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he hurts me.
ok so i've known this kid keith for like a year or something, we never really thought of each other as more than friends but thats all changed now. ever since i met him i've heard about him hooking up with a bunch of my friends. after me & keith started talking more he started to tell me he liked me and stuff, and i always gave him a hard time saying that i was only gunna b another girl he made out with , so i didnt talk to him for months, i just started talking to him again and he tells me he changed and hes not like that anymoree...and explains a bunch of reasons why he has changed and why he wanted too. i believe him. i really do. and then me & him went to the movies and made out and all that good stuff.. NOTHING ELSE. well a couple days later one of my friends..we'll call her kim..well kim i guess had a 'thing' with keith as she explained. and as her friend...lets call her kenzee explained. well i called keith and he tells me that kim totally bitched him out and i told him she bitched me out too. and i ask him if he had a 'thing' with kim and he told me sorta, well he admits to me that he likes her but he tells me he likes me too. keith and kim both got into a fight because of me and kim tells me that i ruined everything and that i go around bragging about kissing 'gorgeous' keith in her words. which i didnt. so, about two days later after that (me&keith are still talking) keith leaves me a message while im at cheerleading practice saying in exact words..this: "hey *****, whats up..well i just called to say hi...and whats up..well ill talk to you later oh and me and kim are 'really' cool now. well talk to you later bye hun love you." so i totally freaked out with jealously of course..well who wouldnt? and i called him and i guess he just got off the phone with kim..well yeah im soo jealous its unbelievable im scared hes just using me as like a back up or something like that or he just wants two girls..i dont know well can someone give me advice on what i can do? please thankss...i'll rate.
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Well what i would do is so spy on him!!haha juss kidding well seriously what i would do is talk to him and if he tells you hes not using you as a bac up and dosent want 2 gilrss and you really dont belive him then i would just spy on him and im serious about all this because no girl diserves a guy to use her so keep it true!!!
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What you need to do is find out if keith is cheating on you with kim it's a big chance he is since he had the past of his that he went out with a lot of your friends.Ask your other friends if they seen keith with kim,what do they do,if they don't know anything tell them to keep an eye on him for you,ask other people who know him.If he is cheating on you break up with him and don't think about it twice because once a guy cheats he will do it again.
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Wow, he sounds exactly like this kid I went out with who was a year older than me. Boys like that just can't be tamed. They are never satisfied and they are always moving from one girl to the next. The kinds of girls who would go out with these kind of guys are girls with little self respect and well, sometimes they are just the sluttiest girls in school. They move along quickly from guy to guy and its just like this big screwed up rotation thing.
You don't want to become one of these girls who goes out with a boy when they already know he has like four other girlfriends. I've tried, it and its not worth it. You sound like a respectable girl so I would just say goodbye to this keith kid. If he hurts you emotionally like that, what good is it to be with him? You need to move on and just ignore him if he calls again. Don't call him back, don't instant message him. He doesn't desserve you, but there are alot more decent guys out there.
~Johanna
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This guy is a cheater in denial, and you know it. Thats why you're so jealous and can't stop worrying about it, because you know that him and Kim have a thing. And please do not try and convince yourself or let him convince you that hes changed and that him and Kim are no longer a thing. You will just live this whole event all over again. He doesn't deserve to have any girls, hes a cheater, and he lied to you. I am strongly advising you to end this with Keith. You can be his friend and just watch him get yelled at again by different girls, but you should just chose not to be one of those girls. Do not let him convince you that things are different.
-TheTeenGirl
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ok...talk it out with BOTH of them...that way NONE of tyhem can lie....ok? and if they do they would have plan3d it...but u CANT let them do that...just give them a note to han g out with you at the movies or some thing ...but meet at your house...and dont tell one that the other is going to be there...then when they get there say there is a delay and you need a talk with thm and if they lie you wont talk to them abgain...get to the bottom of it.,..and ...judgeing by how it gose....decide what you need to do.....well i hope this helps ..bye
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