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this is for mainly boys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hey boys this is ilovepink101..well im in the 8th grade and i need advice from the boys..
ok theres this guy i like his name is garrette..and i told him i liked him a couple of weeks ago..and he just totally started acting alot nicer and flirting..ALOT!!and i always wanted to ask him if he like me..but you know im kinda shy..but im the kinda gurl that i dont care what people think about me and my realationships..but garrett is a whole diffrent story..he cant go outr with girl like me because im not a jock or a prep..and he carse what his friends say about me..and i dont know what to do..so a coulple of days agao i told him ilkied him..and he said i know!i wasnt suprised..but im like do you like me..and hes said no..so heres my question..!!
he always touches me and puts his hands down my shirt and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and he just always FLIRTS WITH ME ALWAYS!!and i want to know if this sounds like he liks me..but he said that were just friends with benefits!!but i think he likes me!!and do you think i shouild sit around waiting for him evn though he dont supooslvley"dont like me"????i rate 5's on anyone..i just need help..helllllllllllllllllllllllllpppppppppppp!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette
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he likes your ass is what he likes. he told u, "we're just friends with benefits", and that's what he means. to him, you're just a booty call. sounds mean, but the truth hurts.
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i had exactly the same thing well not exactly at all but close me and this guy hooked up and i liked him and we did lots of stuff and it was too much for me but i still did it coz i liked him but me it was worce for him we were neva friends just nothing i say u tell him that friends with benefit doesnt push that far... and that if he wants more then he would have to go out with you becoz the guy i had didnt care who the girl was but hes different your guy prob is like carin in some hiding way because i mean a kiss on the cheek thats cute! Also its for his friends seriously he would go out with you if his friends werent there just or change like a prep or jock or tell him that if its only coz of his friends then you cant do this because you will get hurt if you keep going on liking him i got really hurt trust me and it took me 6 month to get over him and i was hurt i even cried once!
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ok you should not just sit there but you shouldn't leave him because then you will regret it trust me i am in 8th grade and i did the same thing
just show him what your made of go up to his friends and tell them that it shouldn't matter what they think
you like him and i think he likes you
go for it
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hes only in it for sex im sorry to say it but he must be a horny jackass who only wants sex or hes a cirgin who only wants sex id find u a nice guy that take things step by step with ur permission only
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he likes you
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i've had this problem too. i told a guy i liked him and yes, he started flirting with me! this really made me think he liked me and i was so excited, but then i found out he was just leading me on.
BUT after a while of flirting he did like me, although this guy was all over the place! so i think you should give it time and see what happens.
Nadia.
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"puts his hands down my shirt"
That's flirting? O_o
Friends with benefits means he doesn't actually care to be in a relationship with you, but if you offer sex, he's all over that. He really doesn't like you. I think him saying "no" specifically, and then acually saying "friends with benefits" is a pretty cut and dry case.
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im not a guy but i just had the same thing happen to me but me and the guy made out a couple of times and we werent even going out and he was rubbing me down there and then he told me he hated me like a couple weeks ago so this guy your talking about might break your heart sorry to say
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Oh honey, when the words "friends with benefits" comes around, you should immediately register that with the meaning of "fuckbuddy". He wants quick easy sex, and he's using the fact that you have a crush on him to get what he wants. Don't let him touch you, or even talk to you. Block yourself, so that he can't use you. Everyone here is correct when they say that he's a jerk. Just because you are not the typical slut don't mean that he still can't go out with you. If he cares about what his friends say, then you alreayd know that he just plays around with people. Remove yourself, and interact with other people. He's not the only guy on the whole planet.
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Well what i have to say is dont wait around for him or you will be waiting for ever i mean you know guys!!!and yea it dose sound like he likes you and flirts with you alot so maybe you should ask him out and you shouldnt chage yourself just to be with a guy and if he dosent appreciate you then who needs him!!!!
Signed
AdviceGirl
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Do not wait around. Here are your warning signs why this guy is useless:
1. You told him you liked him and he didn't feel the same, yet hes touching you.
2. He cares what his friends think of his girlfriends, so he uses the "friends with benefits" excuse, just when you think hes liking you by flirting.
If a guy says that you and him are both friends with benefits, that is nothing special. I know this isn't making you feel good, but you need to realize who the guy you're waiting for is. Hes flirting with you so that he can get to you, and when you're caught in a moment where you are just loving his flirting, he knows that since you like him, you won't turn him down for anything. Making it easier for him to just touch you like that. Sorry, but even if he did admit to liking you, he'd eventually get lectured by his friends, and everyone else, and he lets them judge the girls he gets with, hes foolish. If you still feel like you should wait, keep reading over those warning signs. All he wants is your body, hes not worth your time.
-TheTeenGirl
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sorry im like having to answer this question even tho im not a guy but this kid is playing with your mind and its not funny cuz he seems like he is hurting u all he wants is sex sorry to say but its true
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I'm not a guy but it definitely sounds like this guy's just trying to get into your pants.
I think, for your sake, the best thing to do would be to get over him and pursue a relationship with a guy who doesn't want nothing from you but sex .. assuming there are any of those out there.
And be careful with him - he sounds like the kind of guy who would tell you that he loves you just to get some.
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stop waiting around! tell him how you really feel!!! stop being afriad whats the worst he can do Bridgette say no!! I love you too much to see you hurt!!
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