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Bully


Question Posted Wednesday April 20 2005, 4:38 pm

In school there are about 10 boys that pick on me they call me names and I hate it , Once I tried to kill myself but they laughed more Please help me!

Wales Bullied


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juhi answered Tuesday April 26 2005, 5:28 am:
i had bully probbloms but never this bad.you may be able to sue them.if you do not want to sue them you might have to change your school or start fresh where no one knows you.If they laughed when you tried to kill your self they are realy mean.do not show them you are upset ignore them and think of funny t.v. show you saw some other time.But be careful not to make them feel like they are dumb bullies.If you begg them to stop bullying you it may hurt your pride but it will give them the satisfaction.But do not make them feel guilty.

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SurpriseYourself answered Sunday April 24 2005, 11:56 am:
everyone has bully problems. and sometimes what teachers and parents say just dosent help. but dont try to kill yourself. Thats like bullying yourself and bullying the people that really care about you. you need to go tell someone if its so bad that you were thinking like that. because people love you and really do care and you cant just let them down by hurting yourself. You need to be a role model for all of the other kids like you in the world. save yourself and be proud of who you are what you can acomplish and how much better you are than the bullies because you arent stooping down to their level. and how about this, get an account on this website(they're free)and start helping others. it definatly makes you feel better to help people when your having problems yourself, and sometimes youll find that the best advice that people are giving you is what you really believe and what you really know in your heart. because everyone has someonew that loves you and you need to find them.

Be true to yourself.

Love, surprise yourself

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xXAnOn_ChiCkXx answered Saturday April 23 2005, 3:41 pm:
Try going to a councelor and telling her what those kids do.Also ask her to leave the tip anonymous. Also you could try ignoring them and then they wouldn't have fun anymore and leave you alone. With the commiting suicide part, please don't try to get back at them by doing that it would be a waste, and a terrible tragedy to your friends and family.
I wish you the best of luck.
xXAnOn_ChiCkXx

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Sweetlittleree answered Saturday April 23 2005, 1:57 pm:
First off I think that killing yourself is a bad way to go. Here lately I've been studying about bullies. I think that one of the best ways to get a bully to leave you alone is ignore them, let them say something to you but walk away. If that doesn't work try to get some help from a counselour, teacher, adult, etc. You could also try to humor the situation, if they call you stupid then just be like "Oh yeah I'm so stupid" and things like that, but whatever you do DON'T believe what they tell you. Even if you say it back to them don't think that it makes you stupid.

Lots of Luck,
~*MaRiYa*~

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DrEaMgIrL answered Friday April 22 2005, 9:05 pm:
The boys probably are trying to be cool. if it doesnt stop tell the counselor, if it is so bad that you tried to kill yourself then it is serious. they can get sespended for it. Just ignore them and think about all the good things in life. please please if it gets anymore serious talk to the school counselor or principal.


~Steph~

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IKEverything answered Thursday April 21 2005, 7:08 pm:
those boys who make fun of you are jack offs dont listen to them there just makeing fun of you to make there own pitiful excistence seem worth while dont go off killing urself becouse of some ass in highschool just go on and be all u can be and when your some fancy executive in some big name company and they still live in ur home town with there parents well see then who should be calling who names

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advicehotti21 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 6:44 pm:
KILING urself is defenately not the answer. you should never have to resort to this form of emotional lift because it does not work. Here's my advice to help you out with your extremely common problem.I'm going to give you some different solutions so you can choose because i don't know these bullies or your school functioning. 1. You should never let anything that bullies say offend you this is just their way of expressing themselves. They have probly had sum emotional damage in their lives r have been bullied before and had no one to tell them they don't need to become one to fight bullies. 2.You should probably tell your teacher and u will probably find that these bullies have other victims too don't let this scare you it just means that the bullies will be in even more trouble. Your treacher will make sure to keep them away from you by either sending them to a detention center or changin their school schedule where they will not be able to pick on you. 3. Don't try to fight these bullies becasue fighting isnt the answer this will just make it worse if you try to fight them. Have your friends back you up and dont pay attention so much on what is being said badly toward you but what peoplke say is good about you and u will be much better off

