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I still love him ,long please read
PLEASE READ WILL RATE 5 I PROMISE JUST PLEASE HELP!
13 f
Ok well i know this is going to be long but i just need help.
this past summer summer 05' i meet the most amazing guy EVER!he was the completely best guy ever i meet him at a school dance i danced with him the whole night he was so cute to me and he was just adroable! I really felt in love so the first week of summer me and a few friends got together to go to the movies and i new he was going to it was a first date kinda thing right and well about 45 mins into the movie we kissed this was my first kiss. too and instead of just that first kiss we also made out that night and i just couldnt belive it. it was amazing i loved him so much. i always got in trouble for talking on the phone with him so late. But i didnt care i was in love we stayed on the phone all day long...even if we wernt talking we could sit there for hours with complet siclence and we'd be happy our next date was at my house he meet my mom and my dad they aproved and so on then he came back for a 2nd date to my house for a while with one of my friends my friend pushed me in the pool too and he jumped in and so on so we just all swam the whole day in our clothes. so we had a few more dates and things where like magic i rember one day we decidec to go to this little festival thing and we kissed this one kiss in the rain for like a min. and i dream about that moment all the time when im asleep so time past the summer went by and well things started getting boring... i didnt wanta break up but i had thought about it but i just didnt want to lose him so time past we spent longer time apart then school started i saw him there but he was a grade ahead of me so i he wasnt like in any of my classes then when i got home he called me he asked how my first day of school was blah blah and then like for no apprent reason he said Sarah i think we should see other people he said i still like you i just want to be single. i said ok and hung up i cryed all the rest of the day and cried that whole week because i really loved him.
SO now like 4 months after all this i still miss him just somehting i havent gotten over i have only been out with on guy since but i broke up with him cause i just didnt want to get back together and see i know i can have any guy in my school that i wanted i mean im not some but ugly fat chick ok but i just still miss him so much every time i hear out song i cry i dont know what to do i need help i would go out with another guy but like i dont wanta sound despret and ask another guy out i want some guy to ask me out but all the stupid boys at our school are to scared to ask me out i just totally need help
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well if you loved him maybe it will take time for u to move on and get with another guy or and maybe you just need to let him go cause he is not really a man if he does that typ of crap typ poeple
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hey that guysoudns exactly like me. i had a relationship jsu liek that but it did get boring and i dumped her. u cant help it, its not like u can go back and redo the past. jus wait for a new guy or flirt gilrs love doing that.
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Right here i go first thing you should do is he obviously still likes you hes not going to get over you that quick. Maybe you should Flirt with some other boy who you like at skl just let him know you like him and im not saying forget the other guy i am saying he is trying to move on so you should try aswell and maybe if you get someone else he will realise he wants you. I know you miss him and i know its hard but just think hes not worth it if he said that to you.. usally they come back to you after a while but its if you want him back or not. Just wait and i am sure someone will ask you out. Do not ask them out because it will look like you want the other person in order to spite him. Good luck love sweetcorn.x or try staying single.
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If you talk to the guys at your school and get to know them, thell someday come to you for a date. Just be yourself. Try flirting a little.
But the important thing and most commonly heard thing is to be yourself. Hope I Helped&hearts
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Ok, calm down no need to worry. Now you are 13 and that is really young to be in love, I think you just miss being with him because he was your first, naturally you are going to want be with him. You said you were getting kind of bored with him. I think you should just ask guy out, it won't look like you're desperate, these aren't the dark ages, girls ask guys out all the time. Plus you don't have to have a guy in your life, be an independent woman, guys are always attracted to the girls they think they can't get. And neve cry over a guy its juts not worth believe me. Don't worry about love, it will come to you in time if its right. Hope this helped, good luck in love.
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Your only 13 you still have a life to live... relationships you have or had are gonna help you build up and help you find out what you want in a guy. First loves and fisrt kisses are what you'll carry on with you for a lifetime. Even though you probably miss him right now and if things dont go how you want them to eventually you'll look back on this and see how it helps you grow into the women you'll soon become.Try to ease your mind, if that doesnt work you should tell him how you feel and get it off of your chest, there are many things i regret not telling my past ex's. Just dont keep it all inside , i wish you the best of luck and i hope things work out.
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