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I have strawberry blonde hair (was natuarlly brown) dying it blonde and im a cheerleader im in 7th grade on heaney im 12 i like alot of boys but am in love with one i go to arcadia middleschool you can call me adviegirl
Gender: Female
Location: Rocherster NewYork
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Member Since: October 5, 2005
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well there is 2 guys i like and they both like me but the problem is i dont know who to pick cuz i like them both and they are both really sweet and nice..i dont kno what to do??? (link)
All i can say is see wich one you have the most in common with it will work that way
~*Good Luck*~

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AdviceGirl


Umm this is kind of hard to ask but... why does it feel like I'm peeing razor blades? I heard this could be either connected to a bladder infection or an STD. I've never really had sex except with these guys that kind of dress up like girls, because I heard you can get STD's from having sex with women. But you can't get STD's from anal/oral sex right? Well what I'm trying to say is does anyone know what I can do to make the pain go away, short of chopping off my own penis with a butcher's cleaver. 13/m if that helps. (link)
ok i am an advice person but please watch wut u say younger people go on this site but all I can say is GO TO THE DOCTORS!!!

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AdviceGirl


okay so this boy likes me and i like him and we have a lot in common but hes in a different group of people than i am in...this is my last year in the same state as him and i really want be at least friends with him....i think i really like hm because not just becuase of his looks lol. he seems nervous ..but what do you think i should do ...go up to him? (link)
I think you should go up to him and tell him how you feel about him because like you said its your last year in the same state as him so if you tell him how you feel maybe thigns will workout perfectly for you i know ecactly how you feel i have the same problem sometimes but i always talk to the boy i like and sometimes most of the time should say it works out so if it works for me you should try it out

Good luck

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AdviceGirl


ok so i've known this kid keith for like a year or something, we never really thought of each other as more than friends but thats all changed now. ever since i met him i've heard about him hooking up with a bunch of my friends. after me & keith started talking more he started to tell me he liked me and stuff, and i always gave him a hard time saying that i was only gunna b another girl he made out with , so i didnt talk to him for months, i just started talking to him again and he tells me he changed and hes not like that anymoree...and explains a bunch of reasons why he has changed and why he wanted too. i believe him. i really do. and then me & him went to the movies and made out and all that good stuff.. NOTHING ELSE. well a couple days later one of my friends..we'll call her kim..well kim i guess had a 'thing' with keith as she explained. and as her friend...lets call her kenzee explained. well i called keith and he tells me that kim totally bitched him out and i told him she bitched me out too. and i ask him if he had a 'thing' with kim and he told me sorta, well he admits to me that he likes her but he tells me he likes me too. keith and kim both got into a fight because of me and kim tells me that i ruined everything and that i go around bragging about kissing 'gorgeous' keith in her words. which i didnt. so, about two days later after that (me&keith are still talking) keith leaves me a message while im at cheerleading practice saying in exact words..this: "hey *****, whats up..well i just called to say hi...and whats up..well ill talk to you later oh and me and kim are 'really' cool now. well talk to you later bye hun love you." so i totally freaked out with jealously of course..well who wouldnt? and i called him and i guess he just got off the phone with kim..well yeah im soo jealous its unbelievable im scared hes just using me as like a back up or something like that or he just wants two girls..i dont know well can someone give me advice on what i can do? please thankss...i'll rate. (link)
Well what i would do is so spy on him!!haha juss kidding well seriously what i would do is talk to him and if he tells you hes not using you as a bac up and dosent want 2 gilrss and you really dont belive him then i would just spy on him and im serious about all this because no girl diserves a guy to use her so keep it true!!!


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Well i have a friend lets call him fred.. well fred is usally really happy.. and i cant picture him being sad at all.. i dont think i have ever seen him sad.. and ive known his since 2nd grade (in 10th now) so ya.. and today i went online and his away message said dead inside.. and i asked him if he was ok and he didnt say anything.. and im worried about him cause hes one of my really really good friends.. what should i do? please answer i rate high.. (link)
Well I think you should pull him aside in school or when you hangout talk to him comphert him if he seems like he needs it just act like you understand how he is feelign and put yourself in his shoes that is the bes advice i have for you


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So how does this whole thing work? Im always giving advice but I just joined here! How do I know people can find me to ask questions? (link)
Trust me they will fund you dont worry ok i mean i just started and i got millions of people askign em questions but they will soon come to you too and you and me both may be here to hep people but u can always ask me for help jus kall AdviceGirl

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i am 14 im about 5'4 or 5'5 i weigh 135 pounds. i am very muscular with muscular legs and arms. I am gaining weight and its going right to my stomache.. i know i am eating poorly but i am excersizing daily b/c i am in athletics currently involved in volleyball. I will be in off season soon for basketball so i will lose acouple pounds off of that. I really want to lose weight! Any ideas to get my mind off of junk food and start losing weight >>FAST (link)
Well my advice is to find some healthy foods that taste good to you but you still should eat meat but also drink alot of water / milk becuae that helps maybe you shouldnt buy junk food any more and just tryy really hard thats my advice!!!...


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hey boys this is ilovepink101..well im in the 8th grade and i need advice from the boys..
ok theres this guy i like his name is garrette..and i told him i liked him a couple of weeks ago..and he just totally started acting alot nicer and flirting..ALOT!!and i always wanted to ask him if he like me..but you know im kinda shy..but im the kinda gurl that i dont care what people think about me and my realationships..but garrett is a whole diffrent story..he cant go outr with girl like me because im not a jock or a prep..and he carse what his friends say about me..and i dont know what to do..so a coulple of days agao i told him ilkied him..and he said i know!i wasnt suprised..but im like do you like me..and hes said no..so heres my question..!!
he always touches me and puts his hands down my shirt and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and he just always FLIRTS WITH ME ALWAYS!!and i want to know if this sounds like he liks me..but he said that were just friends with benefits!!but i think he likes me!!and do you think i shouild sit around waiting for him evn though he dont supooslvley"dont like me"????i rate 5's on anyone..i just need help..helllllllllllllllllllllllllpppppppppppp!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette (link)
Well what i have to say is dont wait around for him or you will be waiting for ever i mean you know guys!!!and yea it dose sound like he likes you and flirts with you alot so maybe you should ask him out and you shouldnt chage yourself just to be with a guy and if he dosent appreciate you then who needs him!!!!

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AdviceGirl




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