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13 f
Ok well i know this is going to be long but i just need help.
this past summer summer 05' i meet the most amazing guy EVER!he was the completely best guy ever i meet him at a school dance i danced with him the whole night he was so cute to me and he was just adroable! I really felt in love so the first week of summer me and a few friends got together to go to the movies and i new he was going to it was a first date kinda thing right and well about 45 mins into the movie we kissed this was my first kiss. too and instead of just that first kiss we also made out that night and i just couldnt belive it. it was amazing i loved him so much. i always got in trouble for talking on the phone with him so late. But i didnt care i was in love we stayed on the phone all day long...even if we wernt talking we could sit there for hours with complet siclence and we'd be happy our next date was at my house he meet my mom and my dad they aproved and so on then he came back for a 2nd date to my house for a while with one of my friends my friend pushed me in the pool too and he jumped in and so on so we just all swam the whole day in our clothes. so we had a few more dates and things where like magic i rember one day we decidec to go to this little festival thing and we kissed this one kiss in the rain for like a min. and i dream about that moment all the time when im asleep so time past the summer went by and well things started getting boring... i didnt wanta break up but i had thought about it but i just didnt want to lose him so time past we spent longer time apart then school started i saw him there but he was a grade ahead of me so i he wasnt like in any of my classes then when i got home he called me he asked how my first day of school was blah blah and then like for no apprent reason he said Sarah i think we should see other people he said i still like you i just want to be single. i said ok and hung up i cryed all the rest of the day and cried that whole week because i really loved him.
SO now like 4 months after all this i still miss him just somehting i havent gotten over i have only been out with on guy since but i broke up with him cause i just didnt want to get back together and see i know i can have any guy in my school that i wanted i mean im not some but ugly fat chick ok but i just still miss him so much every time i hear out song i cry i dont know what to do i need help i would go out with another guy but like i dont wanta sound despret and ask another guy out i want some guy to ask me out but all the stupid boys at our school are to scared to ask me out i just totally need help

hey that guysoudns exactly like me. i had a relationship jsu liek that but it did get boring and i dumped her. u cant help it, its not like u can go back and redo the past. jus wait for a new guy or flirt gilrs love doing that.

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Alright, here's the deal. I need to shed off quite a few pounds, I have until the end of November to do it.

Now I know the best way to get rid of weight is to exercise. I work two jobs, I don't have the energy to really work out when I have to work and on if I do get a day off from one job or another I just want to relax. Occassionally I take a few walks or jogs around the block. It hasn't been often though lately.

As much as I'm on the go and doing something I have a very slow metabolism. It's hard to lose weight for me. Anyone know how to jumpstart it?

I am trying to watch what I eat as well. Are there any kinds of food that are great for burning off fat? Or any kind of liquids?

I know that diet pills are not healthy, but they seem to be 'quick' so if anyone has had an expierence with a diet pill that has worked please let me know.

So I need quick and easy diet tips for shedding the pounds. I will rate 5 for all answers.

for liquids drink 2 gallons of water.(only water nothing else) Stay away from foods with trans fats or saturated fats. try to go vegan or even raw vegan. www.totalhealthinstitute.com this diet made me lose 20 pounds in a couple of weeks and a total of 40 in 2 months. good luck

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I have a younger sister, she is 23 and I'm 27. We've never gotten along and I really wish someday that will change.
Part of the problem is that she has always been jealous of me. She is obese, at least 50 pounds heavier then me and is shorter by 4 inches. She's never had a boyfriend or alot of female friends, and I have.
I try to phone her sometimes and have a nice conversation but It's hard for me to be nice to her, because she'll say things like '"what do you want", or "stop calling". She's even been as rude as to correct my grammer.
She has a university degree and all I have is a highschool diploma so she likes to rub this in my face.
The latest thing is that I was asked to be a bridesmaid in my cousins wedding and she wasn't asked. I've always been really close to my cousin and she wasnt, but I think this pissed her off even more and it wasnt my fault.
How can I ever have a relationship with her if she's going to keep treating me this way? I've really been trying. Does anyone have any ideas?

me and my bro are 10 months apart. when i used to be 40 pounds overweight i was the one geting good grades in skool while he was more popular and into sports. when i lost the weight me and him became so much closer by playing sports together and hanging with the same people. now i am more popular than him but we are still so close and i have never been happier. i guarantee she is insecure about her weight thats the only prob. my bro used to make fun of my weight. maybe if she lost some weight and you helped her then you guyz wuld become good sisters.

