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ok, there's this guy. i've liked this guy for a really long time, since like the 2nd or 3rd week since school started. we liked eachother for a while, but he liked this other girl to. finally, we decided to try the whole "going out" thing. that only lasted for 2 days. he broke it off and i was really sad. we didn't talk for a long time after that. but i had never REALLY stopped liking him, i would say that i didn't but i really did. just recently, we started talking alot more. we've been flirting alot and he acts like he likes me, but i don't know if he does. before we started talking, he would always be really mean and hurtful to me. but i still liked him. now, since he's nicer to me, i've sort of started recognizing my feelings. my friends think i'm crazy because he was so mean to me. i've tried to get over him but nothing works. and i don't know what to do because he acts lik he likes me but he flirts with other girls ALL THE TIME, mostly in front of me. I can't stop liking him and i don't know why. how do i tell if he likes me and should i take him back if he does like me??
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Thois may sound mean but, HE DOES NOT LIKE YOU GET OVER HIM!!!!! I did the EXACT same thing. except that my bff (at the time) stole him away from me. you'll get way more hurt later on. get over the guy. or like him from a distance. hope i helped!
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He does not like you, its so obvious. If he was ignorant to you AND flirts with other girls right infront of you, he don't like you. What he IS trying to do is see how many people he can get to like him; and your probably the 1st person on his list. Just don't think about him as much anymore and you should be ok.
If he does happen to like you, don't get back with him. You will just end up on square 1 again.
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I say you should go ahead and tell him how you feel about it and ask him if he likes you the same way still and then be happy together!!!
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Just some random thoughts...
If this guy was mean to you, and now he's suddenly being nice, he may just be flaunting his "guyness", which also includes flirting with all the other girls. He's showing off because he can.
Have you ever considered that he might be just being friendly with everyone? I don't know what your definition of flirting is...but some guys just make friends that way (weird as it sounds).
To answer your questions:
1) the only REAL way to know if he likes you is to outright as him (which may make him back off). You can also tell by how he treats you and others--you said he's flirting with other girls? If he really likes you, he definitely shouldn't be.
2) if he does like you and wants to pick up the relationship again, you could try...just remember that if he starts treating you badly again or if he's still flirting with girls, he's probably not worth it.
Hope this helped a bit.
P.S. If it doesn't work out, don't worry...you will get over him someday. It may take time, but he's not the only guy in the world (though he may seem like it at the moment). Have patience!
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