Luv,

advicehottie21

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lilangelshan08 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:20 am:
aww so you couldn't handle the advice i gave you? the truth hurts grow up you pathetic child. i'm generally a nice person but when i come across someone as stupid as you then being brutally honest is all i can do, like i said before DEAL WITH IT!! i'm not taking back what i said because what i said was true

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stalkingroxy911 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 9:21 pm:
how old are you-meaning do u go to elementary, middleschool or high school?

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impykid07 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 8:27 pm:
Suicide = selfish
you = idiot

Just fucking suck it up... Start to wrestle, like collegiant wrestling, good way to take out your anger, make you stonger, and kick peoples asses.

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Crazy_E_Fish answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 8:22 pm:
Ok, they are just kids that need a life and don't know how to get one. Just seem like you don't care at all. They pick on you cuz they know you hate it! Act like you have a life and you don't give a crap...they should stop after a while.

-Crazy E Fish

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LostAngel answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 7:35 pm:
Hun, don't kill yourself. They are just proving a point on how boys are immature and don't know how to grow up, thats why they say girls mature faster because it's 100% truee!!! Anyways, go to a teacher or something. Just don't kill yourself!! It really isn't worth it just because of 10 @$$es at your school, think of the people who are around you and care about you 24/7. Think of how much pain you'll put them threw if you kill yourself. Your just making your love ones life hell if you kill yourself because you'll be gone forever. Mostly parents and relatives, they most likely can't get over having a death of a child. Remember Children are suppose to buried the parents. Not the parents buried the children.
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XoxAndRea answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 6:54 pm:
Listen never ever try to kiil yourself!
Just ignore them and they will go away or just tell a teacher! DOn't threaten to fight them! I have been picked on before and i have gotten into fights and it isn't fun! anymore questions! Goahead and ask!

<3 andrea

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xOtWiXi answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 6:54 pm:
Maybe you don't see it, and those boys definitely don't but EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL IN THEIR OWN WAY, yes cheesy I know, but it is true. The only ugliness that a person has is their personality. Don't even dare try killing yourself and taking your precious life because of 10 idiots. Just ignore them, I know it's easier said than done, but just try it trust me. Killing yourself should NEVER be the answer. If you need ANYTHING, do not hesitate to message me, and I really hope that I've helped.

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o0xbrianna answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 6:01 pm:
Ignore them! Act like it doesn't phase you. Eventually, they will stop!




-Brianna

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i_will_stay_with_you answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:57 pm:
fisrt of all killing yourself is the most stupid thing you can do! if i were you i would ingore them and if that doesn't stop talk to you counslor, and ask him/her if he/she could keep it anonymous.

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Bianca_01 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:47 pm:
This is not a joking matter. If they are hurting you, you should tell someone. Don't try to kill urself, to many peole would miss you. You should really tell someone, even though they will laugh at you and maybe call you more names, you should still tell maybe even call kids help phone. My brother tried to stand up for himself one time. The problem was that he had no chance. Things got worse when the bully thretened to kill him. The bully pulled out a knife and almost killed my brother. My brother didn't tell anyone till that happened. So you should tell someone. Good luck!

~*§Bianca§*~

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xOxHOLLiSTERxOx answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:43 pm:
killing yourself won`t solve anything. you shoud ignore them. they know that it bothers you when they make fun of you and that`s why they keep picking on you! you can also tell your parents, a teacher, or the school councelor that you`re being bullied then they would do something about it. hope i helped &hearts;

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advicegiver13 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:36 pm:
Why would you try to kill yourself that won't make the problem go away and for that matter it won't make you look cool! Just ignore them or just tell someone if it gets way too out of hand! But don't try to get rid of yourself because of this! You are way better then them! They do this because they don't have a life! I hope your safe and hope i helped!

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