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I have a little crush on Adam Brody from the OC. Is it normal to get a crush on an actor as long as you don't go nutso (which I don't)?

man all the girls i am friends wit have a crush on that kid so u know its healthy its not like ur the only one out there. i still dont get wats so great about him is it his smart ass mouth or stick body tell me

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i met a cute guy this weekend, at a rebel paintball cuarse - he works there - my house is jus a few blocks away from it - we started chattin right away - well - long story short - i was playin with his phone, and he told me 2 put my number on - i asked him why, and he told me its so he can call me when hes there again - i dont know if he likes me - but it sure looks that way - i jus wanna know - does he like me - or doesnt he - cause i sure-as-hell like him.

he likes u. as a guy i know that if i ask for a number it is either because i like her or knowing she likes me and jus being nice by asking for her number. i hate hurting people emotionally. besides you have nothing to lose sure he is cute but its not like you have a b/f now so take a chance

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okayy so me and this guy andrew have been dating for about 3 months and we've done a lot and have gotten really into eachother.. so i thought but it was all summer and once we got back to school he stopped calling and stopped comming over and to me that isn't hard to come over we only live 2 houses down! so in school my friend jack started likin me and i sort of starting like him a little bit to but i still had a lot of feelings for andy. Now tomorrow in school jack is asking me out so i've heard but i don't want to turn him down again cause it would be like the 20th time i have turned him down. But i still really like andy, however, i don't think andy really likes me anymore but it's really hard to get over him. So i need help.. should i go out wiht jack? or should i try and stay with andy?.. and im sorry i know its confusing

trust me on this when i say that you shuld go for jack. i am jus like andy in a way he either got wat he wanted or he is jus busy. i say dont wait make your own decision. andy has obviously moved on or getting some from somewhere else. jack shuld be your new man, maybe he will be better than andy

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I'm a 13-year-old girl and I always want to have sex...I just get this feeling a lot "down there" and it feels really good. I think about it a lot. I know that 13 is WAY too young to be having sex and I would never ever do it until I'm married, but I feel really guilty for getting like this. Am I way too young to be feeling like this? Am I way too young to even be thinking about this? Is there anything I can do about it without intercouse?

i suggest masturbation is the best solution to your "horniness" it will simmer down after you stop developing, also if you must have someone else touch your body only go as far as third base jus have him/her kiss you lightly all over your body and either finger you or perform oral sex on you thats wat i did to my g/f when she was horny and didnt want sex yet

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ok i keep geting boners and their annoying right? even when im not thinkikng of sex but their only annoying when im at school because u know some times i have to stand up... and then ppl stare so yea is their any way to not have them as often?

whenever i get a boner in skool i jus keep picturing a penis in my head and repeating it in my head and it gets it down pretty quickly(if that doesnt work then i jus bring it to my stomach real quick and jus wait till it goes down) also when when you feel one comin on dont tense it or else the blood will go full force in the head wat i do is when i feel one coming i just sit and relax try not to tense as best as you can when you get the hang of it you can control them much better

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I want to lose 10 pounds in about a week. I know that's very difficult to do but I'm willing to put a lot of effort into it. Any idea's on how I could do this while still eating and not going anorexic and staying healthy and/or ways to exercise? Meal/snack ideas? =( I really want to lose the weight. Please help.

I suggest doing at least 30 mins. of some type of cardio exercise in the morning before breakfast so as to speed up your metabolism during the day. Also have a big breakfast, small snack, medium lunch, small snack, and small dinner. If you can, lift some light weights. I lost 20 pounds in one month last may, then another 20 in the next month. It was a healthy way. I ran 2 miles every morning, joined a gym, and began a diet called the raw vegan diet. Info on this diet is found on http://totalhealthinstitute.com/. GOOD LUCK I have never gained so much confidence or have felt so good in my life since i began to diet and exercise, plus the benefits of girls(and soem boys) actually giving me a look.

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