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break up
okay. i'd been with my boy for a month and i really liked him. the only problem was that we fought. all the time! about the stupidest little things. he will be upset and i'd ask what's wrong and he'd just be all 'nothing' when i knew something was wrong. then he'd say that i said or did something to upset him bet he never told me what. i got so pissed of last night that i dumped him. i live in australia so it's valentines day today and every little thing reminds me of him. i know that if i asked for him back that he would take me but i dont want to be with him. i dont think. i'm just confused. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
signed,
confused
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well if you fight over the stupidest things and he won't tell you why most likly this relationship is going to go down the drain and fast. sorry but i know to many girls that have the same problems and they have no clue what to do.
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okay heres an idea, make up your mind. Im not gunna babye sit your thoughts for you and answer all your dumbass questoins. You like him or dont.
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Well.. Just sit him down and have a serious talk be like hey.. then express your feelings.. and if he dosnt want to talk just make him talk..hopefully he will understand.. and if he dosnt take you back the he wasnt right for you anyways.. as much as you want to believe he is... Just forget about him
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Why dont you call and talk to him about it, explain your feelings to him, tell him about how ya'll fought about stupid stuff and that you are confused...
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A friend of mine has been going through the same thing, the only difference is that she takes the guy back every single time. They have been off and on again for 3 years now, and they fight almost every day about really stupid things. So my advice to you is to try to forget about him, and don't take him back. You are most likely just wanting him back because of valentines day and everything that goes along with it. I hope I helped! ♥
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If he made you feel so bad then dont regret it but if you really do like him and want to get back send him a belated vday present. It might b just the thing to win him back and apologize. Be extra sweet. If u and him do get back together make sure that you 2 trust eachother comepltely and let him kno u care for him. Hope this helps!
Always ♥ Tess
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Well if you dont want to be with him.. then just stay single.. you might miss him a lil bit but you'll probably get over it.. he sounds like he likes a lil bit of drama in your relationship so thats probably why he did that.. you can do better then that and you dont need a lil boy thats going to play games.. and not be truth ful to you and talk bout whats on his mind
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it's understandable that you miss him cuz tomorrow is the official "love day" but if you don't wanna be with him...don't. if he's gonna be mad over stuff for no reason...he doesn't deserve you anyway! there's someone out there who is dying to be with you that won't get mad over stupid, nonsense stuff. good luck!
<3Kayla!
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well... you can't have a good relationship if your always fighting... if your fighting it won't work out and it sounds like its time for you to move on... just stop dating for awhile untill you meet the right guy... if you have mixed feelings than its best to just be friends with him.
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