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How do I dumb my bf without being mean about it?
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slowly break away from him....yea you dont have to be mean about it or anything just say that you would rather be friends then dating...hope i helped
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Tell him that you rather be friends. Or tell him you dont feel that connection anymore. He'll be sad at first most likely but he'll get over you. Dont break up with him on V Day. Wait a few days after V Day.
~Brina~
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WEll... if i were you i would say to them very nicely that... "as nice and sweet as you are to me.. i only see you as a really good friend." I said that to my ex and we're still friends so it worked for me.
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you wana dumb your bf? just talk to him on aim a bit hell go dumb after trying to read your messages after a while
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Just tell him that you think that you should just be friends. Tell him that you like hangin with him, but when you do, it feels like your just being friends. You dont want to be like faking that you like like him in that way, and tell him you think he should be free to find someone else that will like him like a bf. I know the whole "lets stay friends" thing is so cheasy, but explain what you mean, by wat i said above^, or something you come up with. Also dont do it online, its kinda meaner. Do it in person if possible. If not, then phone would be the next best choice. I hope i helped!
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"Its not you its me. Lets just be friends." He'll hate you either way.
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Just tell him like it is.. you can always break up with somebody with out bein mean its not too hard.. jus watch your tone of voice and everything should go okay..much luv dez
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Like this.
Bitch, it's over.
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Breaking up without a breaking the other persons heart is one of the hardest things someone could encounter. Normally, the longer the relationship the harder it is to let someone go. We get attached, sometimes too attached.
If it's a short term relationship, things can still be a little rough. The last thing you want to do is send signals saying the relationship is moving along smoothly. The less signals -- the easier the break up.Staying friends is also one of the most over used break-up-lines today. Not all relationships can go from girlfriend/boyfriend to "just friends." No matter how much we want it, it just won't always happen.In some cases however, being friends is the best choice. That is IF you have things in common AND you don't talk about your relationship of your current girlfriend/boyfriend with him/her. That is definately a heart breaker.The easiest (and most effective) way to break up is through communication. Obviously if you don't want the relationship to end badly you two have a lot in common, therefor you should be able to talk about what you need and what's wrong with the current situation.The best thing to do in a break up is to tell the complete truth. If you are sure that you never want to go out with him/her again you don't want to have any possibilities of misunderstanding.
An example, if you do not want to talk to him/her TELL THEM. Do not give them the possibility of calling you ever few hours and you just not answering, it breaks hearts quickly and at the beginning keeps their hopes high.The last thing you should do in a relationship is let it drag out too long. If you want out of the relationship TELL THEM, and fast. Do not let it go any longer or you will end up breaking their heart even more and you will also end up with a broken heart if not limb.
In conclusion, 1) Tell the truth, 2) Talk to your partner about the situation and 3) Don't let the relationship go on for longer than what YOU want it to.
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Tell him that u would love to b friends but it's too complicated being bf/gf and give some reasons. Thats wut i did w/ my old bf it worked for me hope i can help!
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