Member Since: September 18, 2005
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Last Update: September 19, 2005
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my best friend diana, she weighs 113 pounds and she REFUSES to eat, and i sware. shes 12/f ps shes like 5'6
diana wants to be like me. im 13/f
im really small about 5'0 and i weigh a little over 76 pounds
she wants to loose like 20 pounds and be like me.
i find that disturding because like, it just is!
how can i tell her to stop it off and well yeah!
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ps she always says she is fat and she isnt!
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xOx mel
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Ok, I see where you are coming from with it being disturbing and all. I remember when I was 12, I only weighed in at 65 pounds. It's not that I was anorexic or anything, I just was very short. I think you should confront Diana and tell her that she is kind of scaring you and making you uncomfortable. I knew a lot of girls that say they're fat, but they're not. You need to warn Diana of what not eating can cause, (anorexia or just never feeling well), tell her this is very serious and that she should not be doing this to herself. Also, 113 is not bad at all. She doesn't need to lose 20 pounds or else that could lead to major health issues. Hope I helped. _-Anonymous-_
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a couple months ago i had tendonitis in my wrist. i stopped playing tennis for about two weeks and it seemed to heal. but when i sometimes hit the ball really hard it hurts like it did. not all the time though. i think right now it's because of my holding my racket too hard.. but it could be tendonitis. do you think it came back? yesterday we played another school and i played doubles and a really long tiebreaker singles and won.. and it hurt a little during singles. i dont think i'm just over hitting because i can play for hours. what do you think? (link)
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It's not supposed to scare you. Oh and it is tendonitis, but thanks for trying to give me advice. I went to a proffesional, not some girl I meet on the internet. Thanks for nothing! NOT!
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On July 4th, my cousin "Lily" and I went shopping wayyy early in the morning to catch sales. We came back to my grandpa's house at like 10:30ish. My other cousin "Tina" came over and usually, me and Tina are very close. We were sorta like best friends. The problem is Tina and Lily HATE eachother. Anyway, Lily's mom made us clean the windows all over the house. Tina was just watching us. By the time we were done cleaning the windows, Lily and I were more exhausted than we were after the mall. While Tina sat on the sofa reading her magazine, Lily and I talked about clothes and stuff and eventually, I did sit down with Tina for a couple of minutes to talk. When Tina went home, she cried to her dad about how I ignored her and didn't talk to her...TOTAL BS! Anyway, it's over two months later and she still hasn't called me or anything..what should I do? Let it go/Wait for her to get over it/ Call her..*I still have my pride* Don't you think she's being stubborn? I mean, I can hold a grudge..but NOT THIS LONG! help please xoxoxo (link)
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Grudges are not going to be the answer to your problems. Trust me on that one because I learned that in middle school after my best friends were mad at me for a couple monthes. We then became friends again and I hope that happens with Tina. Some people are more sensitive than others. You need your *pride* but not as much as your *friends and family*. I think that maybe she is being stubborn, but you're doing the same thing by not calling her. Just end all this mishap and call her, apologize if you hurt her feelings or ignored her that day. You may thing that it is BS, but life is short, so don't fight over small things. It's the big things in life that matter and I'll tell you this isn't one of them. Hope I helped.
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my parents finally let me have a pet, but they said it has to be quiet and not stink too bad. i wanted something i could really play with, you know take on walks or something. Will rate good.
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I think that you should choose a dog. Dog's are very good companions and if you feel like you have nobody to talk to, it always feels good to just take your dog in your room, shut the door, and just start talking to it. Call me crazy, but it's the truth. Dog's can be a big responsibility at times, but I think personally that it all pays off. You don't want a pup probably because they are WILD, I would go with like a 6+ dog. They are very good. I myself have a Lassie dog. Dog's can be relaxing, but for younger kids or teenagers, they can be very fun to play with and it is nice to just take a walk. You and your dog. Well, I hope my advice helped in your decision.
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(warning, long)Okay - I've fairly recently had to go through two deaths of one close family friend and a friend of mine. I am now very, very scared to have to undergo another funeral, and also, when the family friend died, my mother took it very hard even though she wasn't even all that close to him. A couple of my relatives are in failing health, and not to sound like a downer, but they will be passing on soon. Does anybody have any ideas as to how I could prepare myself for this, cope, and try to help my mom along as well? (the not-so-healthy family members are on my mom's side..) (link)
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You need to sit your mother down and just kind of go over what is happening. Just tell her maybe kindly that their death may be nearing, not neccesarily meaning that they're close though. I know what this is like because when my grandmother died I didn't know for about 4 hours. I know it seems short but I was only a kid, and I was very close to my grandmother. Anyways, enough about me, we're talking about you. You need to pray or whatever it is your religious belief does, every night for each individual family member. You can not do much becuase this is just a way of life. Just do what it is that you are able to control. Most importantly, remember: Do not under any circumstances blame your self.
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