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Last August I got cheated on my x boyfriend (he was my boyfriend at the time)it was a big thing fo rme b/c he was the first guy i ever loved and he had sex with a complete stranger.(and got drunk)And he's done all the apologizing and its truely sincere. we went out 4 times and all my friends told me not to do it the 4th time. 2 of my closest friends, Rachael* and Rob* told me not to becuase im "whipped". Well now me and my current boyfriend have a wonderful relashionship and its going great. my parents love him, he respects me, my friends like him and everything. But now my x says he wants me back. i talk to him a lot and he always says he loves me. How can i tell him that im happy now and i dont have to worry about getting hurt and that there will never be a chance of us going out again?
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just tell him straight up but lightly just say i dont like you like that anymore and i dont want to risk the chance of you cheating on me again tell him lightly and tell him you still want to be friends and you should be straight
hope i helped :)
Kelsey
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Take a crap in a box. Wrap it up and send it to him for easter. You know mail it. Then when he opens up the box and sees the crap you'll have a note on top of the doody saying
"this is how you made me feel when you had sex"
He'll understand.
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You just answered your own question sweetie. You tell him exactly what you just put here. Let him know that you are willing to remain friends with him, but that is all. If he doesn't want to take that, then you should cut your friendship with him loose. He doesn't respect you at all because he cheated on you, regardless if he was drunk or not, you know when you are going to have sex with someone. Maybe you should spend less time talking to your ex and spend that time with your current boyfriend. It is so hard to find a diamond in the middle of thousands of pebbles.
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Hah! screw him, you're happy. That's all it counts! And if he tries to do somthing with you, then push the panic button and have the police drag his ass back to juvie! Cheating's not to be taken lighty, and no matter WHAT he says, tell him that it's over!
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Just tell him straight up that you dont like him like that anymore. Tell him you're in love with your new boyfriend. Let him know that you didnt like the way he treated you in the past and you dont want to go through that anymore. It would probably be good not to talk to him as much. It could give him mixed signals, or make him become jealous, if your current boyfriend doesnt get jealous.
I'm not saying ur x is like this, but if you talk to ihm a lot he could convince your current beau that you're cheating on him. Dont cmpletely end the conversations, but lay off a little bit.
hope i helped hun
L A S H A N D A
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You did an excellent job right there..just the way you said it! Speak your mind to him..theres no way or technique you should use..the only technique you should use is speaking exactly how you feel. if you dont want to tell him in person , (i would tell him in person..but thats me) then try AIM, a letter, email,phone.
You'll be fine..just lay down the line just like you did in the question!
-meliss
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