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I was just wondering if any of you guys out there are seirous about this- Okay, I was wondering when should you start having sex? And please please be serious.
Thanks~ Jessica
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Jess-
I do not believe in sex before marrage.
Kelsa
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As everyone here has said, save it for your marriage. Now, on the more serious things, having sex, doesnt just affect you physically. it attacks your mentality too. The girls that were raped, they dont just regret the kidnapping and stuff, they also WERENT READY. if you have sex too young, you may regret it, and may have come to view sex as something horrible. so....wait till you are ready, LITERLLY. We dont want you going lala before you finish high school.
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Well, lots of people have different views on this, so now matter how many people say 'when you have found the right person and are ready' and 'save yourself until marriage', it is based on your decision, I personally would say when you're 15 and in love, and you have been in love with this person for nearly a year. Now, 15 is an age where if you are not careful, your consequences will be huge, so you have to think with your mind on the subject of sex, not with the part of your mind that loves him. When you're having sex, you're risking parenting basically. You have to remember this. Having sex sounds very great, and it is, its very nice to share something very intimate with someone, but if you aren't careful, you will be sharing a baby. So, you need to remember this, good luck.
-TheTeenGirl
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Jessica -
The right time to start having sex really depends on your personal preference. But first things first, safety risks, and responsibilities are top priority. Be sure to use some form of birth control (condoms, the pill, etc), be prepared to take on the possibility of the emotional attatchments that follow with sex, and be prepared for the consequences that might occur.
If you want to save it for the one you love, be sure you've been with the guy for a healthy 9 months or so at the least first. This shows that he respects your decision to wait. And if you've been together this long, you two probably work out fights well and get along. But be careful, once you lose your virginity to someone, you may tend to grow emotionally attached to them. Meaning if they leave you, you will be beyond devastated...
Be sure to take everything into consideration when thinking about sex. Remember that it can be one of the most wonderful things that has happened to you, or it can take a turn for the worse and fuck up your life. Sex is a powerful thing.
Think things through and good luck :)
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When you are old enough to accept the following responsiblities.....Being a mother,The possibility that you could get a disease that could change your life forever.Think about it very seriously before you do something that changes your life forever.
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I would say when you think you are actually going to get married to this person. Thats when and when things are pretty serios between you and this person-trix
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you need to go to a gynocologist and get tested for stds or hiv....
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You shouldn't have sex until YOU are ready. Do NOT let anybody pressure you into having sex.
♥Ren
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I would at least wait until I was legal.
♥ Always,
Maria
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