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For a friend
I'm getting advice for my friend.. Ok, well my friend is going out with this great guy, adn when she told her mom that he liked her.. She ssaid taht she should only be friends with him.. How can she tell her mom they are going out without hurting her feelings???
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There is no law that says she has to even tell her mom. It's not her mother's life.
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well if i were her then i would talk to my mom about why she thinks that we should only be friends and once she finds out why her mom feels like that then she will no how to tell her mom but tell her to try not to be rude with her mom becuase that always makes things harder.
p.s. tell me how things work out
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She should very calmly try and talk and explain to her mom that he's a really nice guy and that he treats her with respect. She should also try to stress the issue of getting to know him and accepting the relationship a little. It'll take time but you need to tell her that they feel comfortable around each other and that's all that really matters.
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She should ask her mother why she can only be friends with him. If he really is a great guy, then maybe her mother would be cool with her going out with him. See if her mother will let a "friend" come over =P then see if he can charm her.
If her mother likes him, then get him to ask for permission to go out with her daughter.
There's no need to tell the mother that she's already going out with him, just make her happy with it happening. If she's not going to be happy with it, then there are only two options. Keep it secret (which won't work), or hurt her mother's feelings.
Hope her mother likes him!
-K
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