i like to wear my hair up in a bun or pony tail but my mom is soooo annoying about it. she says that i hav beautiful hair and i should wear it down. i keep telling her wen i wear my hair down i get really hot (like today i got out of the shower and i felt sick i was so hot). any suggetions?
karenR answered Monday March 7 2005, 7:32 am: I think you should wear your hair whichever way is comfortable for you. Maybe once in awhile wear it down to make your mom happy.Do you take really hot showers? Just wondering because if you take one that is too hot it can make you queasy when you get out. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
but my hair does look better down. try to straighten or curl your hair or something, that way maybe you will like it down more.
with me, once i wore it down a lot, i liked it more, eventhough i always knew that it looked better.
i keep a pony tail holder with me on my wrist all the time, so if my hair gets in my way or if it gets hot, i can put it up, but when i do, i just use my hands, and dont make it too tight, so that when it comes down there isnt a line.
JadedinNowhere answered Sunday March 6 2005, 6:40 pm: have you ever tried doing a half up half down thing, where the top half is up, but you still have hair down on your shoulders in the back and sides. You don't get AS hot because believe me, I know what that's like. I have really long hair and I hate wearing it down because I feel so suffocated.. There really isn't anything you can do except keep telling her, and saying that it really isn't her choice and that if she wants to wear her hair down then she can. It really isn't her buisness how you wear your hair. [ JadedinNowhere's advice column | Ask JadedinNowhere A Question ]
Browny4541 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 6:09 pm: Explain calmly to your mom that you would just rather have your hair up! It's YOUR hair, and you can do w/e u want with it! If she dosen't listen, then wear your hair down, then when you get to school go to the bathroom and simply put it up!
XxSwEeTtArTxX answered Sunday March 6 2005, 4:53 pm: ummm...ya. i like to wear my hair up and my mom gives me problems about it too. just don't listen to her... tell her that's the way you want it and that's the way it's gunna stay.... as for the getting hot thing, maybe you could get a hair cut? cz i know from experience that after i get my hair cut from being really long that everything cools down a bit. hope i helped! [ XxSwEeTtArTxX's advice column | Ask XxSwEeTtArTxX A Question ]
peaches_n_cream552 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 2:44 pm: thats really weird because my mom says the same thing about me. Victoria your hair is sooooo beautiful you should wear it down. bla bla bla. tell her its your hair and let her kno that your hot when its down and you dont like it down. if she understands you she will let you do wut you want to with your hair.
hoped i helped
Jo answered Sunday March 6 2005, 2:36 pm: Wear it down. Then, when you die of fever, haunt her foreeevverr. [ Jo's advice column | Ask Jo A Question ]
Teza answered Sunday March 6 2005, 2:08 pm: Its your hair and she shouldnt care how you wear it. You should wear it how ever you like it. Keep it down sometimes or maybe you could get it a lil cut so you dont get so hot. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Sunday March 6 2005, 1:57 pm: Tell your mom that. If she starts saying oh but your hair is so pretty wear it down tell her you like it up. Show her this question and tell her that it really bigs you that she always tells you to wear your hair up. She may be offended at first but she'll realize that it really doesn't matter. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
luckycharm answered Sunday March 6 2005, 1:57 pm: well maybe you could cut your hair shorter... idk how long it is now but if its really long get some long layers and some length off to lighten it up... or oyu could do styles like a half pony
hope i helped!
--lucky [ luckycharm's advice column | Ask luckycharm A Question ]
Peachgirly answered Sunday March 6 2005, 1:27 pm: tell her that itz your hair and your choice on what you want to do with your hair. and that itz not her hair. also tell her that u feel sick when u get hot. [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
Twitch69 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 1:17 pm: Tell her to phluck off and do what you want. Or get your hair cut so it can be down and you wont die from being so hot... have fun! [ Twitch69's advice column | Ask Twitch69 A Question ]
shelby answered Sunday March 6 2005, 12:57 pm: its ur hair who cares what ur mom thinks, my mom used to do that to me all the time! just try to ignore her. [ shelby's advice column | Ask shelby A Question ]
amore05 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 12:53 pm: Hey,
well tell you mom that whenever your hair is down its too hott for you and you dont like it. but tell her that some days youll have it down like whenever its cooler outside just to make her happy:)
hope i helped.
xcuriousx0 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 12:40 pm: Well..i have the same problem...i wear my hair up on warm days and down on cool days and im just fine...and my mom stops complaining... [ xcuriousx0's advice column | Ask xcuriousx0 A Question ]
xoxlilshortyxox answered Sunday March 6 2005, 12:18 pm: Tell her it's your hair and it is too hot to keep it down but sometimes when you go out with you mom wear it down or like if you go to a fancy dinner or something. Also you could wear your hair half up and half down so you both have your way.
Thats fine that you like to wear it up, you should tell your mom that is suits you and that style is YOU. Mabye you should wear your hairdown when going out places with your parents. then your mother is satisfied. My hair is kinda long too but i think the reason why you feel hot with your hair down is because you wear it up too much that you are not used to it on the back of your neck. In the summer time it might be better to wear it up more often, but in the winter its good to wear it down to keep your face warm. and no one says you have to wear it completely down :). You can wear it half up, or use clips or barrets to hold pieces that get into your face :)
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
XxRockon answered Sunday March 6 2005, 12:10 pm: haha that same exact thing happens between me and my mom too...just try and disreagard her and do what you want..its your hair and you can do what ou want with it..if she keeps bothering you just say i know but i like it this way.and somtimes ill wear it down if i want to. [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 12:03 pm: you should pull it up if thats how you want to wear it. its your hair. tell her to leave you alone about it, try suggesting one day how you think she should wear her hair. when she says that its her hair and she doesnt have to listen to you about that, tell her thats exactly how you feel. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
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