I'm a 13-year-old girl and I always want to have sex...I just get this feeling a lot "down there" and it feels really good. I think about it a lot. I know that 13 is WAY too young to be having sex and I would never ever do it until I'm married, but I feel really guilty for getting like this. Am I way too young to be feeling like this? Am I way too young to even be thinking about this? Is there anything I can do about it without intercouse?
cynicalladvice answered Sunday October 9 2005, 12:51 am: You're 13, you have rampant hormones. Being horny and thinking about sex is perfectly normal. If you really want to do something, jack off. (Finger yourself, stick someting remotely-penis shaped up yourself, anything that feels good.) I don't know why you're worried. [ cynicalladvice's advice column | Ask cynicalladvice A Question ]
SUNKiiSSEDSECZii answered Saturday October 8 2005, 4:18 pm: Don`t worry....a lot of 13 year olds think about sex. I just turned 13 and i get those feelings and think about sex a lot also...u can finger urself if you want :-/ anyway its normal
GoodNews answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:14 am: You shouldn't feel guilty for having these feelings, but you should know that you don't have to do anything about it. You have plenty of time to discover yourself and your sexuality. Right now you should consentrate on learning about the rest of you. What kind of person do you want to be, what do you want to experience before you get married? Sex is great, but it's also a responsibility: physically and emotionaly. Why get caught up in that right now when you can be out there having more fun? [ GoodNews's advice column | Ask GoodNews A Question ]
squirrell answered Friday October 7 2005, 10:06 pm: Yes you are too young for sex but because you have hit puberty you want to masterbate. By the way don't feel guilty it's just hormones nothing major trust me any normal girl feels this way at some point. Please rate. [ squirrell's advice column | Ask squirrell A Question ]
shrink2be answered Friday October 7 2005, 12:01 pm: 13 is to young for actual sex, but it just means that you are more mature than others your age. its perfectly normal and ok.
you arent to young to be thinking about it though, so you dont have to make yourself stop, just dont get carried away.
its way cool that you want to wait till marriage to have sex, and i feel the same way. [ shrink2be's advice column | Ask shrink2be A Question ]
MissCourtneyox answered Friday October 7 2005, 7:34 am: 13 is to young to have sex, i dont think you would be ready for everything that comes along with it. but you are perfectly normal for feeling like this, it's not just you. all girls do. its natural and there isnt much you can do to stop it from happening. you are not to young to be thinking about this and of course there is something you can do about it. have you ever heard of masterbation? If you haven't, you should google it.
BunnyxAblaze answered Thursday October 6 2005, 11:13 pm: It's normal for any age to wonder about sex and want it. It's good and very respectful that you want to wait to share it with someone special through marraige. If it continues to feel like that masurbation is always a good way to deal with it. [ BunnyxAblaze's advice column | Ask BunnyxAblaze A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday October 6 2005, 11:02 pm: no way..its perfectly natural to be curious..and by the way im proud of you for wanting to wait..good choice. thinking about it is fine..i thought about it when i was your age..and im 16 and yeap..still thinking about it ..haha.
theres lots you can do without intercourse:
-masterbating (safest way to pleasure yourself..no worries of STDS or anything)
- WHEN YOU GET A SERIOUS GUY...pleasure by fingering, oral sex, etc..but keep in mind..you should use precautions to prevent stds and wait until you really like the guy and your ready..might not be until your 19 ..who knows
DaRuSsKiKiD answered Thursday October 6 2005, 10:28 pm: i suggest masturbation is the best solution to your "horniness" it will simmer down after you stop developing, also if you must have someone else touch your body only go as far as third base jus have him/her kiss you lightly all over your body and either finger you or perform oral sex on you thats wat i did to my g/f when she was horny and didnt want sex yet [ DaRuSsKiKiD's advice column | Ask DaRuSsKiKiD A Question ]
x3candiigrl answered Thursday October 6 2005, 10:27 pm: Ok. This is definitely going to be long so hang in there. When people hit puberty, usually around the age of 11-13 they're hormones start building up. Have you had your period yet? Once you start getting your period you also start to feel "horny". This is because your hormones are racing and they're turning you into a woman. It is completely normal and you shouldn't feel guilty. There are ways to get the feeling without intercorse. Vibrators.... lol. From what i know they make a lot of noise just as a warning. You aren't too young to be thinking about this either. I am still 13 until tomorrow night at 7 pm, and i get these feelings all the time. But dont do oral. Oral seems like a good alternative but you could get STDS and AIDS from the cum and other things. Hope i helped
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