my parents have been divorced since a was like 3 (im 13 now). ive always lived with my mom and my dad lives over 300 miles away. i can only see my dad every-other weekend and i really don't like that. i miss my dad a lot when im not over there and im thinking about maybe moving over to his house. but i don't want to hurt my mom's feelings or leave all my friends here (but i don't think that making new friends will be a problem). ive also been having lots of problems with my mom lately...
what do you think i should do?
i'll rate high (link)
I have the same problem only my dad comes and goes from New York to Rhode Island. My mom has been really testing my nerves lately too. I'm sixteen and my parent have been divorced for 5 years now. I think you should try talking to her and then if that doesn't help i spend the summers with my dad and it helps to spend time away. The only thing keeping me from moving in with my father is the fact that i have moved 11 times with my momma and i'm sick of it. So now i don't really talk to her much anymore, i just do my own thing. But try spending the summer with your dad. It might help. But talk to her first.




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