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Do I like him?


Question Posted Wednesday March 16 2005, 8:17 pm

One of my best guy friends who calls me all the time (like literally every 2 minutes) well my best friend told me that he likes me but i didnt believe her and then he told me he did and i just thought of him as my friend so i was like no and then he got a girl friend and it hurt me and i think i'm just in denial cuz i do have feelings for him. Do y'all think I have feelings for him?

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*~Brittany~* answered Friday March 18 2005, 2:47 am:
well yea finding that out just hit you so hard at first you said no its not like that between us and then when you figure it out that he likes you that you might want to be with him so i say yes you have feelings for him but the fact that he has a girl means he didn't have really strong feeings for you not to be mean.....................

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TeenageCupid answered Thursday March 17 2005, 8:57 am:
yes, I think, no...Im sure you do. If you didnt have feelings for him then why did you get hurt when he got a gf? Right now yu cant go tell him you like him cause it would be selfish. If he breaks up with his gf, wait for the right moment to tell him that you have feelings for him.

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TheTeenGirl answered Thursday March 17 2005, 2:45 am:
Well, I'm not sure if you do have feelings for him, but you did feel sure that you had only thought of him as a friend before, so maybe you aren't in denial, and it probably hurt you because, when he found out you didn't want him in that way, he just got another girl, which means that he wants to get away from you, and doesn't handle rejection well, but, a guy friend getting a girlfriend means sharing more of their time with their girlfriend, and to tell you the truth, if you find out that you want him, its not too late, I can tell you that, he is just seeing this girl, because he thinks that if he dates somebody else, he will get over you, but it never works, its a common mistake in sad break ups, but can also happen in hooking up, but, only you know if you like him, if you think about him kissing you, or holding you in his arms a lot, and you feel good, you probably like him, but, if you feel nothing, and you're glad that you are just friends, then you may not, but only you know this.




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SaraEliKirk answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 11:41 pm:
I was in the same situation awhile back, theres just something nice about having a guy around just as friends, theres nothing wrong with being a little jealous that another gurl has taken some of his time, noone can tell you if you have feelings for him except you, listen to your heart and whatever it tells you is what i think you should go by! *:*SaRa:*:

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some_girl answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 10:57 pm:
yes, yes I do. Hint around to tell him that your interested, or whether he's interested. If you know he's interested still, tell him. Then he can make the choice whether he wants to dump his girlfriend, or stay with her. You'll never know till you put it out there.

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karenR answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 10:19 pm:
of course you do! You can love people as a friend and not want an intimate relationship with them.Being jealous is natural too.Because he has someone else to spend time with and talk to now..besides you. Don't worry about it much.If you feel the same after the current gf is history give it a try.

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SugaHigh answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 9:56 pm:
It sounds like you guys have feelings for each other. But if you're asking, you may not be ready to fly in the lovely dating game with him yet. Talk to him about maybe going out in the future. If you are jealous, or upset, that he has a girlfriend you need to let him know.

hope it helps hun

L A S H A N D A

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iNdEeD2isBaK answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 9:05 pm:
maybe your just a lil jealous that hes not giving you the attention he used to give you! so maybe maybe not you decide!
hope i helped
♥ indeed2

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Drama_Secretary answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 9:02 pm:
Yes, I do! Isn't it funny how we don't realize our feelings until something unexpected happens. I wouldn't blame you though. Most girls do fall for their best friends, and they tend to find out when they least expect it. Well good luck, and don't try anything now that he has a g/f. He'll probably break up with her sooner or later, then that's your chance.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 8:59 pm:
Yes. It's usual to deny it when you have feelings for someone who is a really good friend to you. Don't worry it's common. It's not wrong to feel this way. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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