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what up y'all? i'm steven lopez, from STL, and i'm awesome. jk. i'm 6'2", 195 lbs., brown hair, hazel eyes, athletic body, 6-pack abs, nice chest, working on the arms. i'm in Air Force ROTC. just started that this year and it's amazing. good times. HUA. if u wanna know anything else, do what u gotta do. i don't know what u gotta do cuz i'm new to this site. good-day.
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Okay. I'm a junior in high school and I'm graduating at the end of this year. I want to enter college in the Fall of 2006 and major in math and physics, those have always been areas that interest me. I have already applied to four different colleges, I'm working on scholarships as hard as I can, and I have two part-time jobs in addition to keeping up extracurriculars and 4 AP classes. I'm working as hard as I can this year because I really want to set myself up for college and living on my own.
Here's the problem: My mom has forbidden me to apply to any colleges, she wants me to go in the Fall of 2007 so that I can get in a full year of work, because she says I'm not mature enough. I have worked really, really hard at everything: I've kept up my chores, my job teaching piano, my job at the library, my schoolwork, and being in a musical, and she still won't let me. Now, normally I would think that working for a year to save up money for college is a great idea. But my majors are in math and physics, and a year is a long time to be away from calculus and quantum mechanics. I'm really afraid of losing the momentum, and of missing my chance to go for my goals.
My guidance counselor at school tells me to apply to every college I want to and not worry about my mom just yet...along with a score of other people, like my dad, my grandma, my boyfriend, and various other family friends. It's just, I'm really worried about this...like the fight that will ensue once I start hearing back from the colleges I applied to. I'm completely dedicated to going in the Fall of 2006...with or without my mom's consent, but I would really like it to be with.
Is there anything I can do to convince her I can handle it?
Sorry it's so long -
Nevaeh (link)
dude, if you can do all of that stuff, you will have no problem at college. your mom should be able to see this. just do your own thing, and it will be alright. if you're worried about paying for school, have you thought about joining the military? don't stop reading just yet. Air Force ROTC (Reserve Officer Training Course) is a great program. you just take an extra class, go to a 4 week Field Training between your sophmore and junior year, (not 6 or 16 week) and when u graduate college, you become a second lieutenant in the Air Force. you won't be on the front lines, and you won't die. this is a great opportunity to get free college, and a guaranteed job once you graduate. it can't be any easier. seriously. i'm in it now, and i love it. with a math and physics interest, you could be an aerospace engineer, designing new airplanes, or anything. think about it. let me know what u think.


hey, do most guys think its gross if a gurl cums when he fingers her or if she is already wet b4 he fingers her (link)
i honestly couldn't tell you the answer to that. that is kind of an individual opinion kinda question and i don't know. i've only fingered one girl and it was just in and out and that was it. she was kinda wet, but i don't really know how wet she was in comparison to how wet it could be. i think i would like it if she came when i was doing it tho, cuz it would make me feel better, knowing that i just gave you so much pleasure, but i don't know.


hey...i just wanted to let you know..that the last 3 questions ((EXCEPT THE DIRRTY 1))are my questions..i just wanted to let you know..that i do think you are really hawtt..and i wanna get in touch with you ..like talk online..if U have AIM my s/n is PiNKCHiCLYFE..or my email address is portageechic19@yahoo.com..i'll be waiting for your responce on either 1 of those..;]

(( please don't respond thru here because i don't want my email given out..thankie you))

xo0x (link)
hey, what up? i e-mailed you, i hope to hear back from you.


do u like big boobs or ass more?

;]

((i think ur WICKED hawtt)) (link)
no way you think i'm wicked hawtt.

both the boobs and the ass are equally important.

the boobs are more to look at and play with for fun, and the ass is a little more down to business.
i don't know though, i don't get much of either. none, really. i've seen 5 pairs of boobs, and i haven't got any ass, so my opinion is mostly just from looking.

hope i helped. give me some good feedback, tell me what you think about my answer.



