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hating my new school!
i used to live in florida but then my dad got transfered to pennsylvania.i had tons of friends at my old school but i dont fit in at my new school.i sit with the popular people and i thought they were my friends but then i found out they have been going to the movies and stuff.they just dont call me to hang out they call everyone but me!what the hell?they treat me like a friend at school so why not include me?for valentines day they all wore these really cute pink shirts that are matching. and im the only one at their table who didnt hav the matching shirt.then they were talking about stuff that happened at the mall. i just sat there like how can you be so mean when im sitting right here.
what should i do?????????
should i talk to them about?
should i sit with a different group at lunch??
please help i rate high just for answering!
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hey well i think you should talk to them about it...tell them how ya feel...hope i helped ya! good luck!
ally
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ugh girls can be real bitches! i was in the same situation as u a few years ago. Here is what i think you should do; you could either talk to one or 2 of the girls in that group who you feel closest with and tell them how you feel and how it was really mean how they did that shirt thing without you and other things that they did that bothered you and then maybe those girls could talk to the whole group if you don't want to confront the whole group. another thing you could do is find some other kids who treat you better and you know you can trust and will include you and treat you well. Open your horizon to other girls and guys and see what happens.
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Well you see, theres school friends, and theres hang out friends.
TO them your a school friend
Invite one over to your house, then your a hang out friend.
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I say start hanging out with some new people. i mean even if you dont like the other people just give them a chance for one thing it will get the other girls mad at they will ask you why you left them and say well how come you didnt include me.they cant argue with that and if they do just be like look ya'll treated me like dirt and i was sick of it if ya'll want me back you might wanna try treating me like a freind this time.
Blayre
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If you don't mind me asking but where in PA did you move 2 i just moved to PA a month ago.
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Well what if they think YOU arent inviting them to do stuff....Maybe you should one day be like "hey guys we never do anything together, lets go out." If you all go out and have fun, im sure they will invite you to go out with them more. However if they dont invite you out still....then confront them. Tell them that you really like hanging out with them at school, but you feel left out when they dont include you. Don't go sitting at a different lunch table ight away because your friends will think your betraying them or that your mad at them, and then it will be a big mess. So communicate with them. Hope i helped!
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This sounds like a very cliquey situation, so it's tough. You have two options: try really hard to be part of the group, or just find new friends. Option two is most likely the best, because trying too hard is kind of a lose-lose situation; either they think you're trying too hard or they ignore you.... so probably find some new friends who will accept you.
Thanks love
xo ask me
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well sometimes you just got to include yourself instead of waiting for them to include you. Show them how cool you can be and maybe they'll be like, hey, i like her, lets invite her somewhere! a total plus is tell them your from Flordia and they'll be so interested in knowing what its like to live there... trust me ;-) but if that doesnt work maybe look for girls that are more acepting and total awsomeness. Most of my closest friends aren't the most popular, they are just themselves and thats all i ask for. hope i helped!
Emily
p.s.- i think its totally cool your from Florida...awsome!
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Maybe instead of just sitting around waiting for THEM, you should invite them to do something. PLan a slumber party or ask em if they wanna chill at the mall. But, just out of experience, it doesnt sound like they're REALLY your friends. Instead of worrying how popular they are, try making friends with the people you sit next to in your classes.
i hope it helps ya! ;)
<.::~*~ SuGa HiGh ~*~::.>
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♥ well obviously these so called popular people don't feel close enough to hang out w/ u on your theyre own time so try inviting them or telling them how you feel
but always remember that girls are bitches and the ones u think are your friends r usually the ones that talk behind your back... so watch out ;)
xo ♥ heather featherz
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invite all the guys in that group to go to the movies with u. think about it!
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Popularity isn't everything! Talk to some new people and get some real friends!!!Hope this helps!!!!
~Alyssa
P.P.-what part of Pennsylvania do u live in?
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They pr0bably d0n't even know that they are treatinq you that wr0ng. yOu shOuld fill them in...in a p0lite way..like when my friendsz do that...i say like in a sarcastic way "okay bitches DONT include me!" but they kn0w i`m playin and say sorry and they d0n't forget next time..yOu should talk to them ab0ut it hun =) and i`m sorry they treat y0u like that..i kn0w how it feelsz..but it w0n't always be that way if y0u just tell them!
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