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Hey, I get bored at school super easy and my boyfirned isn't in anyone of my classes! Anything I could do to help the go by after my work is done? Thanks. (link)
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Althought it may be a bit cold of me to say so, you should study. Do wahtever you want at home. But study at school. Even if you don't ahve anything to do, just study and go over notes. It tends to help for a test rather than cramming.
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i am recovering from a recent break-up and i cover up my feelings by acting tough and like i dont care but i really do.i really liked that guy.but now he's a jerk because whenever im around him and we're around other people he acts like he hates my guts and starts saying these things about me but when we're alone he's really nice and just yesterday he declared he wanted to come to my EXCLUSIVE party im having even though he said ,in front of his friends when i invited him, i dont give a shit...it's confusing me?what is he trying to tell me?help please! (link)
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Ah, another guy that bends to other peoples. Dump him, don't even LOOK at him, and tell him that he is never to talk to you. Or else.
You see, talking to him will only open it wider. You have to restrian youreself, no matter how much you like him, and let yourself go. Any sign of meanness to you, no matter how nice he is to you otherwise, is still being mean for NO REASON. I don't know about one's feelings, since I never had something like that, but coming from a third-person's view, just don't come into contact with him anymore. Don't let him in your party, or anything. Forget him, and move on. I mean, you broke up for a reason right? That's a first sign that you shouldn't continue anything romanctic with him, even if he had changed. This is not the time for a second chance.
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Okay I like this guy, in my P.e./health class. He's really cool, and we have a lot in common. He's a football player though, and made the varsity team his freshamn year. He's like every girls perfect guy. He's smart, funny, gorgeous, and he's a athletic. He notices me, but he has TONS of girls that are friends, and I only talk to him a little bit at a time. I really want him to notice me more, any Ideas? Oh, and what is a good way to get my confidence up around him?!?
(I'm, athletic, smart, (cute), and normally never guy shy. Most of my friends are guys, so I'm really athletic!) (link)
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Er, talk to him? Find things in common, and talk about them. And don't talk about yourself, talk about HIM too. He will notice that you are carefree, and easygoing, and not a total girl around guys (like, a complete blow-out, or an outright slut), making it easy with you to hang out.
Focus on being his friend first. That's the best advice I can give you ;)
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okay..lately i have been into cutting and i have been for awhile but lately i have been a lot and i can't help it,it's helping me feel better but it's hard to hide it because i don't want anyone to know so i was woundering if anyone's know's what else i could do..i've tried writting and using rubber bands upon my wrist but that didn't work that well (link)
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Oh, cutting is addiction. I had that for a month, and quit because, well, the alcoholic stinging wore off.
Here's what you do:
Wake up when it's light, but before the sun's rizen.
Go out, and make sure to dress warmly.
Breathe in the cold, almost cutting air.
Feel the wind.
It sounds corny, but hey, it works. The air makes you feel better about yourself. It hurts abit, because it's COLD AIR, but it don't hurt your body as much. No one's up that early, so you can cry if you want to.
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Whenever I try to put in a tampon, it won't work because there seems to be this flap of skin just past the opening. Even if I use the smallest size. What do I do? (link)
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For those that's telling you to force it, they are dumbwads. The Hymen is strechable, yes, but it hurts when you break it. Plus, you can do serious damage.
Use a pad, or better yet, use a Diva Cup. Tampons causes cancer if you leave it too long anyways.
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ok, i just made out with my boyfriend for about an hour and now i have a little bump on my lower lip...its not red, but it hurts a little because my teeth are right by it... is because of us kissing for so long...(he was sucking, biting softly etc.) or something else maybe? hes a virgin still, hes only fingered a girl once...will rate 5's thnx! (link)
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Somehow, I don't think you can just get herpes that fast if you and your partner did not touch open sores with each other.
There are a lot of maybes. You could have gotten a cold sore, he could aggrivated the spot, etc. If you are still unsure, then by all means, cheak with a doctor. Anything you feel is of medical importance, you don't share over the internet first without conculting a doctor.
But I might be wrong about the herpes. Yet, 'he can't get herpes from another girl unless his fingers went into his mouth after he fingered her.