okay..here it goes..((kinda longg))

me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now..and last night was our anniversary..it was also our first night "together"..yess..we waited a whole year..well..he suprised me..we had dinner at his apartment..he made it..and then he blindfolded me..and we went into his room..he took off the blindfold and the room was lit with candle light and the bed was covered in rose petals..it was like straight out of a movie..well..he closed the door..and came over to me..he started kissing me..and then started to lift my shirt..he unclipped my bra (( 36dd )) and he started rubbin them slowly..it felt soo good..then he started lickin and suckin my nipples..then i started takin off his pants..and i started suckin his cock..i started lickin the head slowly..get it all hot and wett..i made him soo hard..then we got on the bed..and he put it in me..missonary..it felt so0o good..he made me orgasm 3 times...in 1 NIGHT..it was the best sex i ever had..now i wanna suprise him..in the most sexiest way ever..any tips..i rate high =]

thankie you
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no, not really. i'm a virgin, so i got no experience at that.

but what you could do, is just jump on him randomly, when he's not expecting it.

ya know, if he's just watching tv, and you're cooking or something, you could bring him a plate of fruit or something and use the fruit as kind of a toy. that would be hott. you could return the favor and make him orgasm 3 times. lol.

hope i helped.


well..this is how it goes:(sorry if longg)
i am (15/f) and i am possibly in love with 1 of my good friends (18/m). one day, we were in his basement and we started to dance together..(nothing unusual) but this time he put on a slow song..CRAZY by KC & J0J0..he asked me to dance with him to that song..and of course..i said yes..so we started dancing together..and in the middle of the song,i looked into his eyes..and he looked into mine..and yes..we kissed..we stopped dancing..and i turned off his stereo..and was about to walk up the stairs to leave..I WAS IN TOTAL SHOCK..and he grabbed my hand..then picked me up and he kissed me..we were making out for about another 2 hours..and then he drove me home..the next day at skool..((me--sophmore..him--senior)) we were on the back stairs of the skool and he asked me if i wanted to skip with him and i said okay..we skipped skool and went to his house...we went into his bedroom and we were kissing..then thingsz started gettin hot and he reached under my shirt and started unclipping my bra. I let him do that..then he started rubbin my boobs..i let him do that too..i started unzipping his pantsz and yeh..it happend..we had sex..now we go out and we have been for 6 months..the thing is now..his ex-gf keeps calling him and he talks to her..

my question is:
am i losing my man as well as my bestfriend?


sincerely,
confusedddddd (link)
i doubt it. as long as you give him what he wants, he will probaly stay with you. and since he made the first move, he wants you. so, i would say no, let him talk to her.


i have this friend that i really like...and i wanna show him how much i like him..if you know what i mean ;]..anywaysz..he alwaysz talksz to me and he makesz it seem that he wants me that way too..and i really want him..i just want to suprise him..like an unexpected thing..the thing is..i have NO clue how to make that come about..and i really wanna get him hott and excited ;]...please..if you have any tips or tricks..please let me know..i rate high =]

thanks :] (link)
18m. if you just wanna tell him you like him: just KISS HIM. just out of nowhere, walk up and kiss him. with a little tongue. that will get him hot and excited and grab his attention so you can tell him what you want to.
if you're lookin' to fuck him, then the other people's advice is good. i wouldn't know about that,(still a virgin). but don't do it in front of his friends, it might embarass him, and he will get mad. wait 'til you're kinda alone. simple as that. let me know how it goes. slopez_87@yahoo.com


do guys like it better when girls shave "down there?" i've tried before w/ a razor but it stung sooo bad and i got razor burn horribly! does anybody know any ways you can shave w/ out it leaving bumps everywhere or stinging? thanks in advance! i rate 5s for good answers! (link)
18/m. i would prefer if she left the patch in the middle, and kept it trimmed short. just shave around the legs and i razor width to the inside of the legs. i guess just the bikini area or whatever, i don't know what u call it. but that's what i do.


hey boys this is ilovepink101..well im in the 8th grade and i need advice from the boys..
ok theres this guy i like his name is garrette..and i told him i liked him a couple of weeks ago..and he just totally started acting alot nicer and flirting..ALOT!!and i always wanted to ask him if he like me..but you know im kinda shy..but im the kinda gurl that i dont care what people think about me and my realationships..but garrett is a whole diffrent story..he cant go outr with girl like me because im not a jock or a prep..and he carse what his friends say about me..and i dont know what to do..so a coulple of days agao i told him ilkied him..and he said i know!i wasnt suprised..but im like do you like me..and hes said no..so heres my question..!!
he always touches me and puts his hands down my shirt and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and he just always FLIRTS WITH ME ALWAYS!!and i want to know if this sounds like he liks me..but he said that were just friends with benefits!!but i think he likes me!!and do you think i shouild sit around waiting for him evn though he dont supooslvley"dont like me"????i rate 5's on anyone..i just need help..helllllllllllllllllllllllllpppppppppppp!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette (link)
he likes your ass is what he likes. he told u, "we're just friends with benefits", and that's what he means. to him, you're just a booty call. sounds mean, but the truth hurts.


hi i am 17 and i have been taking birth control for three months. um i need help, okay i am getting off the pills and i just got off my period last week and now back on and i know it is because of the birth control, but the first day i did not take it i had sex with my boyfreind and he you know in me and we both asgreed on having a baby well o you think i could get prgnant please help me (link)
please don't get pregnant at 17.


