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I got my first kiss wednesday and I want to be able to tell my mom and I want to be able to talk to her about things like that and I don't know what to do. Like what can i do so that my moms and mines relationship is stronger? and so i can tell her and talk to her about things like this.
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well..i would have to see what kind of Mom you have. if she is a reactive mom..and is like AH and startings getting all mad..wait on this..if you really can talk about this to her do. a first kiss..well is is a first kiss..something to cherish..and well re-live...so use your own experience on whether to tell her or not.
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Go shopping, check out some new makeup brands, make bracelets (I did this with my mom and it helped so much!), watch a bunch of girlie movies together and PIG OUT on snacks! Then ask her about boys and tell her about your first kiss.
*Randy T*
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well it all kinda depends on how old you are..
if your like 13 then be like "mom when do u think im allowed to kiss?" and if she says your too young then if i were you i wouldnt talk to her about it untill your like 14--if your like 15 then ya go right ahead and talk to her about it.. im sure she'll wanna talk it out with u too!Hope i helped--x0o*CrYsTaL mAuReeN*o0x
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Yes you can talk to her about these things and yes you should. It's very smart to maintain a strong bond with your mother. You will have more successful relationships in the future if you do.
Feel free to open up to her. Even if she may be critical at times, she will appreciate your ability to create a bond with her and she will trust you to do the right thing when the going gets rough.
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to tell her u should jsut be alone with her, make sure there is no stress between the two of u and when u 2 are having a good time, and laughin, be liek, so ya theres this guy, hes reaLly vute, he gave me my first kiss or something lke that
michelle
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just tell her. she will be glad you trust her enough to share it with her. trust me on this. it would really make her day if you would open up to her about something so important like that.
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maybe u should just bring it up one day when u 2 are driving in the car or shopping together be like " mom how old where you when you got your first kiss" or something like that and when she tells you shes deffinatly gunna say "why?" and just be like "well i want to build our realtionship stronger so we can be able to trust eachother and stuff.. i kissed ((the boys name)) wednesay and i just wanted you to know" or say something like that ..just say what comes to mind but if shes one of those moms who will go off the deep end then you should wait to tell her.i know its hard for you to talk to yuor mom about that kind of stuff and u feel uncomfortalbe but no matter wht she will always love you
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just tell her what happend (if its approiate) be like hey mom ....... happend and we kissed.. and see how it goes if she dont wanna be there 4 you or whatever just talk to a close friend about that stuff
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well,i cant tell you whAt to do but the best way to tell your mom that you got your first kiss to bring up the subject like "hey mom what was it like when you got your first kiss?" but you shve to do what your think is a good way to tell your mom. your mom and your relation ship is really good im sure but after years go bye you and your moms relationship will grow i say this becuase you need to take things slow and not to fast.
*a$hl3y*
p.s hope i was of any help.:)
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First kiss...wow I remember those days! Well to relate with my mom on topics like these-ask her questions like-"Mom..what was your first kiss like?" or just ask her things that would make you feel comfortable talking to her about. Telling my mom that I lost my virginity was hard and I felt a lot more comfortable telling her about it by sitting down with her alone and sharing secrets and treating her like a friend not just someone who can ground me.-Tiffany
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I would be like mom i want to tell u something becuase i feel that u should know and that i can tell u these kind of things!! and then jus tell her about it!!
Krissy xoxo
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I am in the same situation ((exactly the same)). Just try to talk to her or something...
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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Just tell your mom im sure she would be happy to see her lil baby is growing up.. i am really close to my mom and i am glad she is there for me no matter what! x0xLuckyx0x
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What you gotta do is just sit her down and tell her about your first kiss!! She's gonna be so happy about it and that you came to talk to her that it'll make your bond with her even closer! Mom's like these kind if things lol! Hope I helped :)
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moms dont handle that sutff well. But anyway, try. Just say mom I had the best time the other day me and __ kissed. Try getting your nails done with your mom or treat her to a lunch date, talk, relate. gl xo
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Aww! Just sit her down& bring it up..that's how i did it a few weeks ago,& it worked wonderful for me;) You're mom will be soo happy that you can come to her with things like that& that will automatically bring you two together MUCH closer! Hope I helped!
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spend some time with ur mom. i no that ppl think that mom "bonding time" is lame, but it rilli works if u wanna hav a stronger relationship wit ur mom! it is also sumtyms fun. if u show an interest in spending tym wit ur mom den i'm sure dat she'll take an even greater interest in u. then tlk about ur kiss and anythin else that u wanna tell her about. i'm sure thins will work out great, and u'll find a new best friend (ur mom)! :D
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Well, me and my mom have a pretty good relationship. It will be kinda wierd to just talk to her about some things at first, but it will get easier, and eventually you wont mind it. You think its going to freak you out to tell your mama that you have kissed a guy, but what you need to realize is that your mama was once your age, too and she had the same feelings you have right now. She will understand everything you have to say to her, because she was once in that position. And kissing someone isnt that big of a deal. Im sure she wont get mad or anything. I think you can make your relationship stronger with your mama by just talking to her on a personal level and considering her more as a friend than as your mom. Tell her whats bothering you and the situations that your in! Good Luck! Lemme Know! $*Emily*$
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