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Hey guys wuts up? I have had lots and LOTS of friend problems from friends cutting themselves, to friends moving across they world soo please feel free to ask nething. My specialty is boys and friends so email or im me or just ask here!! Ill try to help u the best i can and hope u enjoy my column!! O yea Ana and Maddy and Andrea ans Kyla r my bestestestestest friends in the world!!!! Danielle ur cool too!!! lol jk but seriously.
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Ok well i have these two bff's in the world and they'd never do n e thing to hurt me! So one of my bff's has another friend witch is totally fine. But me and my other bff dont like her she tries to take her away and ruin our friendship. And she act's like she doesnt even know us in public. So today we got in a fight and now she's all pissed @ me. Wut shood i do?

hi maddy wt up? i just got off the phone w/ u cause u had 2 eat dinner!!!! well have fun reading this!!!
always ♥ Tess

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i have to admit it: i am addicted. addicted to something i could not live without since the day my sister gave it to me. i'm only 13 and i'm already addicted to something. i've seen what it does to people to be totally obsessed with something, but with me, it was so easy to get obsessed with... SOUR STUFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if there's something sour around, I ABSOLUTELY MUST HAVE IT!!! call me crazy (everyone else does!), but i am obsessed! while all my friends make weird faces when they take a lick of those warheads extreme stuff, i add lemon juice to make it more sour. i'm never satisfied! i even drink entire galssfuls of PURE lemon juice (nothing else added). i'm known for being really hyper as it is (i also have a laughing problem) and with all that sugar in sour candy... some kids are starting to joke around saying that i'm getting high. it's kind of funny but i honestly think that this could turn into a real problem. PLEASE HELP? don't say there's nothing wrong with this, because you have never seen me with sour candy within 50 feet away! and DONT tell me to give it up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


- Sour Psycho

WOW!! thats crazy i do the same thing. me and my friend once got "high" on minute maid powder (the stuff you mix into water and makes lemonade). dont worry bout it just try to get urself distracted when you c it dont let ur addiction pull you in. BE SDTORNG! Lol.
hope i helped
♥ Tess

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i was wondering if y'all could suggest what you find to be the best face cleaner to get rid of zits. i use oxy but it doesn't work as well as i want it to. thanks so much!!

um try clean and clean or neatrogean (however you spell it)
hope i helped
♥ Tess

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ok, there's this guy. i've liked this guy for a really long time, since like the 2nd or 3rd week since school started. we liked eachother for a while, but he liked this other girl to. finally, we decided to try the whole "going out" thing. that only lasted for 2 days. he broke it off and i was really sad. we didn't talk for a long time after that. but i had never REALLY stopped liking him, i would say that i didn't but i really did. just recently, we started talking alot more. we've been flirting alot and he acts like he likes me, but i don't know if he does. before we started talking, he would always be really mean and hurtful to me. but i still liked him. now, since he's nicer to me, i've sort of started recognizing my feelings. my friends think i'm crazy because he was so mean to me. i've tried to get over him but nothing works. and i don't know what to do because he acts lik he likes me but he flirts with other girls ALL THE TIME, mostly in front of me. I can't stop liking him and i don't know why. how do i tell if he likes me and should i take him back if he does like me??

Thois may sound mean but, HE DOES NOT LIKE YOU GET OVER HIM!!!!! I did the EXACT same thing. except that my bff (at the time) stole him away from me. you'll get way more hurt later on. get over the guy. or like him from a distance. hope i helped!
always ♥ Tess