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hey boys this is ilovepink101..well im in the 8th grade and i need advice from the boys..
ok theres this guy i like his name is garrette..and i told him i liked him a couple of weeks ago..and he just totally started acting alot nicer and flirting..ALOT!!and i always wanted to ask him if he like me..but you know im kinda shy..but im the kinda gurl that i dont care what people think about me and my realationships..but garrett is a whole diffrent story..he cant go outr with girl like me because im not a jock or a prep..and he carse what his friends say about me..and i dont know what to do..so a coulple of days agao i told him ilkied him..and he said i know!i wasnt suprised..but im like do you like me..and hes said no..so heres my question..!!
he always touches me and puts his hands down my shirt and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and he just always FLIRTS WITH ME ALWAYS!!and i want to know if this sounds like he liks me..but he said that were just friends with benefits!!but i think he likes me!!and do you think i shouild sit around waiting for him evn though he dont supooslvley"dont like me"????i rate 5's on anyone..i just need help..helllllllllllllllllllllllllpppppppppppp!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette (link)
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Oh honey, when the words "friends with benefits" comes around, you should immediately register that with the meaning of "fuckbuddy". He wants quick easy sex, and he's using the fact that you have a crush on him to get what he wants. Don't let him touch you, or even talk to you. Block yourself, so that he can't use you. Everyone here is correct when they say that he's a jerk. Just because you are not the typical slut don't mean that he still can't go out with you. If he cares about what his friends say, then you alreayd know that he just plays around with people. Remove yourself, and interact with other people. He's not the only guy on the whole planet.
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Ok well me and my friends hang out in a group of four. None of us can buy costumes anymore, so we need a good Halloween costume for four people. Can you give me some ideas? We need all the time we can get to put together stuff. We have makeup, but we don't know what to use it for, we have normal clothes in the closet, old Halloween costume parts, and maybe some acsessories. Please help. (link)
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Go as a bed. Then the guys really WILL jump on youse :D
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okayy. i NEED IDEAS FOR A HOLLOWEEN PARTY! were having a HUGE one here and we need some ideas on games we can play. something fun. like example you know on mtv they have those things for spring break? and its on tv. The whip cream. guessing games? etc. ANYTHING like that we can relate to holloween would be GREAT.
a FIVE for anyone who can help me out. THANKS
if you dont have anything a site to help me with games might help to. ill give a 4 for websites! thank you!! (link)
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Well, you can spray eveyrone with silly string, but don't do it inside, you can NEVER get the stuff off the walls without staining them. But it's loads of fun.
Or, You play a triva game, and the person who has it wrong has to sit on a water balloon.
But the one we always loved, althought it may be a bit cold for Halloween, we'd always get one water balloon each, and choose who we'd break them on. The person has to stand there, but then he gets his turn next.
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All my friends have had a boyfriend before except me. I really want one, but there is no one that seems right for me. A few guys have asked me out, but i have refused. I am more obsessed with school than guys, but sometimes i wonder if i should spend more time trying to get a boyfriend. I also find that most boys i was attracted to had been my friends. I am not sure why that is. Maybe because i knew them so well?
~Wondering (link)
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Why would you say that you want one, and at the same time refuse? That is a sign that you are both not ready, and that you DON'T need a boyfriend. School is important, and boyfriends are a pain if you force yourself throughout the relasionship. Time shouldn't be used to find a boyfriend either. You still need to live a bit of the single life until you are in college for the time to be ripe. I may not be the best person to take advice from, being 13 and knowing nothing about this stuff, but still, concentrate on your education before you think of boys or anything.
And you are attracted to your guy friends because you know them better than the other specimens of the male side, and since you know all there is to know about them, you might feel more comfortable with them. Also, since those the the guys that you hang out more with, they just come unconsciencely as your first choice.
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I have a "friend" that is sort of mean to my other friends. She excludes them and is very posesive of me. She gets angry when me and my 2 other friends do things together, without her. My other friends basically hate her, but i don't want to break the friendship off because i don't want to make an enemy. I hat being stuck in the middle!!!
~Stuck (link)
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This is difficult to answer. Your friend, if she is not just using you (which I'm sure she's not, hopefully), is possesive of you because you are probably her only friend (due to her possesivness), and she is feeling very insecure. Heh, I've been through that stage too >.<
Try to get her to be more involved into other people, and make her feel secure enough to let go a bit. But if all this is not true in any way, then she is probably just possesive and doe'ns't like to share.
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Hey gals,
to any of you who arent very close to your moms, how did you tell her when you started your period and how did she react? (link)
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Huh? My mom asked me. We talk about sex education a lot (but only the shallow stuff) so that I'd understand these things better, about the woman body. I still don't have it though, so she's still waiting.
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is it true that chocolate makes you break out??? tell me plz! i dont know if to give up chocolate to look better or not!! -i RaTe HiGh- (link)
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Like the other two said, it really depends on the person. But still, why would you give up something you love for your face?!?! BUt if you do break out, try Aveeno products (they work, trust me. Used it for five days and my skin is alrady pretty!)