So me and my boyfriend are having sex and hes been going in me cause im on the pill. Yea I know statistics so please dont lecture me... and we lost our virginity with each other... anyways question is, how do you keep everything in without it all leaking out?
I also get this discharge and when I orgasm its like a waterfall, so it gets everywhere.. how do i control that too? (link)
i wouldn't worry about controlling that discharge, that's just like the guys cum. i wish i had a girl like u, i'd love for a girl to cum all over me. that's hott.


ok well a guy is switching schools on friday so i wrote him a letter about how i feel but i signed it as anonymous. it tells exactly how i feel about him. shouldi leave it how it is or put my actual name on it plaese help. i rate high (link)
PUT YOUR NAME ON IT!!! if he doesn't know who it's from, then how will he know u want him? have some common sense.


my crush asked me to the halloween dance today. I accepted, but now im petrified. Im just really scared. WHAT IF EVERYTHING GOES WRONG... i dont know... what if ... geez, right now im freaked enough to believe that aliens can ruin this dance. i want everything to be perfect, but even still, in the mean time, how can i get rid of this... dance phobia thing ;) (link)
GET REALLY DRUNK!!! right before the party, get drunk ass tipsy. jk. don't do that. just do it. everyone else is pretty right, if he asked you, then he wants you. about dancing, a lot of guys don't dance, or know how to dance. if they do dance, it's usually ugly. just shake your ass and tits, and he will completely enjoy it. he won't be able to look away.


Recently me(14f) and my boyfriend(15m) broke up. We had plans to go to homecoming together, and everything so now that we are broken up I pretty much have NO date for homecoming, I do know a few people that like me... But I don't think any of them would want to go to homecoming on such short notice, but my friend wants me to go with their (her and her boyfriend) group of people including his extremely hot single brother, that thinks i am "Beautifully Stunning" so do i just see if he wants to go with me or sit this homecoming out? Please help xo (link)
DON'T SIT IT OUT. ASK THE HOT BROTHER. if he says that ur beautifully stunning, he wants u. either as a girlfriend or for a piece of ass, but either way, he wants u.


I hate my friend!he has been annoying me so much lately and not just me but every one else!today he was messing around and was trying to trip me up but i just didn't take any notice and didn't look at him but then he kicked me really hard and i hit my leg off the corner of the table!and instead of appologising he just laughed in my face!so i just turned around to him and said "you fucking prick!" i thought he was getting the idea that i didn't like him any more but now he's annoying me even more!!what should i do??? (link)
BEAT HIS ASS!!! no joke. next time he does something like that that hurts u, turn around and pop him right in the kisser.


hey I apologise if this is long :(
so i've got a feeling that some one i know is going to get with me on the freshers party! yay :D
I fancy him lots and i think he fancies me too!
But I want to know how I make him want me so much it hurts. Don't say all the usual stuff about if he likes you it wont matter lol.
I just want to make him feel like there's nothing to do apart from be with me.
So this party x & y are going out and z is the one i fancy lol.
so I want to turn up to this party looking drop dead gorgeous and i want him to go weak at the knees. Does anyone know a way i can definatley (sp?) make him want me?
any help please i rate 5's for everything unless its offending or un-useful (sp?)
thanks
xoxo (link)
KISS HIM!!! just out of nowhere, go up to him and kiss him, with extra tongue. that is sooo hottt. he'll be like "what the hell?", but then he'll be like, "damn, let's do it again". but DON'T DO IT IN FRONT OF ALL HIS FRIENDS. that could embarass him. when he's kinda alone, do it. trust me, i'm a guy, and if a girl did that to me, i would melt, IN MY PANTS!!!! lol.
buena suerte (good luck-in spanish) let me know how it goes. u can e-mail me at slopez_87@yahoo.com




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