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Ok the other day (I forgot how we came up on the subject)my friend and I were talking about how much we weighed. I told her first, but I am pretty skinny. Well, she told me she only weighed 2 more pounds than me (92). I think she is lying, however (maybe she feels embarassed?), because she wears a size five in jeans (I wear a 0). Can she really only weigh 2 more pounds than me, and yet still wear jeans way bigger than me? b/c me and this girl are REALLY good friends & i she NEVER lies to me (and i would hate for her to start!!) Thanks I will rate 5's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yea it is possible. I am 92lbs. 5" 2' (pretty short) and were a 0. My friend is 5" 6' and she is just as skinny as me but lots taller. So she needs to were a size 4. she weighs 3 in. more! so there is a chance that your friend is 94 lbs. she also might have said she's 94 lbs. when she's really 95. It's not a big deal it's only 1 lb. havent u ever exagerated the truth jus a LITTLE bit? Your friend is not starting a lieing streak, i can tell you that!!!
hope i helped
Always ♥ Tess

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Hey, why didn't you put me in there with your bestestbestestbestest friends in the whole world? Huh? ???? ???? Oh, by the way, I like your home page!

I did!!!! check it!!!!!! I SWEAR ON MY LIFE!!!! and i wouldn't b talking you didn't put me on urs!!!

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Im trying to find a good book to read for school project andi cnat find one .... i've recently been reading books that involve drugs and relation ship.... and i like well really anyhting fiction that isnot fantsy, science ficion. or non-fiction PLEASE HELP

um try kissing kate. It's a really good but kinda weird book it's about a teenage girl and she's lesbo. It sounds really weird but it is REALLY good. also try ttyl its about 3 best friends. one of the friends gets drunk and crap at a party. the other gets like melested (sort of) by they're teaching. Stuff like that. hope u find a good book and i helped!
Always ♥ Tess

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ok, see i'm new at my school. I came here about a month ago. I'm a freshman in high school and about 3 weeks after i moved here, i met a junior at a party. He kissed me that night but i was really wasted. I didn't think much about it until he called me the next weekend wanting to hang out again. we just went over to his friends house and he ended up kissing me again. I have been having my doubts about him like if he's using me or whatever but when he kissed me, he asked me first and he didn't try anything else. Plus, i'm not a virgin and he is and he wants to wait... but then again he's a really popular guy and all and he could even get a senior if he wanted. that's why im so confused... i mean why would he want me?! well, we ended up not talking much after that and i heard from someone that he didn't like me. So i just figured i got used and didn't talk to the guy anymore. But he stopped me today in the hallway and told me he tried calling me this weekend but i was babysitting and that he really wanted to do something with me.... i just dont know what to do? i dont know if he likes me or what? i mean i really like him and all so i just dont know what to do? Please help me!! sorry so long but i rate! :)

I think he is interested in you but if he has a history of using girl then he probly will do the same to you so i would do some research. Ask around and see if he is interested in other girls. But stayed layed back dont aproach him as desperate. Hope i helped!! plz rate
Always ♥ Tess

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my two friends that i love have been together for 6 months feb. would have been 7. anyway he just asked her for a break they both still love each other and all but i was wondering what break really meant. Like will they be able to see other people or what are the terms to a break?

a break usually means: you two are still technically going out but are seeing other people. a break will mean that they will get back to gether but they need there space. Like they dont call eacother everynight and hug and kiss in public, not so lovey dovey.They probly both need some space, freedom. You chouldn't be worried bout them most likely the WILL get back together.
Always ♥ Tess

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Can anyone tell me any good websites for a 13/f to look at that don't need sound? I'm insanely bored a lot of the time, and I'd like to find some new intresting websites to look at. Thanks!

try 321teenchat.com its a nice website for teens to chat on and you dont need to sign up or nething just go and chat. also try www.kiddonet.com yea its kinda cheasy but has some fun games. another good game site is addictinggames.com. Hope i helped!
always ♥ Tess

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Ok i am really attcracted to this one girl it's just plane crazy. But she already has a bf on her hockey team that goes to a different school. Wat should i do???? i rate 5

Like her!! Just dont try nething on her, she's taken! i did that to a guy i liked and his gf was my bff, not pretty ended up losing her and of my otha friends. Wait for her to break up or find another girl to like! hope i helped!
Always ♥ Tess

