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okayy so me and this guy andrew have been dating for about 3 months and we've done a lot and have gotten really into eachother.. so i thought but it was all summer and once we got back to school he stopped calling and stopped comming over and to me that isn't hard to come over we only live 2 houses down! so in school my friend jack started likin me and i sort of starting like him a little bit to but i still had a lot of feelings for andy. Now tomorrow in school jack is asking me out so i've heard but i don't want to turn him down again cause it would be like the 20th time i have turned him down. But i still really like andy, however, i don't think andy really likes me anymore but it's really hard to get over him. So i need help.. should i go out wiht jack? or should i try and stay with andy?.. and im sorry i know its confusing
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I think that you should give this guy a chance. If andy is ignoring you then you should be with him. He is not even worth the time. You have this guy that wants to go out with you so you should go out with him.If it doesnt work out or he is not your type then you should try and make things ok between you and andy. And if you go out ith jack for awile then you will start to like him more and gradually forgetting about andy. Its one of those things that you have to take just one day at a time.
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Well; if you're still technically dating Andrew, you need to call and break that off if you like Jack. If you DO break things off with Andrew, and DO like Jack, then GO FOR IT! (= Don't miss your chance now & regret it later!!
♥ Melissa
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first thing first since your really still going out with andrew and havent really "broken up" with him you need to call him up and talk to him. dont be so caught up likin jack that you forget about andy. tell andy how you feel and talk it out dont be scared. then take your choice and go for jack that seems more into you then andy is. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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trust me on this when i say that you shuld go for jack. i am jus like andy in a way he either got wat he wanted or he is jus busy. i say dont wait make your own decision. andy has obviously moved on or getting some from somewhere else. jack shuld be your new man, maybe he will be better than andy
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Sorry, but it sounds like andy got what he wanted from you, and now hes done.
You need to forget the player, and give jack a try. This time take your time. 3 mos. is too short to start giving into a guys needs. If you think your gonna keep them by putting out, you seriously need a reality check hun!
Make a guy want you for you, not for ass! If hes willing to wait, hes worth keeping!!
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Go for Jack obviously.
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Before you make any decisions you need to talk to Andy first. To tell you the truth, those are signs that something is up. He eather likes you as a friend right now or he heard something or rumors. Ask him what's going on. You really don't need to be going out with someone who will treat you like that and just stop calling you. That's really low. Tell him if he is going to keep acting like that, that you guys should just try being friends. Now, if you like this other guy Jack then yes you should go out with him. He likes you and you like him so maybe you should give him a chance. He could really be worth it. If things don't work out and you still have feelings for Andy, you never know what might happen.
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You should go out with Jack because andrew hasn't been showing up on you don't you think that's very wierd,on top of that you too live two houses away ,he can't bother to come,see if you're okay at least he doesn't seem he's worth it but jack is a nice guy,you like him,look how much he likes you ,and still hasn't gave up I mean wow!Andy is just your past let it go if he cared about you he would of called or at least wrote you a letter or ask how you are.
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Don't hold on to something that isn't worth it, if you don't think that Andy likes you then break it off with him and go out with Jack. You could always try and talk to Andy to, ask him what his problem is and tell him how you feel. IF Jack asks you out and you don't want to go out with him just tell him that you like him and everything but you want to see whats going on with you and Andy before you do anything.
Hope i helped...
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