I was looking at my boyfriend's myspace friends, and saw that on some girls picture, he had commented "that pic is fucking hott." should i be concerned at all? do you all think this is a big deal or something i should just let go?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mackenzie answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 6:32 pm: Well think of it this way, MOST guys will prettie much have specific opinions and/or attractions to certain girls.. whether or not they already have a girlfriend. Just because he might not be VOICING those thoughts... does not mean he doesn't still THINK them, make sense? What I would do is.. use this opportunity to talk it over. Personally, I would be SUPER FLAMING MAD, but you might disagree with those feelings I have, and that's perfectly fine. To each his own, and feelings are never 'wrong'.. [: [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
xoBrowneyes answered Monday September 19 2005, 4:40 pm: You shouldn't be to concerned but you should ask him why. Don't let it blow over like it was nothing because then he might think it is alright to cheat with you even though its not. CLAIR [ xoBrowneyes's advice column | Ask xoBrowneyes A Question ]
MummuM answered Monday September 19 2005, 4:40 pm: I wouldn't worry about it, hun. Just let it go. You shouldn't be concerned about this at all. It's normal for guys to think other girls are hot, even when they do have a girlfriend. I'm sure you find other guys hot too. So it works the same way. So just ingore it. Just because he finds someone hot, doesn't mean he likes them. Remember, you're with him. There has to be something he likes, or he wouldn't be with you. Don't worry :)
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soon2bamom answered Monday September 19 2005, 4:18 pm: Well to let you in an a little seceret although you might think he is up to somehting 9 times out of 10 he isnt. He was probably being honest. And even though us girls dont say it out load or write it down, you no we think about other guys the same way. I think if it is realy bothering you just talk about it. Don't get mad at him. Just talk. Good Luck huni [ soon2bamom's advice column | Ask soon2bamom A Question ]
The_best_there_is answered Monday September 19 2005, 4:18 pm: just let it go i no i am a guy but i mean all guys look at the pics and think girls are hot dont tell me u never saw a guy and said hes hot just remeber the saying you can look but dont touch hope i could help ya [ The_best_there_is's advice column | Ask The_best_there_is A Question ]
KaTiE_LyNn answered Monday September 19 2005, 4:16 pm: sorry to say it, but your boyfriend will think other girls are hot. all boys have hormones, and they can't help it. i would just let it go. but if it matters a lot to you, just tell him it bothers you when he says things and he should just keep things to himself. :) [ KaTiE_LyNn's advice column | Ask KaTiE_LyNn A Question ]
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