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This boy in my class told every 1 who i liked and now I dont even like him n e more because he's going out w/ to otha grls. so every 1 thinks I like this juvie that i really dont like.
Wut shood I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

hi danielle just tell who was it (jacob) that he's a gaywad! (cuz he is) just kidding luv ya danielle
Always ♥ Tess

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I am 15 and have been going out with the same guy for 4 years. I lost my virginity 2 him when I was 14. He is starting to act way to controlling and we have gotten into several fist fights and he forces me to have sex with him sometimes. I met a guy on the internet that lives 1700 miles away. We have been talking for a while and I think I am in love with him. Is it possible to love someone that far away? He also says he loves me back, and wants to meet. Thanks

It is pssoible but i dont think its a good idea. Maybe this guy is a 35 year old child melester? lol jk. I would dump ur so called "bf" and find another guy close you can still chat w/ the guy online but let him kno that you have to find someone close. Hope i helped! rate me and visit my column
Always ♥Tess

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I have this friend, And I seriously think that I am falling for him. We talk all the time and we claim eachother as best friends and all, But now, I dont know, I've seriously fallen for him. I tlak to him and I get this big smile on my face and I just start giggeling. All I ever want to do is be near him! ugh... oh yea, He's younger than me. What do I do?
((Confused))

Falling for ur best friend isnt all that bad. But you might not want to get too serious. You never wanna ruin the friendship you guys have, belive me. Like him from afar and wait, maybe he'll ask you out. but for now find other guys. hope i helped
always ♥ Tess

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Can you skip your period and not be pregnant? In other words, if you miss a period, is the only explanation pregnancy?

Nope. For the first couple of years ur period WILL be iregular. Dont fret, happens to the best of us!!
Always ♥ Tess

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ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. considering valentines day is today, i got my boyfriend the video game that he wanted. he came over to my house after school and all he did was sit and talk about his game. and he left me on valentine's day to play his game.. would he be considered a shitty b/f?

i wouldnt carachtorize him as "shitty" but if he has done this lats then yea. He probly is just excited bout the game give him a week or two. If he doesnt change, dump him.
Always ♥ Tess

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I have a long haired domestic black cat. I also have beige carpeting throuout my home. He leaves clipms of hair all over the house and not even vacuming seems to work in pickking it up. I am sick of spending hours on my hands and knees trying to get it off of the floor. Any suggestions?

Brush ur cat frecuantly and make sure she is well groomed.
♥ Tess

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okay. i'd been with my boy for a month and i really liked him. the only problem was that we fought. all the time! about the stupidest little things. he will be upset and i'd ask what's wrong and he'd just be all 'nothing' when i knew something was wrong. then he'd say that i said or did something to upset him bet he never told me what. i got so pissed of last night that i dumped him. i live in australia so it's valentines day today and every little thing reminds me of him. i know that if i asked for him back that he would take me but i dont want to be with him. i dont think. i'm just confused. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

signed,
confused

If he made you feel so bad then dont regret it but if you really do like him and want to get back send him a belated vday present. It might b just the thing to win him back and apologize. Be extra sweet. If u and him do get back together make sure that you 2 trust eachother comepltely and let him kno u care for him. Hope this helps!
Always ♥ Tess

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Hey my back really hurts, and i was wondering if anyone knew any good stretches for it? Please explain what you do too, and believe me i give all fives! Thanks

Ok lay on the grond and lift ur right leg and left arm, do the same left leg right arm. then both arms both legs. hold each 1 for 30 sec.
hope these help!!!
♥ Tess

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I have a problem finding jeans that fit me. I am 5'3", and 85 lbs. I have tried many stores, but most of them don't even have any size 0's that fit me. I have to wear juniors b/c my legs are long, but most jeans are too baggy. The only place that I have occasional luck is Kohl's, but most of the time they don't even fit me. Does anyone know a good store for people with skinny, long legs? Or could I get custom made jeans cheaply (i'm guessing not). Please help me, I rate 5's!!!

I have the same problem try 00 or fif you have a used clothing store (like Plato's Closet) But a nice one nnot like ARC
hope i helped hun!!!!
always,
♥ Tess

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