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Last August I got cheated on my x boyfriend (he was my boyfriend at the time)it was a big thing fo rme b/c he was the first guy i ever loved and he had sex with a complete stranger.(and got drunk)And he's done all the apologizing and its truely sincere. we went out 4 times and all my friends told me not to do it the 4th time. 2 of my closest friends, Rachael* and Rob* told me not to becuase im "whipped". Well now me and my current boyfriend have a wonderful relashionship and its going great. my parents love him, he respects me, my friends like him and everything. But now my x says he wants me back. i talk to him a lot and he always says he loves me. How can i tell him that im happy now and i dont have to worry about getting hurt and that there will never be a chance of us going out again? (link)
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Hah! screw him, you're happy. That's all it counts! And if he tries to do somthing with you, then push the panic button and have the police drag his ass back to juvie! Cheating's not to be taken lighty, and no matter WHAT he says, tell him that it's over!
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Hi.
Well, my friends have all fallen out and I'm finding it really difficult to not take sides. Friend A said something nasty about friend B and friend C took friend B's side. This means that A is mad at C because she didn't take her side.
However, the nasty thing that A said was, in my opinion justified...
No-one is A's friend and I try and stick up for her because I don't think it's fair that B and C just slag her off behind her back all the time, but that makes them hate me. I want to take A's side even more when they do that. Plus friend B is SO annoying and is always doing weird stuff like humping us (seriously...everyone thinks we're lesbians or something) and messing up our hair and all this crap. So I should take friend A's side, right? Wrong. Friend A has said some really mean stuff over the years, none directed at me but I can't deny that it makes me wonder what she's thinking about ME. All their arguing is driving me crazy and I have to do something, and I don't want to take sides but it feels like I'm being forced to - B and C are horrible to me every time I talk to A. What can I do? (link)
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If they keep on forcing you about these stuff, and forcing you to take sides, then don't take the crap from them, and yell about their bull-headiness. I agree with you, it's really annoying when problems about these arises. Tell them the HARD,BLUNT TRUTH! if they don't listen to you (especially A, if she started this then you have to tell her) then screw them. It's not your problem, YOU shouldn't worry about it.
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OK i want to throw a party at my house while my parents are gone. My house is too small so im thinking of using my grandmas house which is right next to mine. Does anyone have tips on how i can run this so i wont get caught...and ideas on what we can do at my party? (link)
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if you can get in trouble with this, then dont throw the freakin party at their house! You must not respect your grandparents enough if you're gonna trash their house...
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do any one no where i can make my own website full of poems? plese help i rate! (link)
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get a xanga webpage. That's were i post MY poems ^_~
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I was just wondering if any of you guys out there are seirous about this- Okay, I was wondering when should you start having sex? And please please be serious.
Thanks~ Jessica (link)
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As everyone here has said, save it for your marriage. Now, on the more serious things, having sex, doesnt just affect you physically. it attacks your mentality too. The girls that were raped, they dont just regret the kidnapping and stuff, they also WERENT READY. if you have sex too young, you may regret it, and may have come to view sex as something horrible. so....wait till you are ready, LITERLLY. We dont want you going lala before you finish high school.
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Ok, Last nite my b/f told me that he smokes. I didnt really know what to do. I mean I dont want him to smoke and he said that he's trying to stop and its not really working. I dont know what to do. Can someone plz help me cuz itz like really annoying me that he smokes. I mean its not really a big deal but I just dunno.... (link)
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erk! DO NOT threaten him with stuff like breaking up or else he might let you do it! Bad idea!!! My sister gave my dad a no smoking shirt and he stopped within a year be cause he saw that we cared about him. Do that. Not the shirt, but show him how much you care about him and is willin to HELP him. Saying that you'll ditch him in the middle of this will not do anything, in fact it will make him worse. Distraction from smoking is also a great idea. If he is busy enough in his life then he won't think about smoking that much. If not, give him gum. Lots of it.
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i like to look at girls bodys..like boobs..butt..and girls online.does this mean i am BI?i never made out with a girl but i almosted did..i made out with a couple of guys..and i like guys but do i also like girls?
please help (link)
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Picture having a naked girl rubbing her entire body on you. If you don't shiver from it, then you COULD be bi. I was bi-courious and so i thought of the naked grl, and then i stopped and thought *ew! gross!* So, just think about that, and..um, test youself out like that...
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