i am recovering from a recent break-up and i cover up my feelings by acting tough and like i dont care but i really do.i really liked that guy.but now he's a jerk because whenever im around him and we're around other people he acts like he hates my guts and starts saying these things about me but when we're alone he's really nice and just yesterday he declared he wanted to come to my EXCLUSIVE party im having even though he said ,in front of his friends when i invited him, i dont give a shit...it's confusing me?what is he trying to tell me?help please!
SakuraSong answered Friday October 7 2005, 9:27 pm: Ah, another guy that bends to other peoples. Dump him, don't even LOOK at him, and tell him that he is never to talk to you. Or else.
You see, talking to him will only open it wider. You have to restrian youreself, no matter how much you like him, and let yourself go. Any sign of meanness to you, no matter how nice he is to you otherwise, is still being mean for NO REASON. I don't know about one's feelings, since I never had something like that, but coming from a third-person's view, just don't come into contact with him anymore. Don't let him in your party, or anything. Forget him, and move on. I mean, you broke up for a reason right? That's a first sign that you shouldn't continue anything romanctic with him, even if he had changed. This is not the time for a second chance. [ SakuraSong's advice column | Ask SakuraSong A Question ]
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