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♥ hellur! my name is ren, and i'm sixteen. i'm obsessed with everything music related, you have a music question, ask me. unless it pertains to country, rap, or pop. because that isn't my forte. ♥ i love everything emo.
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OK i need to download some good punk rock, emo, music
Will everyone give me 1 of your favorite song.. Just 1 please... your favorite one???????
Longest title in the world ;
The Only Difference Between Martyrdom And Suicide Is Press Coverage by Panic! At The Disco ♥ Ren
Hmm .. I want to make a new CD but I really don't know any songs. If anyone can, will you please list some songs for me that are like band music liek Fall Out Boy and All American Rejects. Thanks
Time to dance - Panic! At the Disco
Shimmy Shimmy - Hellogoodbye
Anything by Death Cab For Cutie, or The Spill Canvas ♥ Ren
i was typeing on my computer and i hit a key and it made all the print 5X's bigger. so if i go on a website all their print is much bigger than it should be . how can i undo this ?
On your internet browser, at the top it should say, "View," click that and it should say "Font size," or something to that affect, well, then if you click that you can fix it by selecting the right size. ♥ Ren
what's a way (that i dont have to buy anything for) to make my sagging boobs... not sag anymore. no stupid answers.
thanks
I can't think of a way to do it with out buying something, I'd personally recommend a new bra, and get it professionally fitted to you, it's been proven that we usually don't get the correct bra, because we don't think it fits right, when really, it does. ♥ Ren
I think I may be pregant, but have never had sex. What should I do?
-Sarah
You should have a a threesome with Mat && I. Then see if you're pregnant. :) Virgin Mary.
♥Ren
Hey , I have a question. I have this like lump sort of thing inside of my breast. I'm not sure what it is. I don't think that it is breast cancer.. but I really don't know what else it could be. Help please! I'm freaked out.
P.S. I'm 13.
For serious, you should check your breast three times a day, for 3 or 4 days, especially right after you get out/when you're in the shower. If you still feel the lump, have your mum take you to the doctor ASAP. You should just be growing in the breast area, it could be nothing to worry about. Hope I helped.
♥Ren
Okay Renzbee. There's a girl named Kassi at my school &&she accused me of saying stuff behind her back. And I admit that I did, but I apologized for it. So now she's ignoring me. But the part that bugs me is, that I only said that stuff to my bestfriend Courtney. And, she claims she didn't tell her. So, when I said alright. She accused me, of accusing her. &&I had Rissa in my away message like three times, and she also said I was trying to make her jealous &&feel like shit. What should I do? I've been friends with her for four years &&i don't think it's right that I should apologize when I didn't accuse her of anything or try to make her jealous. Help please dear?
Drugs are bad, mmkay? No, but..for serious, I'd talk to her and Kassi. I'd say, "Hey Kassi, who'd you hear that from? Did you hear it from Courtney?" The go to Courtney and says, "Look, I'm sorry that you think I'm accussing you of this, but Kassi told me she heard it from you, and you're the only person that I told it to. So you must have told Kassi or someone else who end up telling Kassi." Just something to that effect, don't badger it out of her, just simply ask. Hope that helps.
♥Ren
ok i've had sex numerous times (with the same person who ive been datin for a mad long time) but the problem is i have gotten my period this month and ive taken several pregnancy tests and they all came back neg. why havent i gotten it yet? i would talk someone but my mom would be so dissapointed because my sister had kids at an early age and i'm her "last hope" please tell me wats wrong
You could just be late, I have an immature ovary and haven't had a period for 1 year. My case isn't normal, yours is. You're fine, just late :)
♥Ren
My best friend has been dating my ex boyfriend.She decided that she wants to dump him(thanx to me being her wake-up call), but she doesn't want to hurt him. How can I make her listen? He's a jerk, but she thinks it's her fault! She needs to hear me out. We are both 14 and he is 16. Help!
You should sit her down and say, "Hey, this is what happened with him and me," then tell her that she shouldn't worry about hurting his feelings because in the end, everyone will be happier. If she's to the point where she wants to break up with him, she can't be happy. So, if she breaks up with him, in the end she'll be happier not being in a relationship she doesn't want to be in. Plus, she's only fourteen, she's got her whole life ahead of her to break boys hearts. :)
♥Ren
i cant stop cracking my nuckles and their already all swollen and stuff and i know theyll hurt alot when im older if i dont stop but i dont know how. does anyone know how to stop cracking nuckles? ill rate! please help!
I learned this from a magazine. If you can stop doing something, anything, for 7 days, your body will just "forget" about it and you wont feel that you HAVE to do it anymore. I tried this with several things, cracking my knuckles included. It really works. Hope I helped.
♥Ren
Would making eye contact a lot and smiling at each other because we are both shy count as liking each other? It's just a simple question that I need the answer to. Please tell me.
I will rate the first people to give me an answer.
Well, really it all depends on if you like the person, no one can tell you if you like someone. Like me or anyone else saying, "You don't like him/her," isn't going to change how YOU feel about the person. You have to talk to the person and tell then what's up if you like them. Hope I helped! ♥ Ren
My dog farts. :(
...And how does that make you feel? Do you think that maybe you'd take him/her into the Vet and get an arse plug? Omg, Mat, you're great!
♥Ren
anyone know any sites i can download free music at if you do please help me thx!
www.download.com then search for bearshare or limewire.
♥Ren
I like a guy that just moved to my school this year. I dont know him to much and i want to get to know him more and tell him how i feel. But i'm shy. ive called him, wrote letters, we talk at school. And i even asked him 2 hang out next weekend. Thats kinda a start. The problem is telling him how i feel. im scared. what should i do? and i never really dated b4 so um yeah.
Love yaz ren lol
Rain14-Ashley from kiwi
If I were you, I'd invite him to go bowling or something, so if you run out of things to say, there's always the game to talk about. Just talk to him for a little bit, and maybe once a week go hang out with something, make sure you get to know him before you "confess yourself" to him.
♥Ren
Does anyone know anything you can do to get rid of kanker sores. thanks in advance.
Gargle (sp?) salt water. It's gross, but it works.
♥Ren
What does two stepping mean?
It's a hip hop dance. As in the Ciara, I think that is who it is, I don't listen to rap/hip hop/r&b, video. 1, 2, step.
♥Ren
Do you think it would be ok for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? he's really responsible.
Personally, for me that's a tad bit old. It depends on the maturiosity of the two & what their parents say/suggest.
♥Ren
I was just wondering if any of you guys out there are seirous about this- Okay, I was wondering when should you start having sex? And please please be serious.
Thanks~ Jessica
You shouldn't have sex until YOU are ready. Do NOT let anybody pressure you into having sex.
♥Ren
ok my parents seriosly hate each otha and idk y!they always swear at each other and i cant take it nymore!!i cant sleep at night because they r always fighting!!wat do i do???i need advice!!
I'd deffinitly ask the parent that you're closer to aside and say, "Look, I can't just sit here and listen to/watch you guys argue at eachother. I need to know what's going on, because I can't sleep at night not know what is going one." Or something along those lines.
♥Ren
One of my good friends, Libby, is a HUGE FLIRT! Last night, we went ice skating and she flirted with just about every guy there! She always goes up to them b4 any1 can reach them.... and sum me n my other friends like! Wat do i do?
---TinkerBelle---
I'd have a little one-on-one chit chat with her. Tell her she's acting like a complete flirt and that you think she should tone it down a bit. Tell her that you aren't the only person that thinks so.
♥ Ren