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theres this boy we arent dating or anything but we used too. well lately ive been hearing that he wants to date me again and he has been flirting with me. and also he has been asking me to have sex with him im a virgin and im not really ready for sex or anything wat should i do.
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dont do it! that is sooo bad! I do not believe in sex before marage, if he doesnt stop asking, i woudl tell an athority, a parent or teacher, or even cops or prinicipal, if he goes to your school because that is sexual harassment!
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Kelsa
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DO NOT HAVE SEX. And do not date this guy, he wants to date you, and use you for sex, which is the last mistake you want to make in your whole life, you will regret it. I can promise you that, you will look back and regret it. You say you aren't ready, then don't do it! You do not need to date this guy either, he keeps asking you to have sex and you still don't get it that hes pressuring you big time? Your title says Pressure, but if you knew it was pressure, you know its wrong and you'd know the answer to this question, please do not have sex with this guy or date him, hes not a good guy for you.
-TheTeenGirl
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Don't give into him, he just wants to pressure you into having sex with him and then break up with you and never talk to you again. Would you really want to lose your virginity like that? I wouldn't. Don't do anything that your not ready to do.
I hope you will make the right decision.
xXAnOn_ChiCkXx
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Then don't have sex with him. It's your choice, and you can't let a guy talk you into something that you don't want to do. If he really cares and respects you, then he won't pressure you. If he won't leave you alone about it, then don't bother with him. You deserve much better.
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you don't have to do anyting you don't want to do or anything your not ready for! how old are you?..go up to him and ask him if it is true! :)
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You need to let this guy know how you feel. Don't have sex with him, just because he wants to. If you two used to date and broke up, then that tells you something. Tell him that if he wants to get back together with you but you don't want to have sex with him, then he should understand that and not pressure you into having sex. If he doesn't, then you don't need a guy like him.
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Do not date someone that does not respect you. If he asks you even when you are not together, he's definatly going to bug you about it when you are. It seems that all he wants is sex so please don't fall into the trap no matter how much he says he "loves" you. He'll break up with you don't do it or get pregnant so he is not worth it. <3
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Well you should maybe tell him that. If he wants to date you again and he respects you he should respect the fact that you're a virgin and you want to stay that way for a while longer. If he has a problem with it then you know he only wants to go back with you just to get some sex. Say that if he wants to have sex with you he can go do it with [insert sluttiest girl in your school's name here]. He shouldn't be such a jerk and like asking you for sex when you're just getting back together. That's a little immature and desperate sounding to me. Have a talk with him and let him know how you feel because he shouldn't be asking for sex just yet. Especially if you're not ready. He should at least talk to you about it and see what you think about it before saying "I want to have sex".
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If you like this guy and you want to go out with him again, then you can ask him out. But if he really wants to have sex with you and you aren't ready then you have got to tell him that, or he will keep pushing up on you.But if you do want to go out with him but you are afraid that you won't be able to break free from him when he is making a move, then don't ask him out because it is not safe. If you don't want to go out with him again then just tell him that but don't do it harshly because it really hurts. I hope I could help. Bye
~*§Bianca§*~
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Dont do it. Dont go back out with him because to me it seems like hes just trying to get something from you. Dont even listen to what he says and you know you deserve someone way better then him! x0
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Okay, If I was you I would tell him to get lost and that you don't want sex with him!
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