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She won't listen
My best friend has been dating my ex boyfriend.She decided that she wants to dump him(thanx to me being her wake-up call), but she doesn't want to hurt him. How can I make her listen? He's a jerk, but she thinks it's her fault! She needs to hear me out. We are both 14 and he is 16. Help!
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tell her what a jerk he is just straight up tell her and then ..have her tell him that its just not working out
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Well if she really wants to dump this guy, then just tell her it's not right to be going out with a guy out of pitty or feeling sorry for him! When he realizes that's exactly what she did to him, his feelings are going to be hurt even more!
♥ Always,
Maria
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You should sit her down and say, "Hey, this is what happened with him and me," then tell her that she shouldn't worry about hurting his feelings because in the end, everyone will be happier. If she's to the point where she wants to break up with him, she can't be happy. So, if she breaks up with him, in the end she'll be happier not being in a relationship she doesn't want to be in. Plus, she's only fourteen, she's got her whole life ahead of her to break boys hearts. :)
♥Ren
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