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...are we still??
well..this is how it goes:(sorry if longg)
i am (15/f) and i am possibly in love with 1 of my good friends (18/m). one day, we were in his basement and we started to dance together..(nothing unusual) but this time he put on a slow song..CRAZY by KC & J0J0..he asked me to dance with him to that song..and of course..i said yes..so we started dancing together..and in the middle of the song,i looked into his eyes..and he looked into mine..and yes..we kissed..we stopped dancing..and i turned off his stereo..and was about to walk up the stairs to leave..I WAS IN TOTAL SHOCK..and he grabbed my hand..then picked me up and he kissed me..we were making out for about another 2 hours..and then he drove me home..the next day at skool..((me--sophmore..him--senior)) we were on the back stairs of the skool and he asked me if i wanted to skip with him and i said okay..we skipped skool and went to his house...we went into his bedroom and we were kissing..then thingsz started gettin hot and he reached under my shirt and started unclipping my bra. I let him do that..then he started rubbin my boobs..i let him do that too..i started unzipping his pantsz and yeh..it happend..we had sex..now we go out and we have been for 6 months..the thing is now..his ex-gf keeps calling him and he talks to her..
my question is:
am i losing my man as well as my bestfriend?
sincerely,
confusedddddd <3
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i doubt it. as long as you give him what he wants, he will probaly stay with you. and since he made the first move, he wants you. so, i would say no, let him talk to her.
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No I don't think you are losing anything but if she keeps calling ask him aobut it and if he seems like he is cheating or something like it talk to him
I don't think you have anything to worrie aobut
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Ok.Trust is important in a relationship. If you don't trust him and you confront him, he might get mad at you. But if you do confront him just ask him if he wantes to get back with his ex or be with you. I don't think your losing your boyfriend or your man. This girl probably knows that your dating him and is trying to get break you up and I wouldn't let her. Hope I helped.
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I dont thik your losing him but dont make him stop talking to his ex because then he'll think your untrusting and controlling.ex's like to stay in touch with past boyfreids its no big deal.Hope it helped!
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No, you aren't losing him. Most exes want to remain friends with their ex-boyfriend. Most do not go out screaming at each other and hating each other for the rest of their lives. That is what's happening here. That girl does not want him to go out with her, she just wants to stay friendly with that, and through the phone is one way to do that.
If you really feel strongly about it, go ahead and ask your boyfriend what he talks to her about, and if he has any interest in her. It never hurts.
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well it sounds like you and that guy had a very intimitate moment and it was pretty heavy and now you are in love .... have you had sex recently? because if so you arent losing him if he calls you when he said he will you arent losing him, if he tells you he loves you (recently and a lot) he is still in love with you....
if you are still worried ask him about it, say i feel we are losing touch with each other because you are talking to your ex's a lot and it makes me feel you may go back with etc.....
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no i dont think so. after people break up they still try ro keep things cool, you no like the gwen stefani song. i just got off the phone with my ex boyfriend and everything is cool.dont worry there probalby just reminicing on the past.
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NO first, you have to make sure its not just he jeauslously talking b/c if it is its no big deal. Has he been faithfull in the past with his ex did he cheat on her, has he cheated on you if so, all you have to do is ask him about it confront him be like "hey im not all uptight or anything but i was just wondering whats going on with you and your ex." Okay 2nd of all how di du find out she was calling him? If he told you then DO NOT WORRY because if he liked her he wouldnt tell you...hope this helped
<3 allie
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