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how to buck up a bit
my crush asked me to the halloween dance today. I accepted, but now im petrified. Im just really scared. WHAT IF EVERYTHING GOES WRONG... i dont know... what if ... geez, right now im freaked enough to believe that aliens can ruin this dance. i want everything to be perfect, but even still, in the mean time, how can i get rid of this... dance phobia thing ;)
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dont dance. dancing is "uncool". only slow dance with him. dress as something sexy. like a flapper or a french maid. good luck!
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ok girl, nothing will be perfect there will always be things out of your control that will try and mess things up. if things do mess up, say you trip and fall or bump into some one...laugh it off! just don't freak out and stuff b/c if you come across as if you are trying too hard, it might freak him out. just trust me on this one and don;t worry. if he likes you (as i suspect he does) he wont be upset if things out of both of your control mess things up. you need to take a deep breath and CALM DOWN! freaking out like that is not gonna make things any better trust me! best of luck and drop me one in my inbox if you need more help!
the future mrs. steven mark jones
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Being worried about something going wrong is definitely normal especially if you really like this guy. It's okay to be nervous. Once you get there you'll probably start to feel a lot better. Keep in mind though...it doesn't always have to be perfect. Perfection can be found in the oddest places and sometimes the most perfect night is so special just because it wasn't perfect. I know a girl who broke her heel at a dance once and she was so upset, but right after it happened her man carried her off of the dance floor like a prince in shining armor. They BOTH wore no shoes for the rest of the dance. It was so sweet of him and my friend had one of the best times of her life. I know that you will have a good time. He likes you and you like him, so go to that dance knowing that you're going to have a good time no matter what happens and you will!
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what if..
dont say that!
everything will go fine!
just go with the flow.
talk to your friends
just focus on what you want.
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GET REALLY DRUNK!!! right before the party, get drunk ass tipsy. jk. don't do that. just do it. everyone else is pretty right, if he asked you, then he wants you. about dancing, a lot of guys don't dance, or know how to dance. if they do dance, it's usually ugly. just shake your ass and tits, and he will completely enjoy it. he won't be able to look away.
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Don't worry about it! If he likes you, which I'm guessing he does since he asked you to the dance, then don't worry! It'll be fun!
♥ Melissa
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If you're so worried about this you shouldn't be it's normal yeah you like this guy alot. If he asked you to go then he's not asking for much except for you to show up and if he asked you he obviously likes the way you are and all so i don't think you should be scared be yourself and it'll be a good night for the two of you i promise. as for the dance phobia thing...then don't dance it's as simple as that or dance in your room every night until then you'll get used to it.
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Honey, I get what you're saying. But what you must already know is that everything in this night will not be perfect and everything within this night isn't going to go your way or just be right. There are going to obstacles that you're going to face and it's your choice and decision on how you handle them. You just need to be yourself and let nature or the party take its course. Trust me, everything will be alright and if it's not, then it's truly not ment to be and don't worry about it if it isn't. Just have fun. Try to be casual and just have fun. Don't worry about the dance because you may worry about it so much that it may actually become reality. Just chill.
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awww thats great that hes asked you to the dance! stop asking yourself "what if", youre only stressin yaself out girl! maybe if youre scared about the whole 'going with your crush' thing, get a group of your girly friends together and arrive at the dance with them. you can meet up with your partners when you get there and maybe you wont as be as scared! just relax hun! everything will go fine.
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have a great time!
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♥ taryn xo
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