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i have this friend and we are really good friends. I am a 15 year old guy and she is a 14 year old girl. She wants me but i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards. I dont want that to happen. How can i tell her this without hurting her feelings?
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okay what i think you should do is take it easy if this girl really likes you then like her back and people fight no matter if yall are going out or not so if she takes it a little to far and you dont feel comfortable then talk to her and if yall go out since she likes you maby yalls relation ship will go up more try it and see what happens hope i helped
_______ brittany
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It shouldnt hurt her feelings. Just tell her exactly how you feel. She should understand. You'd probably be better as friends like you said. Dont worry she'll get over you theres other guys in the sea. Just, dont say anything to her but if she says to you like do u wanna go out be like no thanks.she might be exspecting you to ask her out, but you dont have to.
Brina~
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lol good question, girls tell me this all the time, if u like her then go out with her, and if she reely likes you than if you break up then she wouldnt hate you because she likes you so much, if you dont like her then just dont tell her that you might not be friends afterwards because guys and girls are sick of hearing that they kno wut it truly meens even if it doesnt, they think it meens you dont like them in a sensitive way, just tell her the truth, freindship is more of a good thing than a relationship at that moment with her. good luck
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WOW!your a caring guy..you'r actually concerned about her feelings(sorry its just that ive never met any guy who actally gave a shit)but to answer your question be like:look i care a lot about you but as a friend, i dont want anything to ruin our friendship so i just wanted to tell you im not interested to be anything more because i dont want to lose what we already have.and say it in a nice tone...that will convince her and she wont be hurt(at least i wouldnt).hope i helped
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Well being only 15 i really dont think your ready for a serious relationship and most of the time wouldnt recommend it if you were 45. Im not gonna tell you that it wouldnt work though, alot of ppl stay together that long, but its likely that you wont be with 1 person throughout your whole high-school career! If your really good friends, then just tell her like you told me and she'll understand, dont lead her on, just tell her that you dont wanna lose her as a friend and if yall broke up that you wouldnt want things to be weird!
*:*SaRa:*:
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Just tell her what you're telling us! ..Unless you're feeling the same way about her, then ask her out and see where it goes from there..good luck ;-)
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my...''brilliant answer'' is to tell her how you fell... she wants to know..i would if i was her... tell her shes like a sister to you ( that always works) and tell her you dont wanna not be friends because of something that happend in a relationship... that would be silly anyways.. i hope that helps... if you need to talk about it more.. i think i have a profile thing in here somwheres.. or e-mail me... TIffanyic@hotmail.com
~*~Tiffany~*~
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Tell her how you feel. You should stick to what you feel if she is your friend she will understand..
xoxo
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Tell her exactly how you feel. just let her know that you care about her, and your friendship, she should understand. But if you do like her thatw ay, take a chance with it. If you guys are good friends even if you break up you could still be friends
L A S H A N D A
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you just tell her.Be very nice about it.Tell her you love her so much as a friend you just can't take the chance of anything going wrong.
She will probably be a little embarrassed by it all but she will get over it. It could work out and you could remain friends if it didn't but if you don't want to chance it (at this time anyway!) just let her know.
The best relationships are between people who are the best of friends....Just for future reference!:}
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OH MY GOSH TELL HERT HOW U JUST TOLD US DUH!!!LOL. simply say . . ."i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards and I dont want that to happen."
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I wouldn't tell her anything. I would just act differently around her..more friendly rather than touchy touchy..ya know? Physical contact is what normally makes a girl think that you like her. Even being too friendly! And if you like her but you're just scared that you might ruin a friendship, then just know that you won't ruin this friendship unless you truly hurt her like cheat on her or break up with her for another girl!
♥ Always,
Maria
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girls take the "i dont want to hurt the friendship" as "i really dont like you". so im sorry but i think no matter what you tell her she will take it like that... so the only thing you can do is try but be aware of how she will take it. and anothere thing- dont tell her unless you she asks u out or something.. hope i helped
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Just tell her what you just said. Tell her that you like her ( if you do ) and that if you guys ever went out and if something happened that you guys might not end up being friends anymore and that you dont want to risk that happening. She will understand but she might be a lil hurt . x0
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With girls, rejection is pretty hard, expeccially from a guy we like alot! So put it into terms she'd understand, how you value yalls friendship and it means too much to risk being together.
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Hey...i had that same situation with my best guy friend....i liked him, and he liked me but we both decided not to be together cause if anything would of happened like we would break up or anything....we were afraid that we wouldnt be friends anymore...so we justed moved on and stayed friends..
Just tell her that you like her but were too good of friends to jeperodize that...and if we had to go out and then break up i couldnt handle not being friends anymore...
Hope I helped:) .xox
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