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it's gone on too long
On July 4th, my cousin "Lily" and I went shopping wayyy early in the morning to catch sales. We came back to my grandpa's house at like 10:30ish. My other cousin "Tina" came over and usually, me and Tina are very close. We were sorta like best friends. The problem is Tina and Lily HATE eachother. Anyway, Lily's mom made us clean the windows all over the house. Tina was just watching us. By the time we were done cleaning the windows, Lily and I were more exhausted than we were after the mall. While Tina sat on the sofa reading her magazine, Lily and I talked about clothes and stuff and eventually, I did sit down with Tina for a couple of minutes to talk. When Tina went home, she cried to her dad about how I ignored her and didn't talk to her...TOTAL BS! Anyway, it's over two months later and she still hasn't called me or anything..what should I do? Let it go/Wait for her to get over it/ Call her..*I still have my pride* Don't you think she's being stubborn? I mean, I can hold a grudge..but NOT THIS LONG! help please xoxoxo
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Grudges are not going to be the answer to your problems. Trust me on that one because I learned that in middle school after my best friends were mad at me for a couple monthes. We then became friends again and I hope that happens with Tina. Some people are more sensitive than others. You need your *pride* but not as much as your *friends and family*. I think that maybe she is being stubborn, but you're doing the same thing by not calling her. Just end all this mishap and call her, apologize if you hurt her feelings or ignored her that day. You may thing that it is BS, but life is short, so don't fight over small things. It's the big things in life that matter and I'll tell you this isn't one of them. Hope I helped.
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I think she's an idiot. Quit wasting your time. At first you may just think I'm an asshole. But if you truly sit back to think about it, she's an idiot. Just sit and think about it before acting upon what I've told you and topping my avg score off with that 1.
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I think you should call her and be like Hey Its so and so..and be like I didnt mean to ignore you and if you got that impression than im sorry it seemed that way but i wasnt trying to do that at all to you so please dont assume things woithout confronting me..so this will help you maintain your pride and stand up for yourself but than be on a good basis with your cousin ...im sorry if this is confusing its like 11:10pm and i have been up since 6 15 am..=)
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